Posted By: WillyJohnson
I am all for outing people who screw others over, however I think it is best to be 100% sure of a situation before that happens. If you are sure this happened then pass along the info. Trust me PM'ing a few guys and gals who post on here regularly is another great way to get the word out. I am sure your inbox is exploding as I type this.
I am confident you will do the right thing.
Willy
Gotta agree with WJ on the 100% certainty comment. We have all seen or known individuals get outed, get accused, etc. only sometimes to find there was a mistake, a misunderstanding, another side to the story, etc. Like media reports - the accusation gets front page, the retraction or correction gets buried along with the obituaries. Folks in the hobby are no different.
I HIGHLY commend you for sticking up for this guy, it is admirable. As I don't do outcall, the warning is not germane to me per se, but neither would I want to see anyone at any location that would steal, especially under the circumstances you described. Nor would I want this to happen to a hobbying friend that did prefer outcall.
It would be better if this retired hobbyist friend of yours came forth himself, but failing that and you are willing to commit to 100% certainty of the events - then yes, out them. Just understand the responsibility that goes with the reputation (a good one) that you have established.
You asked for input and advice, that is my opinion.