I think you are asking "what do you think about going bareback (even if its not every time) with a provider you are extremely close to and have seen for a long time?" do I have that right?
Just my opinion but you two are grown folks that know each other and what each other does. It comes down to trust. As long as you both agree where you are in your relationship then it’s up to you two.
PLEASE THINK HARD!!!!! I saw a lady post "natural" on Twitter asking for THOUSANDS of dollars and TONS of people seemed to be going for it! You know the lady BUT if she's doing it with you, she could POSSIBLY be doing it with others. She could have a clean bill of health but YESTERDAY a condom broke and she got something that's NOT showing up on the report. This is usually an act of desparation. I would NEVER.
Agree. It happens way more than you think. I used to do it all the time with a regular of mine who was very popular here, even though I knew she probably did it with others as well. We both were tested often and willing to take the risk.
I have a feeling we all would be shocked at the percent of time this happens.... Some shocked at how high the percentage others shocked at how low the percentage. I "dated " a provider for a couple years, I did not know she was a provider, we never used condoms. When I discovered she had been a provider the entire time we were dating I found many reviews here and other places. One of those places had a board where the guys discussed BBFS and she was constantly mentioned, who knows the truth but I suspect the answers would surprise us all.
It always amazes me though that guys would not trust a provider with real world info but would gladly pay an extra amount of money to go bare. Or more common is this for me.... if I cannot trust you with information I'm not gonna trust you with my cock in your mouth.
she saved herself for marriage. Her hubby told her she was also a Virgin. A month later she ends up with WARTS of all the things!!! Now she has a LIFETIME of embarassing warts because she trusted her high school sweetheart. Please guys be careful!
Besides don't you think with the advent of Female Condoms, it feels like bare anyway??? MUAH, GT
I think there are multiple valid points here... One point is to really trust no one, in your story the woman really couldn't trust the man she married. The second point is that STD's of all kinds can be awful and there is no real reason to risk it especially with new options like Female condom. The last point for me is that the imitation, no matter how good, is never the original. I like FC more than I like STD's.... Do Female condoms feel just like bare? NO, a zip lock filled with lube does not feel just like skin to skin contact with natures lube. The Female condom is the best alternative currently though and I do prefer them to STD's. Looking back I should have never gone bare with my "girlfriend" however at that point I really knew nothing about the companionship world and at my age condoms were viewed more as birth control rather than a safety precaution. Since that time I have not been bare with anyone, I have had it offered regularly but I'm no longer a particularly trusting person when it comes to that.
If you've been seeing her for two years and feel the need to provide an updated assessment, you know her well enough to do so. It will aid her in attracting new customers. There are times when critiques are brutal. Meeting someone for the first time can be uncomfortable. But perhaps all she needs is a refresher on who she is and whether or not she is anything more than a time-keeper.
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