And yes I do know WTF I am talking about and yes I have read the thread.
You state that if someone cancelled on you twice in row 30 minutes before a meeting you would not see them. Absolutely your prerogative but that should be the end of if (between you and her). Bringing it to the board opens it to be discussed. And then to bring in the previous thread which has nothing to do what happened to you (cancellations verse black listing) and the reverse yourself invites even more discussion. You say you would not hold a grudge but the original thread smacks to me of someone being a touch vindictive and/or looking for discount. I understand it is very disappointing to have two in a row cancelled on short or long notice but as other have said life happens. It is laughable that you think you can tell me what I do and don't know. Kindly remove your cranium from your rectum and smell the excrement you are shoveling.Last week, Veronica Savu posted a link asking this. At the time I sort of sided with her but now for the good of the community I am going to take it back.
I have set up appointments with her twice in row but she has cancelled bot at the last minute. First time, I told her “I understand” second time I told her, our meeting is not going to work out.
Do as you may but don’t be surprised, if you get a text at the last minute saying “Check your email. Important change in business meeting”.
Some sort of sick game she is plain
..........meeting time. Stuff happens sometimes, some girls have "other" family commitments outside the hobby and sometimes emergencies crop up.
Once is fine but twice is a trend......even with communication at the last minute. If it's only been posted/reported once on here , be rest assured that it has happened plenty of more time without being reported.
There are myriad reasons for rescheduling appointments at the last minute... on her part.
College... let's see:
roommate problems
exams
class work (labs, reports, tutoring)
Veronica mentioned "first day of classes" in her response below... so add finding classrooms, book buying, and other logistical issues that can and do wear you out in a hurry- and then she thinks about working? I can so understand her situation.
It's a given that there are plenty of flaky providers and hobbyists out there, but after reading Veronica's response... I'm gonna conclude She's Not Flaky.
No offense to OP as I understand your frustrations. I went through the same once years ago with a provider I saw out of town. She rescheduled twice on the same weekend but third time was definitely the charm.
I honestly think this is a simple misunderstanding. Take her up on her offer.
ga_kosh
Plenty of providers in the area I can get appointments and that’s exactly why I did. Had a great time and the best sex I had in a while so, as fart as I am concerned I made new friend or made one, lost one kind of deal.
The reason for posting is to let other know and one’s language proficiency has nothing to with. If you had paid attention, you would have realized she goes to school Monday thru Friday and even if you take four classes, it is not an already affair.
Let us see how she follows up and I shall let you know
If you had such a good time then why are you still complaining about a cancellation? Instead of writing a thread about the "amazing sex and new friend" you made, you went out of your way and put more energy into this negative thread. Mmm AF I thought you had more class than that and was one of my favorite posters. Now you just look like a salty old man.
The reason for posting is to let other know and one’s language proficiency has nothing to with. If you had paid attention, you would have realized she goes to school Monday thru Friday and even if you take four classes, it is not an already affair.
Let us see how she follows up and I shall let you know.
I have a full class load at my university and Friday is my first day I'm actually available to entertain any friends at my apartment. This was NOT intentional...it was just a true coincidence that I have had to ask to reschedule with you twice and I gave you my reasoning Friday evening before our appointed time. This was my email to you:
"I sincerely apologize...however I scheduled a training early am and drove into town last night .....Im trying to force myself to stay up. I don't want to see you like this. I truly hope you can forgive me; however, I need to reschedule for when I am more rested."
I literally was drained the closer it got to our appointed session's time that Friday evening due to just coming back into town the night prior from a competition for school and having kickboxing training that Friday morning. As I was preparing for you with the requested outfit, I could sense that I was going to fall asleep very soon if not in the next half hour-so I did what I felt was the professional thing to do irregardless of the circumstance. It was a mere coincidence that we had an issue the weekend prior and you said you understood; thus, you rescheduled to see me this Friday.
I can understand how you felt and I would like to make it up to you still if allowed; however, I feel that any "friend" that I entertain should have 110% of me and not a lethargic version. I am shocked and slightly hurt that you posted about this instead of talking to me about how you felt. However, I am still empathetic towards you and am open to rectify it if so desired.
