I wanted to get some other opinions.  I always try to do my research prior to coming to Atlanta.  I look for providers that are good with lots of anal play, rimming, fisting, etc for both.  I am not into bondage, whips, GS, BS, etc.  I definitely like more of a GFE experience with passion and play.  My question is, would you consider my likes light or heavy S&M when searching?  Also any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.  I have seen Terri Lynn twice and had great experiences both times.

Such a good question. I definitely wonder how to categorize light vs. heavy. Ultimately I always go by intensity...even though it doesn't involve heavy pain, fisting is definitely an intense activity and requires a level of commitment from both parties that goes beyond light BDSM!  

While some self-described light BDSM poviders will surely be a good fit, I think the best bet would be to those offering heavy play. You're most likely to get someone who definitely knows what they're doing. I would look for switch providers offering a range of play (like myself!). After meeting other switchy girls, I really believe it is this type of provider that is most likely to feel like a kinky playmate or girlfriend as opposed to a sub or a domme.  

Hope this helps

Thanks for the post.  I definitely agree.  I thought heavy, but most providers in that area seem to lose the passion of a GFE and it seems to usually be a one-way street.  I love giving and receiving and the intimacy of sharing such an experience.

If you're ever in NYC drop me a line! I can recommend a bunch of excellent kinky GFE providers. Not to mention...I myself would loveee to play with you. ;-

As others have said, Tori Valentine would be an ideal provider for you.  She specializes in sensual anal adventures

I would definitely agree with those saying think switch. Most without a dominant side would have an extremely hard time fisting someone else. Lucky for you, and as you seem to know, we have a few amazing ladies around Atlanta that are switches.

I would also agree with the label heavy when it comes to fisting.  I have some experience in giving, and tried receiving (only once) due to miscommunication...lol. I did not fare well when it came to receiving, but he gave me points for trying, which was nice of him. On a side note; I was going to move to Atlanta, and had done some research on their dungeons and contacted a few of the Dommes out there as I was contemplating an apprencticeship. I have seen some low budget poorly ran dungeons so, I was excited to see the the dungeons in ATL, they appeared to be well equipped, organized, and looked great.

Hey Jess,
You probably don't remember my post from a year ago, but your response helped a lot.  I ended up seeing Tori Valentine and had the most amazing time.  I will be coming back to Atlanta and wanted to reach out again.  On TER is there a way to search for switches?  If not I was hoping you might be able to recommend someone that would also be open to receiving.  Thanks for your time.