In response to a Atlanta providers ad on TER I sent an email asking for her availability:

...and contact them in their requested manner. Some providers will not consider you if you don't follow their procedure. Her web site may have made it clear it's her way or the highway. Then you could have decided whether to pursue it futher

Since I am sitting in a bar nursing my third drink while awaiting a handler's response for a rendezvous scheduled for over a half hour ago,  I will chip in my response. I am musing about how I have grown weary of the effort necessary to make new connections.  

1 - if you honestly "invest hours in setting up one appointment" I'm afraid that leads me to ask "wtf?" Are you serious? Lol, get real.

#1 Did the lady have a form which required certain information on her site?  
#2 Or did she just itemize the information needed and request you submit the information via email or phone?
#3 If such a request was made did you provide the information as required?
#4 Did the information request if any say that she would bypass all other requirements in exchange for your UserName,     etc. ? In other words you got that MajicKingdom pass at Disney that bypasses everything for convenience.  

My guess - she has a process; you didn't go with it.   From your OP,  it seems that you feel like it's not worth filling out the form.   That's not unreasonable.  I hate forms too - regardless of what they are for.  Still end up filling out a lot of them though....  

Suzee nailed it.

I pmed a lady I was interested in. I gave her my TER handle (with 15 or so white lists) and told her I'd seen 3 of her friends that she advertises doing doubles with.

Will you marry me, pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaasssssssssssssssssssseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee......

That is some serious serious brown-nosing you posted right there, but perhaps you are being sarcastic of coarse.

No, the Master should give instruction and there are many who should listen and we would all profit financially and pleasurably with much less, sniffling and whining of "well, I can't believe she ______________", well dumbass she put it in writing DO NOT SEND ME LESS THAN I REQUIRE spend less time looking at the pics and do more reading......................
besides sweetie,  I am never COARSE, often a Vulgar, Wanton, Slut but never COARSE, really...suzee

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If you are going to spend "hours" on booking an appointment, why not take the extra 58 seconds and type up something that is a little better than - Hey I wanna see you Tuesday, here's my TER ID and whitelists.  

but you do as you choose. There is a reason you think 75% response rate from the ladies is "success".  

The answer to question 1 is -- I replied to her ad.  I read her TER reviews and contacted her via the email in her ad.  
2) she specified nothing about required information in her ad
3) after she made the request, which as I mentioned seemed like an auto reply -- I reminded her that I had a TER ID and referrals -- hoping to save some time.
4) No it did not.   She did however in her form ask for Drivers license numbers, etc -- Not going to happen!

As I said -- We're all spending time effort and money in this hobby.    I don't think anyone should take shortcuts on safety.  But I gotta tell ya -- sometimes I feel like I'm the one who should be paid for all the work "I" do...especially since there is a "no return policy"

In the words of the late great Who drummer Keith Moon, 'will go over like a Led Zeppelin'. Chicks don't want to hear you bitch and moan about the 'work' you do to get screened.

Wow, I mean really just WOW....."Sometimes you have to stroke their ego before you can stroke the pussy."  stop it please you guys are killing me ROFLMFAO and peeing myself....

I was talking about your post being a case of brown nosing.

so where is the rub, I wonder,  she had requirements that you did not wish to comply with and she apparently did not wish to further entertain the exchange.........NEXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXTTTTTTTTTTT, or is the issue Truth in Advertising since she did not so state her requirements in the AD or did the AD perhaps mention "Screening Necessary", different strokes for different folks....suzee

Maybe she already knows you!....or maybe she can't afford to not know exactly who you are before consenting. You might be her husband, an ex, or some other known quantity. I bet some ladies can't afford that uncertainty.
 

And I realize it may sound like I am.  It's a fact --- both sides spend time getting things setup.  And I realize it sounds harsh, but it's also a fact that the money comes out of my pocket.  Yes I said that.  But it's true.  It would be great if we could all walk into a room, share the secret hand shake, choose our respective partners for the night, exchange gifts and have a great time.   That just isn't the way it works.  

Is that some of them make employment information a requirement.

And the WhiteList?  Just asking or are you using an ALIAS, why?

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Step to the front please 😜  

She might be have been annoyed rather than pissed off.   Possibly, she does not even remember this exchange by now...  

Incontinence ???  Seizures???  

...the posters "name" in the upper left corner of his post appears in black font. The posters actual board handle would appear in teal colored font. Additionally if it were his handle there would be an envelope just below it. If he has reviews (he says he does) how many he has would be below the envelope.

Hiding behind an alias making claims of an un-established background of Reviews and Whitelist and the last post of "..don't want to Piss off a Provider....that's not right" , really, since when?...............certainly does not go with the opening post..........Something is not right here at all,

OK then, but semantically there is a  big difference between "ego" and "comfortable"......suzee

Yes, by definition there is a difference....My point is that if you want to fuck the chick you will follow her fucking rules to do so.

touche', by definitiion though ego has little to do with comfort (actually safety in this case which equals comfort for the lady) but most likely as another poster states the process of screening is just what it states but there are some who are clever enough create a process whereby the potential non-viable candidates are sifted outed like minnows in a submarine net possibly in their arrogance or impatience without even realizing it..................or you coulda just said "hey buddy, whose got the pussy".......suzee

I think what isn't taken into account is the possibility that I'm being honest and am looking for some good advise.  You seem to start from the perspective that I'm an evil lying crud for some reason.   That's the exact reason I use an alias in this post -- I don't need providers reading into who they think I am and what my intentions are.  You clearly proven to me that I can be completely misread.

Women, they have half the money and all the pussy...LMAO

Not at all....if you were to meet me you would find that I would be among the last judgemental of those you may ever meet and I certainly not much judging you, and certainly applying no labels

Fact: Based on your responses,  I don't believe you actually read my original post or understand the issue I was trying to raise.

This is true some do, but in my house I have all the PUSSY and all the $$$$$...........it's been fun guys, thanks for the entertainment...........s'il vous plaît , s'il vous plaît me baiser aveugle, suzee