I have had an appt booked since Tuesday for tonight. He confirms earlier today and gives my manager the address to the hotel. I start to head to the appt and I am told he want to meet in the bar of the hotel. Now because I haven't Bren doing this long and he was a new client that was ify about giving info this made me feel worried. My manager called and told him the I was feeling a little uncomfortable because he was new and hadn't given much info On hisself. I was on the phone when she talked to him and she was as nice as she could be about. We made agreements and he was told I was 10 minutes away. I get there and start to head in and find out that he has called the phone operator wanting to cancel. he said he was uneasy and didn't feel comfortable now. My manger called him and by the time she did he had cut off his phone. This guy is on datecheck and had a good bit of oks from providers. This just makes me furious. I have had guy cancel but not like this. He had the appt set for 3 days, and I don't normally do late appts. I got all the way in the hotel and he cancelled. And I had to pay for parking to get myself out. I know my manager will post on datecheck about this, but this is just wrong. It's guys like this that ruin it for guy that really want to be private. Sorry, I just needed to vent.

You called to tell him u were uncomfortable with seeing him. So what was going to make u more comfortable in 10 min?

You have every right to trust your instincts. That said, I can see where he might get discouraged, especially if he's solid on Datecheck.

I hate that this happened to you, but looking at it from the guy's perspective might help ease the outrage.  If I was the new client in the bar, and a provider called 10 minutes before an agreed upon meeting saying she was uncomfortable, etc., I would've become suspect and uneasy.  For all I know, LE or a pimp may be watching to see who answered that call so they could follow me back to the room.

If you changed the plans last moment and then he did the same, I think you may want to temper your anger and chalk this one up as experience.

.02 cents

Sorry this happened, but these were great replies to help me understand some of the nuances of this hobby that aren't always obvious.

I always thought I'd prefer to meet a lady in public first, in order to get more comfortable with one another, flirt a bit, and feel like it was a real date.  But I was always too cheap to pay for the extra time!  Lol. If I could afford to spring for an extra thirty minutes of conversation, I'd definitely want to meet in the hotel bar.

Most providers and agencies advertise dinner dates (at outrageous prices), wouldn't that require the provider to meet the client at a restaurant or some other public spot?  What's the difference between that and meeting in a lobby?

I have done some 2 hr and 3 hr lunch dates. I picked the lady up at her in call location and we went to eat first. Then return for the rest of the activities. I like to stay put once we are in her place for the fun. I only do this with ladies I have seen before. That removes the meet in public issue.

And you had to pay for parking I would have been livid! Its seems there were miscommunication with your client and your handler.  Just my opinion I think you should fire your manager, clearly he or is to incompetent to screen or schedule appointments.

You felt uncomfortable and you know why because your manager did not screen properly. And what manager calls a clients 10 minutes prior to the appointment time to tell the client the provider is feeling uncomfortable. That would freak me out as well, probably would freak any client out, still doesn't excuse his behavior "jerk".  I feel bad for ya as this sucks

I agree, not even a week ago it happened to me almost the same way. We talked and i got directions to the hotel off windy hill rd. everything was fine up to that point. Then she just never answered to give
me her room #. I was pissed off too.

It's a shame that crap happens and inconveniences everyone. It sounds like the guy wasn't very forthcoming with his info when making the appointment but it wasn't an issue (especially since he had datecheck verification) until he changed things up at the last moment and wanted to meet in the bar. I agree that bringing up the lack of info issue at the time of the call just muddied the water. It would have been best to just keep it to the meeting in the bar as the obstacle and simply say, no we can't meet at the bar. Let's just keep it as we originally planned. I also think your manager should have handled it and not even called you. The manager could have said no, we can't change it up now. Last minute changes tend to make people nervous in these situations. That's probably why he decided to leave because the back and forth was making him nervous. I see thing both parties could have done differently and all would have been fine.

Hang in there Cristin. It happens. Don't let it get you down.

