There are probably a good number like this on Backpage [among the hundreds of ads] or servicing sidewalks. Clients who look for the lowest price are likely to meet up with their fair share of addicts.
I book well reviewed girls and don't search for bargains. I pay 300 and thereby don't meet up with any drunks, druggies, or duds. Do your homework in advance. I consider it a pleasure not a burden to read reviews and websearch phone numbers...etc. Try reading the blogs of $500+/hour girls and you will see a whole different world.
DT. I agree with you about the BP girls but if you read the posts and look at the providers that are members of that site, they are not BP type girls. Hence, my question. Really for providers. I have heard that some high end providers have to "get up" for a session but I don't know if that is even common or what
Abusing alcohol or drugs has nothing to do with one's economic status or income. It's ignorant to think just because a lady charges over $300, she's not secretly drinking before you enter her incall. There are several tricks to mask the smell so that clients never know.
It's unfortunate, and when gals find themselves in that position, it's best to quit, because it only gets worse. I've seen it happen....
There are plenty of $500+ hour girls with alcohol and drug problems...
Just just like the rest of the real world population where soccer moms have clandestine coke problems and your colleague is maybe a functioning alcoholic.
I've seen a $600 hour girl fall down in public sloppy drunk on a double date with me and a client (she cleaned out the mini bar each time we worked together on other occasions) and have heard of others smoking crack, meth, shooting dope under their toenails to avoid track marks.
Price doesn't mean you're not meeting a girl with issues but it may mean you're meeting someone who is higher functioning and better capable of hiding her issues.
Not everyone in the business just loves fucking strangers for money or is emotionally equipped to deal with it. Some come into the business because of addictions and some develop them. There is only way to be certain that you're seeing a girl who doesn't have these sorts of problems:
Time. Most can only hold up the facade for long until the cracks begin to show.
As a client all you can so is enjoy yourself with women who seem to be reasonably healthy.
I do not need to have a drink before meeting a client. In fact, I would rather be 100% myself before meeting any new person. I'm not a solitary drinker.
Once I have met a client, if our chemistry is good, I can enjoy a glass of wine along with him as a pleasant help in getting acquainted (from his sips as much as mine). I sometimes offer a French Bordeaux if I already know my client. Usually a client will bring a bottle ... but it is more a ceremonial grace note than a needed lubricant. A new friend suggested a Hobbs Pinot Noir or a Frank Family Pinot. He gave great descriptions! I am looking forward ... to him more than the wine LOL. But maybe I will taste the Hobbs "prominent cherry and blackberry notes" he describes on his lips? I just say this last bit to show that wine can play a totally different role than a medicinal one!!! Please! We enjoy social interaction too! And wine is not needed. "Drink to Me Only with Thine Eyes!" Johnny Cash sings it beautifully. Sweeter than wine
I only saw 4 posts, did not look any further, or see any girls I recognize.
Alcohol and drugs affect all levels of society. I live in an affluent town and know drugs are all around, especially in the high-school age group. I think you will find providers walking the streets will have a much higher rate of addiction problems than others. The "group/category" of girl I see tend to be hard working and more or less in control of their lives. I can say this with plenty of "hands on" experience. I can't say much about the $500+/hr girls because I have never met one in person. I have read some interesting blogs. I also read about wealthy actors...musicians dying of overdose. Obviously all levels of society are affected to some degree.
so that she could deal with the pressure of the job. She was never out of control, that is to say, she never came off as drunk. In any case, I keep in touch with her via a blog she has, and I don't see that her drinking is causing her any specific problems.
I've known at least three other gals who battled alcoholism. Two ended up in AA and are pretty much sober to this day. Neither provides anymore. I'm not sure about the third, but I hope she has it under control. I don't think their drinking was directly linked to their work, but rather was a result of social drinking.
If the gal in the article has clients who don't notice that she has passed out, then I think she has other problems to deal with here as well.
Vanessa- a Paul Hobbs Pinot was the first expensive bottle of wine I purchased in 2003. I drank it 4 years ago and it was delicious. have since moved to Burgundy, since I now prefer the old world style. but sharing that wine with a Client should be a real turn on! Have hadvyou on my radar for while; now more so!
Personally I enjoy what I do! Then again I also take pride in what I do! Anyone in any profession that feels they have to drink to make it through the day is sad!! That type of alcohol use puts everyone at risk....in this profession a girl leaves herself open to arrest, (Careless screening, noticeable behavior by hotel staff etc) robbery, physical abuse and even death! If a girl has to drink before working she also would have feelings of guilt and degradation, who wants to feel that way about your work!! I don't feel dirty or used! I feel I have done a good job, you leave with a smile and happy thoughts all day! I leave feeling sexy and desirable and capable of supporting my family!! Now I do enjoy a drink now and then and have shared a bottle of wine with a friend or two but at my discretion!
I have met gals who drink prior to and after each appointment and I have met ladies who don't touch a drop. This is a business like any other and drinking while seeing clients can alter your judgment and make you privy to a slew of issues. We each make our own decisions and conduct ourselves as we feel suits us best. I personally do not imbibe. I need to be in control of my faculties and safety at all times. I prefer not to take any risks that could cause me undue burden.
Other ladies choose differently and I do not begrudge them. I am naturally kinky, fun and sensual I don't need anything to get me going before we meet. I look forward to my sessions with the anticipation of a horny teenage boy. No substances necessary. Grace
Vanessa hit it spot on. I may enjoy a glass of wine during my date, but I never drink to excess. Not only is it unprofessional, but it's also not safe.
......drinking alcohol even on a hobby date is really, really, REALLY rare. TBH I MIGHT have a (as in one) drink tops a week. I don't need anything to get me by or through an appointment but a good attitude lol. I'd quit the day I needed to start drinking or drugging up to deal.....that's some sad shit.
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