If you can afford to hobby you can afford VIP.  Buy short term if you must and then review to keep it active.

The savings are immense.

Do your research and dive in, the water is warm and wonderful.

The gals you've met just haven't clicked with you yet, and vice versa.

But eventually you will meet the right one and when you do, hang on to her.

Some folks are a bit choosier in the relationship department and while it takes a while to find the right one, the benefits are well worth it.

Happy hunting.

Hey everyone. So, here's where I'm at. I've been in the hobby for 2 1/2 years now. In that time, I've had difficulty finding a really sexy, passionate provider. Outside of escorts and agencies, occasionally I'll also frequent the RI strip club scene and AMPs. In all my experiences, it's been difficult to find what I'm looking for. Most girls are very pleasant, nice, talkative, but the actual session is, well, kind of mechanical, when I'm looking for down and dirty. I'm finding a lot girls don't like to kiss, they barely make an effort to touch me at all, it's leaving me kind of gun shy about it. Because what's been happening is, I can't stay hard. Then I feel bad, the girls feel awkward and the whole scene just gets weird. I'm a big believer in the whole 'the largest sex organ is the brain' thing. And if the girl doesn't make an effort to seduce me or get me going mentally- in other words I'm not getting lost in the fantasy- then I can't get hard no matter how hot and sexy she is physically.
I don't think it's me. I'm attractive, thin, in great shape, very polite, nice, I dress nice, clean shaven, shower when I get there, trimmed in all the right areas, have respect for all protocols, fresh breath, the whole deal. So, where are all the passionate, take charge kind of girls? Do they exist? It's also tough just being a basic member on TER. Being a VIP would help, I'm sure, but right now I just can't afford it. I tried to bite the bullet and just go for one, just to get a review in, but the review was rejected, so I'm back at square one. I had an opportunity to see someone on Sunday but decided not to, because I was afraid the same scenario was going to happen. So now I don't know what to do.
Any insight would be appreciated. Thanks everyone for listening to my rant!

Be sure to screen their reviews for the word 'gfe' and look for girls with reviews from guys who give lots of reviews. Eventually you'll find a reviewer who you agree with, spot on. Then meet girls that he enjoyed.
Kisses and Good Luck,
Katie

Too bad you havent seen me.... let me know if you ever come to Charlotte!
BTW I send private pictures of me by email!

I think you have been looking in all the wrong places honey. I've been under your nose for every bit of those years wasted, lol. feel free to check me out, especially since you come to Providence anyway, only thing don't tell people you flaked on a visit, you will def not see a great provider then.

Love, Joi

ladies have you seen over that time?

As Foodyguy said, if you can afford to hobby at some level, you can afford VIP.  In fact, you can't afford NOT to have VIP here.  While there are many exceptional ladies with NO presence here (and I have seen a couple, and they were exceptional), attempting to operate without the benefit of reviews is like flying in the clouds with no instruments.

So, for 2-1//2 years you've been running that way.  You gotta change the way you run.  Increase your probabilities for some mind-altering sex by researching who you're seeing.

I'm sure there are dozens of ladies her who, provided you can be screened for their safety, would be thrilled to take you to new heights.

Thanks for the help/encouragement. You're exactly right Chelsea- I do see girls who say "gfe" but they're really not. So that fools me. Also, I think I should say that I didn't actually book anyone for a date a few days ago and then pull a NCNS. I would never ever do that! I just had the time/money to do something and was planning on giving someone a shot before deciding not to call anyone. Just want to be clear on that!