Personally, I wouldn't contact someone about writing a review.  It just seems inappropriate.

If I've had a good time, I'll usually discuss my intention to write a review to make sure the lady approves of sharing information about our time together.

Just my 2 cents worth.

Hey lovely. I think it is Ok to ask. Also I always wondered if the ladies did not like for reviews to be issued (good or bad) because they didn't want to draw attention. eom

IMHO I think if a lady is a newbie , it's more important that she ask for and receive reviews. If a lady is a veteran provider with many reviews , hobbyists should not be asked to review a lady---but should review her anyway --- especially if her services have drastically changed. If her services have drastically changed , then other hobbyists should be notified accordingly in a review.

I think asking tactfully and nicely is a good way to go about it. Not all reviews are posted for a variety of different reasons.  I must be honest with you though. I use reviews to see if a provider truly is a GFE provider or not. It helps a great deal to figure out whom I wish to see or not.

I usually ask the provider if it's alright for me to post a review. But if I were asked, I wouldn't have a problem with it. I also find women who are keenly aware of reviews more likely to try her best to please. She knows the value of a good review.

I have no problem being asked for a review. Some have said to me, "feel free to write a review if you like", exactly as you suggest. Ask at the end of the appointment or by PM very shortly thereafter. I'm fine with it. As one poster said it is how you ask that matters. I wouldn't suggest going beyond simply asking. I often ask the provider if she would mind if I write one.

I wouldn't ask if there were some issue that I felt the community needed to know. I would simply write it.

I think you will find some gents wouldn't like being asked. As with most things there will be someone that thinks you shouldn't do it. Their reasons are their own. But it seems to me most would not mind.

Ginger, I think you have more glowing reviews than you know what to do with.  But if it truly does please you to read more, I cant imagine anyone getting offended from you saying so.

I didn't write one for you b/c I figure it would be about as useful as writing a good review for Coca-Cola on Amazon - if you haven't figured out it's the best yet, one more isn't going to sway you

...and I would enjoy being asked. I'm probably going to write one anyway, regardless.

with me writing a review, either as I'm leaving or in a 'Thank You' e-mail.  So I certainly wouldn't mind if the lady asked me.   It's obvious that if she asks, she's assuming that it'll be a favorable review.

As to asking in person for me it needs to be done tactfully.  Unacceptable - Would you write me a review.  Acceptable - I am not sure if your a review writer, but I am ok with receiving them and somewhat enjoy them as they help me understand your interests which can improve our next encounter.

As to texting its a simple rule.  If the lady doesn't engage in text or email chit chat before the meeting as part of the service then don't even think of texting or emailing me and asking for a review.  Additionally in general I just see it as bad form.  Better to ask at the end of the session while the client still has the glow, afterwards makes it seem like a business discussion.

It does not harm at all. In a way it shows
that she cares abt it. Finally, asking does not
mean receiving tho! And, guys shd know
that.
Just my 2c.

I think it is definitely appropriate.

"As to texting its a simple rule.  If the lady doesn't engage in text or email chit chat before the meeting as part of the service then don't even think of texting or emailing me and asking for a review."

Huh ? read my handle and then ask yourself why texting AFTER you meet is different. Pull your head dude !

Each will have their own opinion, but I think asking for a review is appropriate. I think it should be done in person AFTER the session, NEVER before. I do think texting is too impersonal for the request. If you request one, just be prepared for the answer.

Jim

I'm starting to see more guys say that they don't do a review unless asked. I myself never asked because I felt it'd be better if he just decided to do one on his own.  I still feel funny flat out asking but I guess suggesting one being done to be helpful wouldn't hurt.  A girl does like to know how she's doing.

If a lady is non interactive outside the sesssion it is usually because she prefers to maintain her privacy or distance.  That certainly is her prerogative as such I respect that.  What I am suggesting is that she afford me the same courtesy and not pester me about a review.  I thnk that's understandable and reasonable.

I know it's good idea to write a review for the benefit of this community, but sometime I don't b/c of laziness. If I'm asked, I'll feel more obliged to do it so I'll do it and that's better for the community!!!