Who knows why some get jaded but the good thing is some truly seem to enjoy it, or at least are amazing actresses. I'd say us figuring out women is even a more outside shot than them understanding us.
I posted this question on a TER discussion forum: and received one very eyeopening response from a provider.
Me:Please tell me why some Providers become "Jaded" after being in the business awhile? Is it clients that make them this way?
Provider Response: Yep. It's disgusting, degrading, and dehumanizing. Wanna know how it feels? Go to a nasty dumpster, pull out the most putrid piece of rotting garbage, rub it all over, your skin, genitals, and mouth, and see how you feel afterward. Just my two cents. Off I go to do an appointment. Yipee.
WOW, I bet she is a hoot to hang out with. Hell if that is the way all of the rest of you guys are described maybe I should not have to pay for the services I get..LOL You guys really need to start bathing and take better care of yourselves, yall are giving people like me a bad name...LMAO
into this provider's past posts, you'll find that she is extremely negative, and not very representative of the typical lady on TER. She hates what she's doing, yet continues to do it. She will be a very unhappy woman for a very long time.
On of her Responses: I have excellent reviews and my phone rings off the hook, I just can't stomach that many. Honestly, I'm glad I don't like it. Am i supposed to like getting pawed by disgusting strangers for a few hundred dollars? I feel so sorry for people who enjoy being a whore, they're wasting their life. Anyway, all clients are the same, doesn't matter how well showered they are or how much they pay. Ick. And no I don't need a program, I'll be out in two years. And you will probably still be doing this. And, somehow, enjoying it.
Who knows why some get jaded but the good thing is some truly seem to enjoy it, or at least are amazing actresses. I'd say us figuring out women is even a more outside shot than them understanding us.
I am not shocked by this response. Take a look at society in general. There are plenty of people who really don't enjoy their jobs but do it because it is an end to a means. Hell I put myself through college working as janitor which included scrubbing a lot of toilets and wanted to quit every single day. But it was the second worse economy outside of this one and I didn't have many alternatives.
It also wouldn't surprise me if this profession didn't have a higher percentage of this sentiment than society at large given the intimate and very personal nature of what the ladies provide. In some respects it doesn't matter what the lady thinks if she is able to provide qaulity service. The GFE after all is fantasy anyway.
I would only say that her disclosure does her no favors from a pure business point of view.
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