I am sure this has been talked about before.  And I know there is no sure way to tell.  But does anyone have any tips on how to be a little more sure when seeing a lady from BP with no reviews?   Thanks,    bigdell

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Yeah I normally would agree.  But when that one lady gets in your mind, it's hard to ignore.

Let us know how that works out for you.

Why would you want to see them when there are such a large variety of beautiful women with their quality's reviewed.    The 411 and date check lady's are even safer.      Some might be expensive but then they will come back with a special and knock your socks off.   Overall they are all just awesome women who give it all they have to make us feel special.   It's really hard to decide which flavor you want.   The real cheap on Back page are cheap for a reason.

This is a controversial topic on this board, because a lot of folks love to piss on BP - either because they think it's only street trash that advertise there, or some of the ladies here like to diss it because it is competition for them.

Reality is that BP has some hidden gems (and some of the ladies here advertise from time to Time) but - as the question suggests - how do you stay as safe as possible from LE, pimps and robs

Here's a few thoughts

Google the number - there might not be any TER reviews, but often you will get other hits. If a girl is consistently advertising, with same pictures, should be ok

Google search on the pictures themselves - Google pix - see what comes back. Many ads are fake or stolen pix - for example, if you get a hit from a porn star or super model, highly unlikely she is doing a $60 special on BP.

Here's an easy one - if a girl posts a nUmber of pix, but they are of different girls - same as above. Sometimes girls will post a couple of actual photos of themselves and a couple of some random hottie that kinda sorta looks the same - best case you get the worst looking girl in the pix.

If it is too good to be is. Again supermodels and porn stars don't advertise cheap visits on BP. Also if the pix are super studio quality, probably are kosher as well as quality of girls, price is important. If the girl is super cheap for the going rate - probably TGTBT

location - certain areas are hot with LE activity. Do your own research where those are and be cautious

When you get to the location - be prepared to leave. Before you get in the door and after you get in.

Check surroundings - lots of people milling around - leave. Someone else in the room - leave.

Here's the most important one - do NOT mention money for favors - verbally or text or email. Don't be tricked into suggesting an amount - that's a favorite - "how much do you wanna pay." "What  are you looking for?" "What do you like to do?" - once you do that, a trip to the big house is in your future.

Good luck

 

and that is the willingness to LEAVE. Any guy who is not prepared to turn around and walk the moment things look hinky or he feels he has been misled should never see anyone but "well reviewed providers"

How many bad reviews start off with, "I should have left, but......." The lesson that should be taken from these type of reviews is when you think you probably should leave, DO SO!!!. You aren't doing yourself or any of the rest of us any favors by staying in a bad situation and allowing yourself to get ripped off, all you are doing is rewarding bad behavior and reinforcing the idea that there is money to be made by ripping off stupid and/or timid johns. DON'T DO IT

I agree with all the rest of your post as well, but I do have to say that anyone that needs to read your post in order to do what you suggest probably needs a bit more seasoning before taking any undue chances. Good post though, and I can't disagree with a word you wrote.

Don't throw the baby out with the bath water.  There are plenty of reputable ladies on BP.  There are also a lot of B&S, full on liars and LE stings.  

So use that spidey sense...You have it.  Trust it.  It it's too good to be true, it's probably not true.

If you get a hinkey feeling while out and about...turn and leave.  

Also LE will work to get you to say what you want and what you will pay for it...then you are screwed much worse than the one you set out for.  If they start asking a lot of questions, just say you are there for a legit massage and never come off that, then change mind and leave.  Fake a call and leave, fake digestive distress and leave, actually VOMIT and leave, the point being...leave.

Discretion is the better part of valor...always.

Hi Atlanta!  Long time lurker, first time posting,  semi-UTR provider.

Before I embarked on this adventure I consulted my attorney. Thoughts had been rather be embarrassed but knowledgeable than embarrassed and needing bail.

He went over many specifics with me, one being to always include a racial statement such as no blacks or any race or religion that had been historically persecuted.  

According to him LE cannot advertise or respond to any advertisement with racial statements as it considered racial profiling. Well they can respond but any attorney worth his weight will get it tossed out of court, but they absolutely cannot advertise anything with any racial statements.  

As to BP or any advertising venue; you have good and bad everywhere.  

Hope this helps!

Riv

If i put " hot black chicks" in my ad they will avoid it lol

If your already there at the site what should you say if questioned.     I heard they would lie about what you said anyway if you said nothing.    ?????????????     Tell them I have ED.

Since I'm a hot white Ukrainian chick with a lions mane of flaxen blonde hair and beryl blue eyes, and not historically persecuted he was telling me how to protect myself, but now you have me curious and I'm going to ask him. It almost makes sense that an attorney could spin that into racial profiling, which is a big no no for them.

He said no. Including one race in advertising does not qualify, it's the exclusion of one particular race or religion that makes it racial profiling.

That's pretty interesting.
I think it would be a workable argument to get the case dismissed.
I was going to suggest ladies start including a statement in their ads that they'll not see right wing evangelicals.  But that would pretty much exclude most of their clients [ har de har har ].

Seriously , good post. Wish you were not so UTR.  

 


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I agree with your post and the same goes for the ladies even after you have thorooughly screened a suitor. If any of those things are going on LEAVE! Safety and freedom always come first.

I do not think BP is inherently bad, however; we can all agree that it is the primary platform for LE, pimps and the underbelly of the sex worker world. Yes, verified and well reviewed ladies do place ads there from time to time but the vast majority on there are iffy at best.

Why take the risk as many of the guys on here have stated? There are so many beautiful women on 411, DC and other sites that you have a buffet of never ending colors, shapes, sizes and personalities laid before you and it all has been well reviewed, tested and rated.

Don't take chances so easily.

Alexandria Fox

Thank you STH! Been a long time lurker, whose taken away so much knowledge from TER thought it was time I gave back.

Lol, keep an eye out, come March I'm taking a month long sabbatical from work with plans of coming out from behind the curtain  briefly to meet a few new select clients. Going to be a banging great month! Haha!