I posted this question on a TER discussion forum: and received one very eyeopening response from a provider.

Me:Please tell me why some Providers become "Jaded" after being in the business awhile? Is it clients that make them this way?

Provider Response: Yep. It's disgusting, degrading, and dehumanizing. Wanna know how it feels? Go to a nasty dumpster, pull out the most putrid piece of rotting garbage, rub it all over, your skin, genitals, and mouth, and see how you feel afterward. Just my two cents. Off I go to do an appointment. Yipee.

WOW, I bet she is a hoot to hang out with. Hell if that is the way all of the rest of you guys are described maybe I should not have to pay for the services I get..LOL You guys really need to start bathing and take better care of yourselves, yall are giving people like me a bad name...LMAO

into this provider's past posts, you'll find that she is extremely negative, and not very representative of the typical lady on TER. She hates what she's doing, yet continues to do it. She will be a very unhappy woman for a very long time.

She claims to have excellent reviews on TER.  

On of her Responses: I have excellent reviews and my phone rings off the hook, I just can't stomach that many. Honestly, I'm glad I don't like it. Am i supposed to like getting pawed by disgusting strangers for a few hundred dollars? I feel so sorry for people who enjoy being a whore, they're wasting their life. Anyway, all clients are the same, doesn't matter how well showered they are or how much they pay. Ick. And no I don't need a program, I'll be out in two years. And you will probably still be doing this. And, somehow, enjoying it.

How could a girl get jaded doing this?!
8^)

She will be a very unhappy woman for a very long time. Posts like that one just prove my point.

Can be unhappy...unless they have a man tell them what to do!
That what my ex girlfriend said anyway.

Sorry I can not control natural law!  lol

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I have seen some posts about guys on another [NOT TER]providers only board. A provider let me see it during a session.

I saw some comments "He has a lot a money but I can't stand him, but will continue to see him."

She had the guy fooled for a long time.

When he started see other providers with better attitudes he stopped see her.  

The posts on the other [NOT TER]providers only board confirmed that the lady has a bad attitude.

Those posts on the national and erotic highway boards seem very real to me.

Who knows why some get jaded but the good thing is some truly seem to enjoy it, or at least are amazing actresses.  I'd say us figuring out women is even a more outside shot than them understanding us.

and for the record I responded to her that I would still be fucking 20 years old twenty years from now, and yes I will still be enjoying it.

Don't pay her any mind, she gets to take out her aggressions on the board. Which I guess is as good a use as any.

For that matter I don't recommend taking anything on the boards THAT seriously and that includes anything said by yours truly as well. lol

When you get a chance read her posts on the The Erotic Highway.

I am not shocked by this response.  Take a look at society in general.  There are plenty of people who really don't enjoy their jobs but do it because it is an end to a means.  Hell I put myself through college working as janitor which included scrubbing a lot of toilets and wanted to quit every single day. But it was the second worse economy outside of this one and I didn't have many alternatives.

It also wouldn't surprise me if this profession didn't  have a higher percentage of this sentiment than society at large given the intimate and very personal nature of what the ladies provide.  In some respects it doesn't matter what the lady thinks if she is able to provide qaulity service.  The GFE after all is fantasy anyway.

I would only say that her disclosure does her no favors from a pure business point of view.