Have you ever fallen for a client,  fallen to the point where it's really not a business relationship anymore.  And when and if you feel yourself slippin, do you put on the emergency brake, and slam it into reverse.  I can imagine that there are times......... where it can happen...........like fallin off a log.

We spend time with many interesting men and some clients we have been intimate with often over the course of yrs, we like them as ppl may even be attracted to them...shit happens.

I myself took a client relationship of 4yrs off the clock and he's now my SO for the last yr.  So yes it does happen.

Mostly I try to keep things seperate, can't always do that though.

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Especially if you see them often.  but it can be a friendship too.

Its happened to me.

Into a warm swirling rapid of passion and lust and confusion and desire...and it drags you downstream faster than you can react and you both put on the emergency brake but it fails and just makes you need each other that much more, and so you slam it into reverse but it lurches forward anyway despite all reason, until you are left soaked and fragile and exhausted and happier than you ever imagined, but needing more- like shakey teenage addicts.  And it gets to the point where lives will change, and others will be affected, and so one must stop it, no matter how badly we want it to continue...

Oh wow- this isnt personal is it? Just guessing of course- lol- but imo falling can happen anywhere/anytime and even to the best of us, sometimes even the best business pro can be caught offguard, i would guess ?

There are clients I find attractive for different reasons, sometimes its physical other times its mental. But I have to remember the reality of where we are. This is a hobby and I am your fantasy. Variety is the spice of life, so if you had me everyday all day it will be no fun being your escape from reality. Limits are meant to be pushed but some boundaries should never be crossed.

It would have to be a strong guy with very low ego needs to handle it.  I also think that a single provider with a single gent might make a go of it easier.  It definitely could help if you both like to swing.  On the other hand a married provider might do better with a married hobbyist.  Then both might be more mindful of their mutual, potentially conflictual situation.

Love is love and although it sounds idealistic, if you find a good one, then maybe you mutually go for it.  The road will not be without potholes and speedbumps for sure, although that is true of the human condition in general.

IMHO: If its just for a FLING, don't take a SWING.

Cheers, and go have fun out there whatever you do  Kathi xoxox

Well thought out and dead on bullseye. Providers that tell you there troubles or love life ups and downs don't understand this hobby any better than hobbiest that try to use this hobby as a dating service. I am a fan of fantasy

I prefer stimulating conversations that heighten the mood not dampen it. Now you got me curious about your fantasies... spill them lol

I like when the hobbyiest shares their troubles and stories with me.  I am open as well.  It brings more intimacy into the picture.  I also like hanging out with my hobbyists!  I had the most fun with a guy who comes two hours to see me.  We spent the entire day together!  That does not happen often, only with the one's I really click with.

He may not be using it as a dating site!!!  Things just happen sometime when we least expect it to!!  I went into it for the money myself, but have made friends.