I usually leave that comment for others, but haven't seen the standard-bearer of the "classy post" line online in a while. As blue as my balls would be, I would have bought her explanation. If the OP doesn't cash in on the make-up sex, Veronica, I will.
time and future reviews will be the tale tell
I can understand things come up , but if you were burning the candle at both ends , why even make the appointment ?
The appointment was made a week in advance actually. A lot of things happened since then sweetie.
You cannot keep on using school as crutch. As I said many here have done the same thing you are doing and I know few other providers who are also in school just like you.
You could have contacted me anytime on Friday, instead of 30 minutes before when I was almost there. Do you think, other people don’t have anything to do and it is only you who has things come up because you are in school?
The point is I don’t like to played and made to like a fool that’s what your actions did.
I could have posted horrible review but I didn’t because I wanted give you an opportunity to explain since you complained about a client and I backed you up
Do you consider sending text followed by an email as a sincere apology. Apology means something when it is sincere and truthful.
I am not one to hold grudge. I am sorry you are hurt but, I do think, two Fridays in a row is bit much as far as I am concerned. Both times, you texted me followed by an email pretty much about about 30 minutes before. Uncanny pattern which raises all kinds of questions.
I also went to college full time and got two graduate degrees hence, I know what it takes to do so. I am sure many others here also have done it.
You could have called to let me know as well. I am not hurt but rather very disappointed because if you cannot trust and depend another human being, it is pretty damn bad as far as I am concerned.
I can assure you if we ever actually meet, I will also post the information here. Only reason to post is to let others know so they don’t have to go through the same experience which is the purpose of this forum, to share positive and negative information.
Hey Dude,
I would have waited a couple days before posting anything negative about a provider. Things comes up unexpectedly or the provider isn't feeling well.
I know that providers get touchy when we cancel on them. The difference is that when a provider cancels on us. We can make other arrangements, but for the ladies they lose money.
How can other arrangements be made if the provider cancels at the very last minute ? The client was confirmed a week in advance.
No one, including me she was not sweet. Who knows? Unreliable? Yes.
Believe, when you book an appointment a week in advance and you cancel the appointment 30 minute prior to the appointment, two weeks in row, what do you conclude.
The problem on TER is that only few people especially, men use it as it is supposed to be. It is sharing your good and bas experience. Most are ass kissers and afraid of providers not seeing them as if, there are limited providers in Atlanta.
On the contrary, Atlanta is one of the best in the nation when it comes to availability of gorgeous and classy providers.
I am waiting to see what the make up is going to be. Not looking for free anything.
One has to follow through.
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regardless (not irregardless) of whether or not she is deserving.
IMO, If a woman can come on this board and complain about the actions of a client, then she better have her own house in order.
As you said, we will see how see follows through. I find zero fault with you for bringing this to the boards. After all, isn't that what these boards were designed for in the first place? Kudo's for standing your ground, I only wish the rest of the board would grow some balls and do the same.
That’s exactly my point as well.
We will see what she does. Nothing thus far.
My guess is nothing.
You said you won't hold a grudge yet you keep writing "we will see what she does." WTF do you want her to do?!?!? Offer free services? She's already apologized to you in private AND on this public board. Clearly you are looking for something else here. Even the title of your thread has the word "blacklist" in it, oh but you won't hold a grudge.
We will see what she does. Nothing thus far.
My guess is nothing.
You Mangina’s and WH keep going at it. Did ask you or any other White Mangina’s for your opinions or help? No.
What was the last sentence in original post? “Do as you wish”.
If anyone made this into train wreck, it is Mangina White Night drama kings like you.
In summary, you WH Mangina’s think I am not going to respond, you are wrong
A woman ? She is a 22 year old college student. Most 22 year old college students can barely wipe their own asses or show up for work on time, never mind keep an appointment for an illegal activity.
AF's post and responses to everyone else serve no purpose other than to make him look bad. If I was a provider, I would stay as far away from him as possible. She responded back and said she was willing to make it up to him and apologized, but said she was upset that he didn't talk to her first instead of telling on a message board. I don't blame her.
Are you interesting in getting laid or looking for kudos for standing your ground against a 22 year old ? Maybe next time AF who said he was here for 10 years should see someone closer to his age or someone that is more well reviewed and stop thinking that some 22 year old new hooker is going to be reliable.
This is the kind of threads that makes most of the woman on here not want to be a part of this message board.
