Last week, Veronica Savu posted a link asking this. At the time I sort of sided with her but now for the good of the community I am going to take it back.

..........meeting time. Stuff happens sometimes, some girls have "other" family commitments outside the hobby and sometimes emergencies crop up.

I have a full class load at my university and Friday is my first day I'm actually available to entertain any friends at my apartment.  This was NOT intentional...it was just a true coincidence that I have had to ask to reschedule with you twice and I gave you my reasoning Friday evening before our appointed time.  This was my email to you:

I usually leave that comment for others, but haven't seen the standard-bearer of the "classy post" line online in a while.   As blue as my balls would be, I would have bought her explanation.  If the OP doesn't cash in on the make-up sex, Veronica, I will.

time and future reviews will be the tale tell

Once is fine but twice is a trend......even with communication at the last minute. If it's only been posted/reported once on here , be rest assured that it has happened plenty of more time without being reported.

I can understand things come up , but if you were burning the candle at both ends , why even make the appointment ?

There are myriad reasons for rescheduling appointments at the last minute... on her part.

I am not one to hold grudge. I am sorry you are hurt but, I do think, two Fridays in a row is bit much as far as I am concerned. Both times, you texted me followed by an email pretty much about about 30 minutes before. Uncanny pattern which raises all kinds of questions.

Plenty of providers in the area I can get appointments and that’s exactly why I did. Had a great time and the best sex I had in a while so, as fart as I am concerned I made new friend or made one, lost one kind of deal.

The appointment was made a week in advance actually.  A lot of things happened since then sweetie.

Hey Dude,

I concur......Using 'college' as an excuse is pretty lame. Her inactions speak volumes about her professionalism or lack thereof.

One thing I've learned in life when you try and get folks together it can turn into a cluster fuck. The more folks the worse it can be, and obviulosiy even just 2 people trying to get together can be a pain in the ass. Not taking sides but life can get in the way. I've been cancelled on by a provider who was running late while waiting across the street from the hotel, I was a little perturbed that she was late (30 mins) then I got a call that she wasn't going to make it, family emergency. I was thinking damn this gal is flaky as hell and wasteing my time. Tried again in a couple weeks and she ran a bit late but no biggie, I was thinking though this gal has got to be dingy as all get out and this may be a waste of time. Went ahead with the appointment and glad I did all hell broke loose!! She's turned into an ATF for me and have spent a good deal of OTC time with her as well. So ya never know first impressions can be wrong. Hate ya got let down a bit but hopefully it will all work out and she'll rock you're world but after a public post like this I doubt it. Though she has graciously replied meeting would probally feel a bit awkward.

How can other arrangements be made if the provider cancels at the very last minute ? The client was confirmed a week in advance.

if you where in pursuit of a "civilian" date with lady in the non hobby world a couple of last minute cancellations would probably not slow you down much (or maybe it would) in your attempts to set up a date. I doubt seriously that you would go to the effort to call her out on a public board.

she was sweet in her replies and maybe deserves some latitude. However, if both times were 30 minutes before the meeting because of being worn out, it looks to me a little more notice would have been appropriate and show more courtesy. She did not just get worn out 30 minutes ahead of time. Most people understand others have issues. White knights would you really try again knowing you would not know until 30 minutes before the date whether it was really on or not? Or would you move on?

I actually met her this evening without an issues and had a wonderful time, circumstances do happen. It seems you are complaining far too much and probably should just move on. Veronica is a very sweet and intelligent young lady, she doesn't need you trying to tarnish her reputation. If I had a less than desirable experience I wouldn't waste time bitching to the whole TER world because when you throw out negativity it comes right back to you.

I may or may not rebook, but I would be thanking her for telling me it was going to be a bad session.  I have had a few regulars call me from time to time saying things like "I was up studying" "I had a family emergency" "I was out partying all night"...but when they end with "I don't want to disappoint you with a boring time" I respect the hell out of them being concerned for my time and money/value and their own reputation.

No one, including me she was not sweet. Who knows? Unreliable? Yes.

I am not bitching. Simply sharing what happened. There is big difference only grownups understand. You on the other hand haven’t gotten out of high school yet. You may be old enough but haven’t learned the ability to discern what is what and stuck on cliche’s like negativity coming back.  

Do you even know WTF you are talking about? Did you read the thread?

because I don’t like to.

Kissing ass will get you everywhere you think?  

And yes I do know WTF I am talking about and yes I have read the thread.

regardless (not irregardless) of whether or not she is deserving.

IMO, If a woman can come on this board and complain about the actions of a client, then she better have her own house in order.

As you said, we will see how see follows through. I find zero fault with you for bringing this to the boards. After all, isn't that what these boards were designed for in the first place? Kudo's for standing your ground, I only wish the rest of the board would grow some balls and do the same.

Suppose you got an F reading comprehension.  

The reason for the post is to let others know what can happen. Indeed, I am annoyed to have wasted my time and for driving to the location. It is hard to imagine, two cancellation 30 minutes ahead.  

That’s exactly my point as well.  

You cannot keep on using school as crutch. As I said many here have done the same thing you are doing and I know few other providers who are also in school just like you.  

Do you consider sending text followed by an email as a sincere apology. Apology means something when it is sincere and truthful.

Never called that into question. Of course so do I. Guess we both got F's in reading comprehension. Had your post simply stated that you had be cancelled on twice in a row with short notice by the same person I probably would have pasted it by. It was the dragging the old thread into the discussion and then trying imply that somehow short notice cancellations somehow validates intentional shorting of a donation and/or invalidates her desire to black list over the event. Even if she is unreliable that does not mean that shorting a donation should be tolerated.
 
