I only communicate through email til I meet the guy usually. It's just more convenient for me. If a lady has plenty of reviews, why would talking or not talking to her change you wanting to spend time with her? I mean someone can talk to you on the phone and still have someone waiting with a club lol. I believe it's the way you screen the lady or gentlemen that should make you more comfortable not speaking with someone, because it doesn't do much in the terms of security.
Not knocking the way you do things at all, just warning you to not assume that by talking to a lady that your perfectly safe. You need to have other methods like making sure there are plenty of reviews to vouch for the lady and ads posted. As always everyone stay safe
I know some providers who like to be initially contacted by email, but eventually I think most speak with you at some point either to confirm or get room/apartment number. I had a situation this week where I stopped en route to an appointment because a provider who I had not met and was going to a first time appointment with refused to speak with me and only wanted to coordinate via email and text. I was driving a car, so speaking by phone would have been better to get directions. It seemed odd and potentially suspicious, so I told her I didn't want to go. She was able to verify me via P411, but she only had 2 or 3 reviews on TER, so I wouldn't say she is a well-known quantity. I am just curious if the "standard two call system" we often mention is really standard, or if anyone is comfortable seeing a provider for the first time after only email and text contact. The key here is "first time" as I do sometimes arrange solely by text with ladies I am seeing again. Thanks.
i would never see a provider with out speaking on the phone with her or a asst first i would have just told her in an email if you can call me my car cant drive to you lol
She did everything through email, and I do mean everything.
I was tempted to cancel.. because I like to hear the providers voice at least once before we meet.
Luckily I kept the appointment and it was the best sex I've ever had with any woman.. to quote michael douglas I Think She's the Fuck of the Century, but she also had the weirdest scheduling methods I have ever encountered.
If a provider is well-reviewed and chooses to communicate by text or via a screener, I don't understand the issue. A number of my dates have unfolded this way. Probably half or more of the ladies I've reviewed never spoke with me prior to actually meeting at the incall.
Ever made a date with a telephone operator because she had a really sexy voice? How'd that work out?
I have had many cases when I saw someone for the first time and only spoke to her screener beforehand. No problem. In fact, sometimes the screener is a blast to talk with. When the provider insists on text only communication, especially while i'm on my way and need directions, that doesn't work. I simply won't risk a car wreck or worse because of ther total lack of consideration.
I started email only about 2 months after I entered into the industry. i am thrilled i made the decision. It's easier for me to keep emails private as to speaking verbally over a phone. I strongly advertise email only on my website, so guys know before they contact me if it's something they can accept. It's working for me nicely, so to answer your question, there are guys that visit without speaking to me first.
Grace you could use Western Union or the Pony Express and I would still see you !!
Posted By: Gracekelly
I started email only about 2 months after I entered into the industry. i am thrilled i made the decision. It's easier for me to keep emails private as to speaking verbally over a phone. I strongly advertise email only on my website, so guys know before they contact me if it's something they can accept. It's working for me nicely, so to answer your question, there are guys that visit without speaking to me first.
Obviously the agency girls I don't talk to in advance. There's something very erotic about getting BBBJ 3min after you've walked in the door, by a hot young girl that isn't even really sure that you're the right guy that's supposed to meet her at that time . . . So JFL
Often I don't even speak to the agency, just email them.
Been to foreign countries with only email contact with independents and it works great.
Lots of indi's have screeners and only via email, then the "screener 2 call" for gate code. So my indi's are even blowing a stranger sight unseen. Love this hobby.
Just had a session last week where I got lost, and rescheduled, etc. all via email. As an FYI, P411 seems to sometimes have up to a 7 min delay, which can make real time communication problematic.
I much prefer keeping it all online, I don't want to have to explain phone numbers or texts. Much easier to use a disposable and discreet email account and an online referral membership. That plus my VPN, and I have no explaining to do.
I am email only up until the day before or the day of the meeting. It seems suspicious to me when someone doesn't want to speak on the phone or can't follow simple written instructions. I need to hear a voice before we go BCD.
Most have an assistant whom I speak with, some are through agency (which you never get to speak directly to the girl), and the rest I've communicated via text or email. I can't recall that many providers whom I've spoken to directly, but yea your specific example is a bit awkward.
