I recently wrote a very good review of this provider and the response has been over whelming. .She has called me back asking me to remove it, saying that she didn't want publicity like that and it will interfere with her personal life because  that's her real phone number etc...etc..I have asked TER admin to remove  the review. .Has anyone else experience this sort of situation before??

Unless there are exceptional circumstances. Just curious, why would you include the provider's personal phone number?

I have asked friends to no longer give me good reviews. If in fact they had anything bad to say, by all means expose it to others as I think that's the only way bad behavior will be revealed, however, I feel no need to have what should be private moments zipped in to "the juicy details". Most gentleman now ask if I want them to write one and I say for my benefit, please don't but if it's something you feel you must do, I won't be mad, but again, if doing it to express your good time or give me a good rep with others, I'd rather you do that with repeat visits, not exposing my in parts in detail to the world for all to read.  

With that said recently I had the exact extensive conversation with someone and I expressed that it was not desired by me and I thought we agreed he would not.  He did in fact write one on an off hand board and told me he did such, although he didn't go into great juicy detail, he exposed some other personal things I had no desire for non friends to know about as if I would be please that he traded one personal detail for the next.  

Some ladies let you know because its one of the major selling points in their ads "top reviewed", "top rated", "my many reviews", "check out my great reviews" they make reference to collecting reviews in one way or the other but allot in fact for discretions sake don't want all those details exposed any longer. In the future, I suggest you ask the lady if she minds or if she desires a review, unless you have something negative to say, at which point she has no say in what you do. It's always better to be sure than harassed.  

JMO

...and explain why and what you need. Things like her phone number could be removed and other things could be edited out if they reveal too much personal info. TER has removed reviews or allowed editing when protecting real life info is concerned

I only used the phone number that's listed in her ads.

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If she knew your handle wouldn't she know you do reviews?
Or
Was this her first review and she figured out that done69 was your handle?

II think once an escort puts up an ad her expectation of privacy of her provider persona
is not really reasonable.  Its fine to protect her private life but she does that with a hobby
phone, not working from where she lives, not showing her face and or tats.  Nice of you to
try to accommodate her after the fact but as someone said all reviews become property
of ter.  

She could try to get herself delisted though.

... for a provider.

Assuming it's your most recent review, her phone number even brings up her Facebook page; how dumb can you be?

Here's what she needs to do:

1. She needs to remove her phone number from her Facebook profile.

2. She needs to get a separate phone for work, preferably a "burner" which she can just buy minute cards for (so people can't find her on Spokeo and similar sites with her cell number)

3. She needs to take photos which show off her assets but hide her face.

4. She needs to find ALL her ads, replace the phone numbers and photos.

Even then, it takes a couple of months for the "old sites" to clear out of Google cache (and hence search results), even longer if her ads have been indexed on a lot of 3rd party sites (then you're at the mercy of their link recycling frequency.)

I wish more girls would consult with reputable IT folks before launching their online presence.

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It's polite to ask if she'd like a review.  

I agree with you Joi that even if you both had a good time, and she says no Review, then she shouldn't be reviewed.  

I also agree that if you didn't have a good time and she asks you not to review... she should still be reviewed/ ThreADed anyway - as a courtesy to the TER Board Community if for no other reason.

My only white list (thus far) did so b/c I promised I would Not Review her.  
She was an "11", creme de la creme... all of the highest possible accolades applied to our times together. That said, she thought the reviews process was ripe for fraud since she had differing if not outright 'never met him" memories of those encounters. She asked me not to review, so I did/have not, and (so far as I know) she seems to have moved on as well.  

Nice post, Joi.

ga_kosh

Someone needs to school this provider. Why would she post an ad with her civvie number. When you talk to her, tell her to get a burner phone for her illegal activities.  

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