If I ran into this issue myself, I would have handled it behind the scenes with the girl, not act like a tattletale because someone probably young enough to be my daughter cancelled on me twice...He can post whatever he wants, but the only one that looks bad here is him, not the 22 year old who responded in an adult manner regardless of the cancellations..
I'm running out of patience with this non-sense, it doesn't seem like you will even understand this simple concept. There are postings not just on this board but on lots of other boards about providers that are flaky and either NCNS or cancel. The majority seem to be new and or young. They are not kids physically but in their lack of maturity and lack of responsibility. It's one of the reasons why a lot of guys like myself will not go see girls that age. The few I did see were flakes. Yeah you might find some that are mature, but not many compared to older ladies or ones that have been in the game for a while.
This really isn't complicated stuff
Is this particular 22 year old female so immature and irresponsible that she cannot be treated as an adult?
Or are all 22 year old females so immature and irresponsible that they cannot be treated as adults?
Everyone else on here with set balls and not hiding behind a fucking alias like you running for cover. You must have some grandiose opinion about yourself.
You are nothing but a faceless, gutless white knight hiding behind an alias.
Dude, no one gives fuck whether you loose patience or going to jump of a cliff.
You faceless coward hiding behind an alias.
Why don’t you grow a couple before pontificating others?
Personally I don't bother with under 28 ! What your trying to say is guys in general shouldn't waste their time , go through this bullshit , and see more mature girls ? Okay , and thanks to his post many will !
AF's post and responses to everyone else serve no purpose other than to make him look bad. If I was a provider, I would stay as far away from him as possible. She responded back and said she was willing to make it up to him and apologized, but said she was upset that he didn't talk to her first instead of telling on a message board. I don't blame her.
Are you interesting in getting laid or looking for kudos for standing your ground against a 22 year old ? Maybe next time AF who said he was here for 10 years should see someone closer to his age or someone that is more well reviewed and stop thinking that some 22 year old new hooker is going to be reliable.
This is the kind of threads that makes most of the woman on here not want to be a part of this message board.
If I ran into this issue myself, I would have handled it behind the scenes with the girl, not act like a tattletale because someone probably young enough to be my daughter cancelled on me twice...He can post whatever he wants, but the only one that looks bad here is him, not the 22 year old who responded in an adult manner regardless of the cancellations...
I concur......Using 'college' as an excuse is pretty lame. Her inactions speak volumes about her professionalism or lack thereof.
she was sweet in her replies and maybe deserves some latitude. However, if both times were 30 minutes before the meeting because of being worn out, it looks to me a little more notice would have been appropriate and show more courtesy. She did not just get worn out 30 minutes ahead of time. Most people understand others have issues. White knights would you really try again knowing you would not know until 30 minutes before the date whether it was really on or not? Or would you move on?
I actually met her this evening without an issues and had a wonderful time, circumstances do happen. It seems you are complaining far too much and probably should just move on. Veronica is a very sweet and intelligent young lady, she doesn't need you trying to tarnish her reputation. If I had a less than desirable experience I wouldn't waste time bitching to the whole TER world because when you throw out negativity it comes right back to you.
I am not bitching. Simply sharing what happened. There is big difference only grownups understand. You on the other hand haven’t gotten out of high school yet. You may be old enough but haven’t learned the ability to discern what is what and stuck on cliche’s like negativity coming back.
Next you are going to tell me it is KARMA while not knowing what the hell Karma means or do the math or some other cliche.
Did she deny she cancelled twice? Dis I make up a lie?
Ones reputation is tarnished when another make up lie. In this case it is not a lie. As I said in response, she can contact me if she wants to and I am not one to hold a grudge.
As I said she will have to contact me if not, she will never ever hear from me again
Well I guess when you grow up you'll understand, shit happens get over it. Your bitching like a little high school girl who can't let something go. FYI I graduated college in "90.
and won’t be afraid of truth and stop trying to kiss ass.
A decent guy , and do not get mad easily so I have to go with you on this . She flaked , guys get reamed for this shit ! You called her out , she should ask ladies for advice and grow up ! Hey good for you , find a nicer Lady to spend yohr time with .
I also went to college full time and got two graduate degrees hence, I know what qit takes to do so. I am sure many others here also have done it.
