I have a question regarding "Greek" culture.  It has been my experience that most ladies would like prior notice regarding the POSSIBILITY of this beautiful language taking place so they may better prepare themselves should a discussion in this language occur during a session.  I have recently been villified in an email for suggesting, again in an email, that I may prefer to visit this area should it be available.  I have NEVER hounded or tried to force this act on a provider in any way in well over a decade of the hobby and have never acted in person, or through email in anything but a gentlemanly manner and I ALWAYS defer to the woman whom I am meeting with as to whether such matters are available or not.  (Sorry for the long rant as this has bothered me quite a bit as I've NEVER had a provider question my intentions or question my etiquette in this area - as a matter of fact I've reviewed said provider in the past in 2005 & she received a 9/9 & never complained about my review until an email I received today!!!!! Amazing how some providers forget the people who they saw at the start of their career once they have 20+ pages of reviews! - Again sorry for the rant) My question then is would you prefer that a client allude to a greek meal prior to the session or not? And YES I UNDERSTAND all of the variables regarding this act such as size etc and YES I am a man who enjoys being with a lady who is enjoying herself and absolutely abhor the thought of causing pain.  (No S&M for me - Not my bag baby) So if any ladies can comment on this it would help clear this up for me.  And again with nearly a 100 reviews and the opportunity to have written well over a couple 100 more I am NOT a newbie.  Thanks for your help beautiful ladies of Boston!

...Without minimizing or neglecting another provider's feelings, it all appears to be a very private discussion which has turned into a public drama.

I know that I have seen you many times over the past couple of years and that Greek is an interest of yours.

I also know that given our familiar relationship I have never had an issue letting you know when I was not prepared or excited about the prospect of catering to that interest.  
You have always reassured me when it wasn't required or given me a playful heads up when it was your desire.  You've never pressured or hurt me and I had no issues with your review describing something that is very much YMMV for me.  

You are the consummate gentleman to both me and my friends & a pleasure to be with; I really don't think that you should second guess yourself over a problem which I believe could have been neutralized and resolved privately.

As far as new guests go, my rates are structured with a premium for it and sessions in which it is expected of me are referred to "Torrid Affair" - when that crosses my inbox I know when to prepare without the discomfort or red flag of being told or asked.  
When I don't feel like it, I plainly say that session is unavailable & crop up to reschedule when I'd like to play that way.
It is a client's responsibility to be prepared and well-researched.
For the escort who charges premium rates it is her responsibility to ensure that there is no ambiguity, misunderstanding or feelings of disappointment by clearly advertising what is actually offered and patiently declining requests that she is uncomfortable with, working behind-the-scenes to resolve why she receives so many requests for something that she doesn't advertise as a specialty or interest.

It's really that simple.

To take it a little further this board should not be so explicit! we are not the only one reading it and it is either careless or reckless to ask for as a hobbiest, or for a provider to answer yes or no other than in private. Guy's join TER and get private mail keep this off the front board.

Personally I never enjoyed greek, luckily I've remained out of prison and while I can say I understand these ladies hesistation I am glad I cannot say "I feel your pain"

Where is Mr. Robinson when you need him

At this pointthis issue is becoming what it always was.. a pain in the ass

not appreciated by me.  

I realize some ladies allow such behavior, but I certainly don't.  Anything put into writing has the potential to fall into the wrong hands, and therefore to be *misinterpretted* that illegal services are being exchanged.  Any mention, in code or otherwise, of direct sexual contact, arousal or gratification will result in refusal of my services.

Regards,

xoMegan

I'm not sure when a board for hobbyists suddenly became ruled by the providers for what's kosher and what isn't. Until the provider jumped in here, you have multiple 9/9 reviews in 2005, so you didn't ID her on the board. She has 40 pages of reviews, so your 20 pages comment also didn't point directly to her.

As far Greek Isles visits, many providers mention visits there and charge extra. I don't find an email from you to a provider asking about such a visit to be a big deal given you previously met the providers.

I'm with you here Boner - you did nothing wrong from my viewpoint.