So, you guys must be living in a limited and restricted world.
You guys just wake up, write first thing comes to your and some answers are the same way.
If you don’t believe me, call any of the well known agencies and tell them, you want to see so and so but before you do that, you want to speak to the provider directly and see what happens.
Posted By: EngScott
I know some providers who like to be initially contacted by email, but eventually I think most speak with you at some point either to confirm or get room/apartment number. I had a situation this week where I stopped en route to an appointment because a provider who I had not met and was going to a first time appointment with refused to speak with me and only wanted to coordinate via email and text. I was driving a car, so speaking by phone would have been better to get directions. It seemed odd and potentially suspicious, so I told her I didn't want to go. She was able to verify me via P411, but she only had 2 or 3 reviews on TER, so I wouldn't say she is a well-known quantity. I am just curious if the "standard two call system" we often mention is really standard, or if anyone is comfortable seeing a provider for the first time after only email and text contact. The key here is "first time" as I do sometimes arrange solely by text with ladies I am seeing again. Thanks.
So all 3 of the reviews you have written mention speaking to either provider or agency person on the phone, yet you think I am living in a limited or restricted world. I am talking about an INDEPENDENT provider with no assistant, secretary, mamasan or anything else except her. I was asking the group if her refusing to speak on the phone seemed like an odd way of doing business. I guess I was just trying to make sure no LE or no big guy with a club would be waiting for me behind the door. It didn't seem like such a huge request for our mutual security. So now that it is 2013 and you haven't written a review since 2012, you go right ahead and email or text your way into trouble because you must think safety is not a concern in the world
Most reputed independent provider does have assistants these days to constant badgering of emails and phone calls. If you are asking BP indies, I don’t have clue.
Besides, you didn’t mention anything about independents in your OP.
I do not frequent the type of women who need to have big guy with a club on their side or the one’s who doesn’t have enough sense to protect themselves from danger or the one’s doesn’t respect privacy of theirs or mine.
I only see reputed and ladies with class and intellect so, I do not concern myself with my security all that much. If they are not concerned about their own security nothing you do to protect yourself matters.
...I prefer initially to be contacted by either phone or email! My screening process is done mostly by email and/or text! However, I do at some point have to speak with the gentleman scheduling an appointment for the first time. I get a better vibe/gut feeling about a person through email and a phone conversation! Call me Ol' School...
Besides, those that know me here, know I'm a Social Butterfly!
I only communicate through email til I meet the guy usually. It's just more convenient for me. If a lady has plenty of reviews, why would talking or not talking to her change you wanting to spend time with her? I mean someone can talk to you on the phone and still have someone waiting with a club lol. I believe it's the way you screen the lady or gentlemen that should make you more comfortable not speaking with someone, because it doesn't do much in the terms of security.
Not knocking the way you do things at all, just warning you to not assume that by talking to a lady that your perfectly safe. You need to have other methods like making sure there are plenty of reviews to vouch for the lady and ads posted. As always everyone stay safe
He is talking about someone who has no phone number listed and responds and talks via only email prior to meeting one -- no booking agent to guide you, screen you, even for last minute directions, etc. I agree a human touch helps to put you at ease and helps to even expect the service quality of the agency or provider (ie if they have a stinky or rushed attitude...you might detect that and simply hang up versus a sexy voice or are just 'chatty' or you guys find a cool connection on the phone --- ive had all of the above scenarios happen)
Ive only spent time with one person that was email only -- had an excellent time but Its not something I prefer -- it could be a room full of guys waiting to rob you or a news crew waiting for you to put you on a documentary or reality show or something
It's not something I do anymore for meeting 1 but I dont mind at all for subsequent meetings and converse with my regular friends routinely to secure their time via text or email
Well/highly reviewed may be the only exception but at this point -- id probably skip those too unless I was really into the way they looked (like personal prototype level which is rare)
atleast one time before meeting. THAT tells me a lot and I am sure that tells you guys a lot too Also it gives us a chance to kind of break the ice a little before we.... well you get the picture lol I have had some situations where the guy wanted my apt# without ever speaking and I am always nervous when they get there UNLESS they have several rock solid refs and then I am fine with whatever really. I do spend a lot of time getting to know ladies too though THAT is definitely fun! haha!! Hugs and kisses TL
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