You could have called to let me know as well. I am not hurt but rather very disappointed because if you cannot trust and depend another human being, it is pretty damn bad as far as I am concerned.
I can assure you if we ever actually meet, I will also post the information here. Only reason to post is to let others know so they don’t have to go through the same experience which is the purpose of this forum, to share positive and negative information.
Kissing ass will get you everywhere you think?
Not a chance.
You are not only dealing with the client this happened with but also everyone else that wants to give you a hard time.
Things happen, life happens and sometimes things happen that are out of our control. I am sending you a big ol' hug.
If I had this many people coming down on me it would crush me.
((((((BIG HUG))))))
Sincerely,
Shawnie
xoxoxox
Do you cancel appointments 30 min prior?
Do you think that is not the type of info that should be shared?
Should it be a secret?
Have on occasion cancelled ! And guess what the lady lost NOTHING ! Kick boxing ? Competition ? Out ta town ? What fuckng dumb ass school do u go to ?
This ain't Romania and he ain't Borat ! Shape up ! Oh and lose a few pounds !
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"I sincerely apologize...however I scheduled a training early am and drove into town last night .....Im trying to force myself to stay up. I don't want to see you like this. I truly hope you can forgive me; however, I need to reschedule for when I am more rested."
I literally was drained the closer it got to our appointed session's time that Friday evening due to just coming back into town the night prior from a competition for school and having kickboxing training that Friday morning. As I was preparing for you with the requested outfit, I could sense that I was going to fall asleep very soon if not in the next half hour-so I did what I felt was the professional thing to do irregardless of the circumstance. It was a mere coincidence that we had an issue the weekend prior and you said you understood; thus, you rescheduled to see me this Friday.
I can understand how you felt and I would like to make it up to you still if allowed; however, I feel that any "friend" that I entertain should have 110% of me and not a lethargic version. I am shocked and slightly hurt that you posted about this instead of talking to me about how you felt. However, I am still empathetic towards you and am open to rectify it if so desired.
One thing I've learned in life when you try and get folks together it can turn into a cluster fuck. The more folks the worse it can be, and obviulosiy even just 2 people trying to get together can be a pain in the ass. Not taking sides but life can get in the way. I've been cancelled on by a provider who was running late while waiting across the street from the hotel, I was a little perturbed that she was late (30 mins) then I got a call that she wasn't going to make it, family emergency. I was thinking damn this gal is flaky as hell and wasteing my time. Tried again in a couple weeks and she ran a bit late but no biggie, I was thinking though this gal has got to be dingy as all get out and this may be a waste of time. Went ahead with the appointment and glad I did all hell broke loose!! She's turned into an ATF for me and have spent a good deal of OTC time with her as well. So ya never know first impressions can be wrong. Hate ya got let down a bit but hopefully it will all work out and she'll rock you're world but after a public post like this I doubt it. Though she has graciously replied meeting would probally feel a bit awkward.
The reason for the post is to let others know what can happen. Indeed, I am annoyed to have wasted my time and for driving to the location. It is hard to imagine, two cancellation 30 minutes ahead.
We will see how it works out.
The post was a simple truth but the drama kings over here decide to create some drama with their opining based what they would and would not do.
I could have simply posted a review which I did not.
It happens!!!!!!! She is a person who isnt perfect!!
She contacted you to let you know she was unable to keep her appointment.
Get over it!! But to trash her and affect her business in negative way is SELFISH AND CRUEL!!
SHIT HAPPENS MAN !!
You could ruin her business and her livelihood!! What if this woman has children?? She is in college. She is trying to better her life.
You have a problem, you speak to her personally, dont bring this to a board where everyone and their brother jumps on the chance to make her feel bad!!
We are people too. We have lives. We fall short of your requests!!
You are being hurtful over this and I find it unacceptable.
Look how many people have jumped her ass??
I have seen many times you come on here and bitch about No Show hence you don’t have a dog in the race.
You know what, you drama queens and kings are the one’s trashing her, not I. I just posted as to exactly what happened.
You find it unacceptable, what the fuck? Gee, the universe is afraid know, lightening is going to strike, heavy winds are toppling the mountains, waves through out coast is 10 feet high, there massive destruction because you find it unacceptable. Go get a life.
Give your advise someone who needs it starting with you.
