It's possible Tom Dwan is right. I checked out your website. The info he cites and the rest of the info on your rates page is negative and harsh. You have the right to put that info out there. I really see nothing wrong with the information itself but it's presentation is a real downer.
Your rates are reasonable. I find you attractive. Your pictures are nice. I've enjoyed your photos in the theme threads. I don't remember anything in particular about your posts here on the board so I don't think it's to do with the tone or personality of your posts. Your reviews are all good (the ratings anyway, haven't had time to read them). I don't know how long your site has been that way as I've never checked it before. If you had it for a while and business is just now going down maybe that's not it. But I still recommend making some changes to it.
Things are tough now. I haven't visited anyone in more than a month. Holiday spending, dental bills, a family members marriage, etc are making the time and money for hobbying very difficult to come by. Just some thoughts since you asked. I hope things pick up for you.  xyz23

Try changing things on your website. This is the first thing a gent sees when he visits your site

Ok Guys...I'm going to make this short and sweet.

First The Rules!  Please Read Before You Call Me!

No CIM


No Anal


No Pain

Look I am putting myself out here no aliases or anything. I just really need some advice.

I am trying to understand what is going on in the last two months. Everyone that I talk to says my name is very well known in this community. Then how come I have not had an appointment in the last two weeks? All the other girls I have talked to have said they are still busy, so is it just me,the economy, or the holidays? What's up? I've tried doing specials. I have tried to be more accommodating. What is it? Does everyone just think my dance card is full?
 
All the guys who have seen me, you know that I'm for real. Any insight is greatly appreciated no matter how harsh. I'm a big girl, I can take it lol    You can post here or pm me.

PS My schedule is completely open. lol

You are a lovely girl. We met at the May M&G, and I put you on my list. The only thing that has kept me away is that I do not live in Atlanta, and you do not tour.

I had a great time with you! The other posts are right about your website, but I don't think that's any issue for any one here with VIP access...your reviews speak for themselves. I'd rather PM you with other details, but I will say I've had a hard time reaching you. Hard to make an appt when I can't get in touch! Of course it could be you don't want to reply to me, but I'll assume thats not the case

The economy is also definitely a factor, and this week I would assume family plans are keeping guys busy

Posted By: whitneycox

Look I am putting myself out here no aliases or anything. I just really need some advice.

I am trying to understand what is going on in the last two months. Everyone that I talk to says my name is very well known in this community. Then how come I have not had an appointment in the last two weeks? All the other girls I have talked to have said they are still busy, so is it just me,the economy, or the holidays? What's up? I've tried doing specials. I have tried to be more accommodating. What is it? Does everyone just think my dance card is full?
 
All the guys who have seen me, you know that I'm for real. Any insight is greatly appreciated no matter how harsh. I'm a big girl, I can take it lol    You can post here or pm me.

PS My schedule is completely open. lol

I agree, that shows fortitude and character to put yourself out there like that and distinguishes you from an already distinguished pack.   You'll do well!  

The Holidays are a slow time. It will pick up I promise. You are so pretty and your reviews are really good so just keep your chin up and business will get better.
Hugs and kisses
TL

It seems to get like this every year  around this time (Holidays). i say maybe try prebooking some appointments in another Market (another city). it could just be Atlanta

aint so hot in ATL the only babes makin money seems to be touring babes... Unfortunetly theres a GLUT on the market in ATL.. The Men are havin a Blast for sure ...

tyvm,P.T.

...and I agree with those who have commended your courage at being bold enough to take on an open board critique of you & your website. It has moved you further up my list.

We met at the M&G & you certainly have nothing to worry about in the beauty department, either of body or soul. I am in a higher ticket, "non-Christmas present" selling environment & things are always slow this time of year. If you're not selling electronics, toys, or jewelry, you've been bumped off or down the list.

In any case, cheer up...you have a PM.

XOXOXO,

bigmacga

November is known to be a slow month but as long as you put yourself out there you should be fine.  I only advertise on here, Eros, and p411 but CityVibe and Datecheck are also great sites to plug yourself.  Even dare I say Backpage.  I would take the rules off your website and just go with the flow in your appt. and then when it cums to your  No's just don't do them.  Also a nice gesture such as emailing the clients that you are fond of and haven't seen in a while and letting them know you have missed them and would love to see them again could be a good idea as well.  I always like to stay in touch  Hope business picks up for you!                                                                    CC

Such as touring nearby states or cities
Duos seem to bring more business
Cater to other services

" read before calling" may be a bit harsh. Loose it. You can still say all the thing you have listed. Been busy as hell lately, haven't seen anyone for two or three months now. Always wanted to see you and still do. As PT said, may be just slow.

Hang in there. It will be ok.

YES! She will!! A truely HOT lady indeed with a lot of class. Whitney you will be fine just....... Nevermind lol I willl call you tomorrow. Ok?
All is good.
Hugs and kisses
TL

Great point Carson! I don't like unsolicited texts, but a friendly "hows it going" email is a nice touch, makes it seem like the lady genuinely enjoys my company rather than just my wallet. I realize everyone is busy and has a life outside of this, but friendly gestures like this are always a nice differentiator!

THANK YOU ALL!!!! I love each and everyone of you that have given me the advice and the cheering up. Boy has it help! lol  You know, a girl couldn't ask for a better family than ya'll I will definitely take the advice and work on my website, pictures and everything else. And I will definitely keep my head up and a smile on my face because I know that I have a great community behind me and I have some wonderful FRIENDS!!!

WOW I think I'm even going to cry! lol

Now that's the kind of happy attitude that'll have 'em flocking to your door

I think the first place you would start is the website.  

Get rid of the bright red a psychological no no on websites.  

The the picture gallery needs to be updated and not look like a yahoo group.  I think with just those fixes alone you will do much better.

The navigation bar on left is not very goo, there are many templates that you can use and this one is definitely not the right one.  

Look at some of the top dollar LA, NY, Vegas, Mia girl sites and see that their sites are setting the stage of the experience.  They are not necessarily better looking then the other girls but what they ARE is MUCH MUCH better at marketing themselves.

My 3 cents.

Posted By: whitneycox

Look I am putting myself out here no aliases or anything. I just really need some advice.

I am trying to understand what is going on in the last two months. Everyone that I talk to says my name is very well known in this community. Then how come I have not had an appointment in the last two weeks? All the other girls I have talked to have said they are still busy, so is it just me,the economy, or the holidays? What's up? I've tried doing specials. I have tried to be more accommodating. What is it? Does everyone just think my dance card is full?
 
All the guys who have seen me, you know that I'm for real. Any insight is greatly appreciated no matter how harsh. I'm a big girl, I can take it lol    You can post here or pm me.

PS My schedule is completely open. lol

Whitney-I can't pull up your website-have you checked it lately??

the opportunity to try it if they are in the mood. When men see NO, they just move on to people who might say yes, even if they won't in the end try it. Just my two cents.

I am redesigning it over the weekend. I will have it back up in about two days Don't worry I promise to let everyone know when its done

You are hot and maybe too intimidating for most of the guys. Your also a "tall drink of water."
I'd love to see you! Misty says your awesome!
See you soon,
K

Let me know what ya'll think of it

The website is much better - imho.
Since I saw you many times and enjoyed very much everytime; however, I have made two observations that could be something you might like to consider. I will pm on that.

Thanks.

Posted By: whitneycox

Let me know what ya'll think of it