Where I live there is a shortage of ladies to see. So when I hobby I am a long way from home. Those trips are strictly for my fun. So far I have done all my hobbying in Las Vegas.  The hotels I stay at almost always require a room key for access to the elevators. That pretty much limits me to have to meet my date in the lobby or a lounge downstairs. It is still very easy to be discreet when meeting for the first time. There are usually several lounges close by. It seems that the closest lounges always seem to be more open and the public can see everyone in them. However there is almost always a more secluded lounge somewhere we can meet where the lighting is a little lower and the lines of sight are not as good. I tend to pick these places and find a nice corner in there to meet the lady. I will also ask the lady where she prefers to meet when she can't come straight to my room. That gives her the option of choosing a place she also feels comfortable with. So with some places your simply stuck having to meet in a more public place just because of the need to have a room key for the elevator.
    I have also heard stories of guys who like to meet ladies in public because it gives them an escape. They are able to see the lady coming and if they are not satisfied with her looks or she is not what they expected they simply slip away in the crowd and leave the lady standing there looking for her date. That a complete bullshit way of dealing with it and I would never do that, but I have heard of it.

I would advise that you find yourself another.

Wasting peoples time is rude. It seems to happen quite a bit in this game. I hate it for you cristen. It has happened to me recently as well. Emails and phone calls all the way to the location, then nothing for an hour, then promises for a make up app, never to happen.
Chalk it up and move, I guess. Still sux tho.

Maybe I am at fault here for not providing enough information, I was just venting. I didn't change anything on his appt. I had my manager call him because I really didn't understand what he wanted, keep in mind I am with an agency so most of my clients I never talk to myself. My manager called and found out that he wanted to meet in the bar because he wanted to make sure I was who I say I am. After I found that out I was ok. I am who I say I am and my pictures are real so I have nothing to hide. I agreed to meet him just as he requested, I didn't change anything. My manager didn't lead him to believe I was uncomfortable she just told him that I was unclear as to how he wanted to meet, which was the truth.

I was uncomfortable for the fact I have never meet this man and anyone could have come up to me in that bar. Yes he could have picked me out from my pictures but I had nothing to go by on him. My manager and I kept this to ourselves. We didn't want to scare him away. I figured once we meet in the bar we could make each other feel better and then go on with the appt. This was something I have never encountered. I have had dinner dates all of which included the guy picking me up at my location. We are all a little nervous doing something new. That's all it was on my part, but it's not like I called him and said I'm not comfortable doing that and refused his request.

This was not my managers fault. We were only trying to make the guy feel more comfortable. She never lead on able me being uncorfortable. We made his request possible and then he pulled this crap. The guy ha no respect that I had drove an hour to see him and him bail on me like that. I'm not desprite, him cancelling his appt isn't going to hurt me. It the moral behind it. He set it up, we made his request possible, the he acts like a jackass. But better for him to do it when he did, rather than in the appt with me.

Yes, I am sure things like this will occur. I know legitament things come up and people do have to cancel, it's inevitable! But he had no excuse for his actions! I didn't really come here looking for answers I was just venting. Some people came back with nice words and some blaming my manager. I love my manager, she handles everything well, things are just going to happen no matter what we do.

I am curious

I am cristin with gold club. I'm on my phone so I can't post the link. I have ask TER to link my reviews to my handle bur I can't seem to get it done. You can go to gold club's websites and click on my page. You can see my pictures and a link to my reviews.

It makes me say that it's all on him. It still could have been about being nervous because of the back and forth but he was the one changing things at the last minute. not really a good idea in this situation. I'm still inclined to think just saying no to his meeting at the bar request would have been best. But trying to be accommodating is part of the biz too. Sometimes your damned if you do and damned if you don't.

I hear you there! My manager and I asked ourselves what we could have done to make it better but I believe it's one of those things it doesn't matter what we do. I'm not ma about it anymore. I was pissed last night, but one guy isn't worth me losing sleep over. There are good clients and bad clients, I would like to think there are more good than bad, but that's for hoping. It takes all kinds to make up this world!