If anyone of you think, you are not going to get a reply when you post stupid shit, you are wrong.
She contacted you to let you know she was unable to keep her appointment.
Get over it!! But to trash her and affect her business in negative way is SELFISH AND CRUEL!!
SHIT HAPPENS MAN !!
You could ruin her business and her livelihood!! What if this woman has children?? She is in college. She is trying to better her life.
You have a problem, you speak to her personally, dont bring this to a board where everyone and their brother jumps on the chance to make her feel bad!!
We are people too. We have lives. We fall short of your requests!!
You are being hurtful over this and I find it unacceptable.
Look how many people have jumped her ass???
Just as I had predicted in my previous post anonymousfun. The only thing you have accomplished is pissing off the providers that post on this message board. If I was a provider reading your initial post and your responses to anyone that challenged your post, I would put you on my DNS list.
This was a 22 year old girl who is obviously new to this and judging from her post about the guy that she thought ripped her off, she is confused and not sure if she even wants to do this anymore. You being someone who has been around a long time should know a lot better, and should have handled it better.
Sure she screwed up and did something inconsiderate, but again she is a kid and new at this. You being a vet could have stated to her you didn't appreciate what she did and that she needs to make that up to you. Maybe even told her the way things work if she wants to continue in this hobby, She may have even appreciated your advice.
You should have at least attempted to handle it behind the scenes, it doesn't sound like you did. In addition, it doesn't sound like you were just posting this info to help others. You come off sounding like someone that is vindictive posting stuff like "Some sort of sick game she is plain" and "We will see what she does. Nothing thus far. My guess is nothing"
Post like these should be reserved for NQNS or rip off or some thing dangerous, not this childish stuff. Your post comes off sounding like someone that had his pride or feelings hurt because some kid cancelled on him twice.
That’s why you are intend on kissing everyone’s ass. Indeed, I do know lot better. Let me give you clue, women in general providers don’t really care for spineless ass kisser like you. Do you know why? You cannot be trusted and spineless one’s lie to everyone in their faces.
Don’t tell me what to post or not post because faceless Mangina like you doesn’t like it.
Hey Shawnie,
I agree with you - shit happens. However, this board is for people to voice their opinion and experiences. If this affects the young ladies business negatively, it is ONLY because she have the OP a negative experience. At the end of the day, this guy is paying for a service that the provider failed to provide.
If you took your car for an oil change, and was told the car would be finished in 30 minutes, then came back and were told they would not be able to get to it until next week - would you be happy? No, of course not. Now imagine this happened twice, would you recommend this to your friends as a "great service station", again, no.
At the end of the day, the ladies have to be held accountable for their actions in some fashion, otherwise the game is completely rigged.
Look I'm not saying you're totally wrong but face it most gals under 25 can be flakey as hell. All I'm saying no need to bring it here. Bait and switch or worse then definatly we need to know. Just my two cents worth what if the gals brought all our short comings (or Cummings) here
At least not for the whole world to see. It's no diffrent than the back channeling we do.
So fast , he wouldn't know what hit him !
So, you decided the best way to get around is to be spineless mangina.
News flash, there are plenty of classy providers in Atlanta so one doesn’t have to put up this sort of behavior.
WH like you doesn’t allow it?
This is exactly the place where to bring it so others don’t have to go through the same thing which is the purpose of this board.
Go fuck yourself
Jeez somebody is testy today, I never insulted you or really even bashed you. I simply stated my opinion. Sounds like someone's insecure. All are doing is showing you're intelligence level if you can't respond without resulting to juvenile tactics. I'm sure you've had great success in this hobby and I wish you continued success here and no I'm not spineless just an adult.
I mean knowledge can be gained from varied opinions. She is bp , under 25 , flaked once so ?????? But he did give her a 2nd chance which most guys would say to do so ?????? Lose lose situation ! He's just pissed he had to jerk off !
if you where in pursuit of a "civilian" date with lady in the non hobby world a couple of last minute cancellations would probably not slow you down much (or maybe it would) in your attempts to set up a date. I doubt seriously that you would go to the effort to call her out on a public board.