I may well have my cranium in my rectum but I do know it stinks in here...

A woman ? She is a 22 year old college student.  Most 22 year old college students can barely wipe their own asses or show up for work on time, never mind keep an appointment for an illegal activity.

You are not only dealing with the client this happened with but also everyone else that wants to give you a hard time.
Things happen, life happens and sometimes things happen that are out of our control. I am sending you a big ol' hug.
If I had this many people coming down on me it would crush me.  
((((((BIG HUG))))))
Sincerely,
Shawnie
xoxoxox

It happens!!!!!!! She is a person who isnt perfect!!
She contacted you to let you know she was unable to keep her appointment.
Get over it!! But to trash her and affect her business in  negative way is SELFISH AND CRUEL!!
SHIT HAPPENS MAN !!
You could ruin her business and her livelihood!! What if this woman has children?? She is in college. She is trying to better her life.  
You have a problem, you speak to her personally, dont bring this to a board where everyone and their brother jumps on the chance to make her feel bad!!
 We are people too. We have lives. We fall short of your requests!!
You are being hurtful over this and I find it unacceptable.
Look how many people have jumped her ass??

I have seen many times you come on here and bitch about No Show hence you don’t have a dog in the race.  

Hence you don’t comprehend.  

Just as I had predicted in my previous post anonymousfun. The only thing you have accomplished is pissing off the providers that post on this message board. If I was a provider reading your initial post and your responses to anyone that challenged your post, I would put you on my DNS list.

It's not a great post if he made no attempt to resolve it behind the scenes with the girl. She might be a 22 year old college student that is a flake...surprise, surprise...but his response was not to help the community. His exact words...."The point is I don’t like to played and made to like a fool that’s what your actions did" It's about his pride, he is sounding very insecure and immature. And even when she apologized and offered to make it up to him...he kept posting stuff calling her out in public...

"Last week, Veronica Savu posted a link asking this. At the time I sort of sided with her but now for the good of the community I am going to take it back.
 
I have set up appointments with her twice in row but she has cancelled bot at the last minute. First time, I told her “I understand” second time I told her, our meeting is not going to work out.
 
Do as you may but don’t be surprised, if you get a text at the last minute saying “Check your email. Important change in business meeting”.

Look I'm not saying you're totally wrong but face it most gals under 25 can be flakey as hell. All I'm saying no need to bring it here. Bait and switch or worse then definatly we need to know. Just my two cents worth what if the gals brought all our short comings (or Cummings) here

She bailed twice 30 min before the date after having set it up a week before. I wouldn't get in touch with her again.  

I posted above in this thread what I would have done, go read those responses if you like. She is a 22 year old kid that is new at this and he is someone who claims to have been here for over 10 years. This did not benefit him or anyone else. He did this as I stated because his pride was hurt, that is why he put the sick game thing comment. Post like this should be for bait and switch or rip offs or something dangerous not a cancellation from some kid.

At least not for the whole world to see. It's no diffrent than the back channeling we do.

Again, she flaked TWICE 30 min before the appointment. I would feel no obligation to contact her after that second time. I also would make a post like his.

Do you cancel appointments 30 min prior?  

Well I guess when you grow up you'll understand, shit happens get over it. Your bitching like a little high school girl who can't let something go. FYI I graduated college in "90.

you certainly don't comprehend or chose not to comprehend what others and myself are trying to say to you. By your own admission she and you traded multiple emails during the week. Don't you think that in and of itself indicates she planned to meet you? I could rehash yet again the points I and others have tried to make but I know it would be an exercise in futility. I certainly hope you receive the level of respect and consideration your posts should garner.

-- Modified on 10/6/2013 8:51:29 PM

Then go ahead a post one of these the next time you get cancelled on and let me know how successful that turns out for you, and make sure you don't use your alias

I treat 22 year olds as adults. Because, they are adults.  

I'm running out of patience with this non-sense, it doesn't seem like you will even understand this simple concept. There are postings not just on this board but on lots of other boards about providers that are flaky and either NCNS or cancel. The majority seem to be new and or young. They are not kids physically but in their lack of maturity and lack of responsibility. It's one of the reasons why a lot of guys like myself will not go see girls that age. The few I did see were flakes. Yeah you might find some that are mature, but not many compared to older ladies or ones that have been in the game for a while.
This really isn't complicated stuff

Is this particular 22 year old female so immature and irresponsible that she cannot be treated as an adult?  

Not necessarily at you, but the entire thread.  

If you had such a good time then why are you still complaining about a cancellation? Instead of writing a thread about the "amazing sex and new friend" you made, you went out of your way and put more energy into this negative thread. Mmm AF I thought you had more class than that and was one of my favorite posters. Now you just look like a salty old man.

You said you won't hold a grudge yet you keep writing "we will see what she does." WTF do you want her to do?!?!? Offer free services? She's already apologized to you in private AND on this public board. Clearly you are looking for something else here. Even the title of your thread has the word "blacklist" in it, oh but you won't hold a grudge.

This looks all bad..

Hey Shawnie,

A decent guy , and do not get mad easily so I have to go with you on this . She flaked , guys get reamed for this shit ! You called her out , she should ask ladies for advice and grow up ! Hey good for you , find a nicer Lady to spend yohr time with .

So fast , he wouldn't know what hit him !

WH like you doesn’t allow it?  

You Mangina’s and WH keep going at it. Did ask you or any other White Mangina’s for your opinions or help? No.  

Have on occasion cancelled ! And guess what the lady lost NOTHING ! Kick boxing ? Competition ? Out ta town ? What fuckng dumb ass school do u go to ?  
This ain't Romania and he ain't Borat ! Shape up ! Oh and lose a few pounds !