...a great lady, check her out. I've reviewed her.

Her long legs are amazing...

Sir Cumalot

Thanks Sir C! Are you missing these long legs yet?

That Cristin is discovering how much she loves receiving oral and shall we say, getting a bit wetter than normal!! ;-P

Willy

It would be hard to judge your credibility.

Baby, you have no idea...

You'll b happy to know that I've been practicing my aim so there'll be a less chance of accidentally blinding you...HA!

Texas girls are hot,

Sir Cumalot

This agency has screwed up info, short timed sessions, scheduled no shows, or simply not taken calls for outcall customers worst than any other agency in Atlanta, with possibly one exception.  I am not surprised an experienced member thought this was just another outcall game being played by gold club and bailed on you after a call like you describe.  I have stayed at several hotels where you need to meet in bar to get past security, so a request to meet in bar sounds totally normal to me

It amazes me that this agency can be so stellar at incall, but be so bad at outcall.  Can't wait until you find a new agency cristin, would love to schedule a couple of outcall hours with you.

Troubles in paradise.  I've heard stories about that agency too.  Some of the girls look hot but I'd never use them in or out.

I am more than happy with my agency! I'm sorry you had a bad experience, but I have done a number of outcalls here along with the other ladies as well and we have never really had a problem. This company is very nice to their girls and their clients, so I don't have a clue as to what you are talking about. I worked for a bad agency before that cared nothing about their ladies, so I'm not going anywhere! Sorry you don't want to used them!

1.  Your manager should have made the client feel comfortable enough to keep the appointment.  If a service called me and said "the girl you have an appointment with doesn't feel comfortable with you" As a client, I would've cancelled too, because if I wanted that sort of annoyance, I would just call my ex wife for sex.  

2.  Your manager should have made you feel confident enough in her ability to select clients.  There's no reason you should have felt uncomfortable if the people you work for knew what the fuck they were doing.  

3.  Your manager should have been prudent enough to advise you not to come here bitching about your failed encounters with clients.  It's poor for your image.  Image management is/should be a good handler's responsibility.  

You're new to this, so you may not understand what it is that makes your manger shitty...but you've got a shitty manager...correction, you've got is a glorified phone answerer taking a cut of your money.  It's time to find someone that knows what they're doing.  Do it before any more damage is done to your image.  I don't know shit about running an agency and I would still do a million times better than the people you're with.

First off, I didn't come here bitching I was venting. Bad things are going to happen every now and then and sometimes it just feels good to vent!

Secondly, read my other post! I said my manager didn't call him saying I was uncomfortable, we were unclear about things. He changed things around on me. And my manager did make me feel comfortable.

I like to know why this is going to make me looking good when I was just venting. I'm over it. I chalk it up to a bad date. Like I said not like one appt is going to break me. Nor am I going to lose sleep over the guy. He will have to live with his decisions. We did everything to make him feel comfortable, so nothing to regret on my part!

Well I wasn't the guy but I can tell you this.  I've tried twice to set up appointment via P411 with the Gold Club and you were one of the two ladies I would have loved to meet.  I'm Basic plus 12 and still never received one call or email from them.  Instead I went in another direction and had a wonderful time
with Brittany Cherry.  So all is not as it seems with the Gold Club.

Nuttin like a girl bitching (ooops venting ROFLMFAO) to bring out all the fucking white nights LOL!!!! Where is CarsonCarlisle when you need her ROFL!!!

Sorry to hear that.  Hit me up if you'd like someone to make it up.to you sometime.

Nicole,

I notice that your profile links you to both.  Have those agencies merged or is your profile wrong.

If you want to vent, go to the provider only board.  They may care, but we see it differently.

This open board means anyone can react to your public bitching about a guy.  Yes its bitching when you say you are going to hurt him on other boards when you and your agency screwed up.  You haven't just vented and let it go.  You said you were going to blacklist him on P411, you are trying to damage someone here.

Sorry you are being a tool for your agency with huge history of rule violations.