I get the feeling that at least some clients seem to think that providers get up in the morning, get made up and wait expectantly for clients to call because they have nothing to do all day expect be available. While there may be a very few providers like that, or some few that set aside a day for that purpose, the vast majority have as complicated (or ever more so due to being providers) lives as we clients. Let’s keep things in perspective, it is not like you got a last minute cancellation on a kidney transplant or some such. What did you truly lose except maybe few minutes of your day? Disappointing to be sure, but requiring public dressing down, I think not.
Do you even know WTF you are talking about? Did you read the thread?
Honestly, I would probably not see that person if they cancelled a date 30 minutes ahead of time twice in a row. I would conclude she is not interested and it is not going to go anywhere any way.
I would not hold a grudge, stalk her, annoy her or do anything else because there are lot more interesting things to do in the world.
What I am trying to say is, you don’t how the fuck anyone would handle any situation all you barely know is how you may or may not handle a situation.
Before you asking the next stupid question/comment. No I have not ever been stood up by anyone Civilian date or otherwise neither have I done so to anyone.
And yes I do know WTF I am talking about and yes I have read the thread.
You state that if someone cancelled on you twice in row 30 minutes before a meeting you would not see them. Absolutely your prerogative but that should be the end of if (between you and her). Bringing it to the board opens it to be discussed. And then to bring in the previous thread which has nothing to do what happened to you (cancellations verse black listing) and the reverse yourself invites even more discussion.
You say you would not hold a grudge but the original thread smacks to me of someone being a touch vindictive and/or looking for discount. I understand it is very disappointing to have two in a row cancelled on short or long notice but as other have said life happens.
It is laughable that you think you can tell me what I do and don't know. Kindly remove your cranium from your rectum and smell the excrement you are shoveling.
Suppose you got an F reading comprehension.
Did I ever mention anything about discussing?
Telling truth is not vindictive. Suppose you wouldn’t know truth if it hits in the face.
Take your own advise, since you posted on the discussion board, I have right to respond as you. Like I said, you need dig out your cranium from your rectum.
I shall and will post what I want
Never called that into question. Of course so do I. Guess we both got F's in reading comprehension. Had your post simply stated that you had be cancelled on twice in a row with short notice by the same person I probably would have pasted it by. It was the dragging the old thread into the discussion and then trying imply that somehow short notice cancellations somehow validates intentional shorting of a donation and/or invalidates her desire to black list over the event. Even if she is unreliable that does not mean that shorting a donation should be tolerated.
I may well have my cranium in my rectum but I do know it stinks in here...
Hence you don’t comprehend.
If a provider can come here and complain about a client so can a hobbyist. Moreover, I was backing on her post because I also thought she was a great person with her emails. You also don’t have a clue how many emails were exchanged, do you?
you certainly don't comprehend or chose not to comprehend what others and myself are trying to say to you. By your own admission she and you traded multiple emails during the week. Don't you think that in and of itself indicates she planned to meet you? I could rehash yet again the points I and others have tried to make but I know it would be an exercise in futility. I certainly hope you receive the level of respect and consideration your posts should garner.
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And I was the 1st to notice it and use that phrase ! Fucking ridiculous isn't it .
I may or may not rebook, but I would be thanking her for telling me it was going to be a bad session. I have had a few regulars call me from time to time saying things like "I was up studying" "I had a family emergency" "I was out partying all night"...but when they end with "I don't want to disappoint you with a boring time" I respect the hell out of them being concerned for my time and money/value and their own reputation.
Given I hadn't met her, and twice in a row...I may scratch her off my list for now, but I wouldn't hold anything against her. Even if she was just going shopping concerned because she needed new jeans for a real date later that night...I would rather a lady cancel than take my money and not provide her best session.
Kudo's to VS
If you play out worst case scenario...I would rather read a post like this from a guy with 3 reviews than a bad review for a lady.
because I don’t like to.
I have been on this board for over 10 years and I do know who are the mangina’s here and who are not. The point is, I am not complaining I am just sharing information on a provider so either she stops doing the same to others or changes her behavior.
She didn’t realize she was tired from Kick boxing till 5:20 PM for a 5:30 appointment.
It's not a great post if he made no attempt to resolve it behind the scenes with the girl. She might be a 22 year old college student that is a flake...surprise, surprise...but his response was not to help the community. His exact words...."The point is I don’t like to played and made to like a fool that’s what your actions did" It's about his pride, he is sounding very insecure and immature. And even when she apologized and offered to make it up to him...he kept posting stuff calling her out in public...
"Last week, Veronica Savu posted a link asking this. At the time I sort of sided with her but now for the good of the community I am going to take it back.
I have set up appointments with her twice in row but she has cancelled bot at the last minute. First time, I told her “I understand” second time I told her, our meeting is not going to work out.
Do as you may but don’t be surprised, if you get a text at the last minute saying “Check your email. Important change in business meeting”.
That is great.
She bailed on him twice. Why should he call her again? I don't get it?
I have set up appointments with her twice in row but she has cancelled bot at the last minute. First time, I told her “I understand” second time I told her, our meeting is not going to work out.
Do as you may but don’t be surprised, if you get a text at the last minute saying “Check your email. Important change in business meeting”.
That is great.
She bailed on him twice. Why should he call her again? I don't get it?
She bailed twice 30 min before the date after having set it up a week before. I wouldn't get in touch with her again.
I'd do same thing, absent the sick game bit.
And it was relevant that she had just posted about blacklisting someone...
I posted above in this thread what I would have done, go read those responses if you like. She is a 22 year old kid that is new at this and he is someone who claims to have been here for over 10 years. This did not benefit him or anyone else. He did this as I stated because his pride was hurt, that is why he put the sick game thing comment. Post like this should be for bait and switch or rip offs or something dangerous not a cancellation from some kid.
If you would do the same thing then you would have a bunch of providers not wanting to see you either...is that what you want to prove some point with some 22 year college student who cancelled on you or are you here to get laid ? not very smart
Again, she flaked TWICE 30 min before the appointment. I would feel no obligation to contact her after that second time. I also would make a post like his.
I don't want to prove any point with any providers no matter what the age (22 is a full grown woman: many have kids at that age).
What I want to do is know if a provider has a history of flaking. And to provide an incentive to providers not to flake.
This is the kinda thing TER was created for.
I don't want to see a provider who would DNS me for saying another(!) provider was a flake.
Again, I wouldn't have posted the sick game bit.
Then go ahead a post one of these the next time you get cancelled on and let me know how successful that turns out for you, and make sure you don't use your alias
Cancellations happen all the time in this hobby. That is different than NCNS, Bait & Switch or Rip offs which she was posting about initially. And the guy that supposedly ripped her off she couldn't get in touch with. Wasn't the case here. She emailed him and said she was sorry and asked to make it up. He has the right to post what he wants but again, he could have handled this with her in private.
She is new and 22, I would expect her to be a flake, most at that age are. If you are going to see some new college girl escort and are you surprised that she cancelled on you, then you really are clueless.
And there are 14 year olds with kids, doesn't make them adults. If you think 22 year old nowadays are full grown women that act mature and responsible, you must not have much experience with 22 year olds.
You seem to be another one of those guys that is more concerned about this kind of non-sense instead of getting laid. And by the way he still wants to see her, he is waiting for her to make it up to him if you read the posts. Which makes the whole thing stupid
I treat 22 year olds as adults. Because, they are adults.
I want to get laid AND not put up with stuff like getting canceled on twice 30 min prior after making the reservation a week before.
That is why I joined TER.
Not necessarily at you, but the entire thread.
For a posy picker you sure did rile up the masses. My take is that you did a good service to your fellow hobbyists by posting. More importantly, by not trashing her you did well in the credibility department. Once is understandable, but twice in consecutive weeks is not. While not rising to the level of a NCNS, it is still good to know and it shows her lack of business edict.
For the white knights, stop acting like you are saving the provider from some immanent doom. You dummies should know that it will probably help her in the long run by being more responsible in the future. Perhaps some of you should be out picking the posies.
Purpose was not to trash her but white knights in shining arms mad a mess of it by coming to her rescue. Did these guys help her in any way, no
This looks all bad..
If any of you thought you were dating her a favor, you did not. You gutless, spineless show support made the whole damn thing worse for her than my mere informational post. Besides, most of you Drama Kings doesn’t seem to know the purpose of this board and since you manginess are know it all’s I am not going to tell you.
So, if your goal is to help Veronica, shut the fuck up
Balls of yours must have been as blue as the ocean , hope u cleaned your windshield ! B gd bro .
So, if your goal is to help Veronica, shut the fuck up.