Ladies,

Are you flattered or offended if a gentleman tells you they are thinking of you while doing it with their SO or they use your pics/reviews to get aroused to take care of themselves ? I know it doesn't mean any money in your pocked, so how do you feel about it ? Does it matter if it comes from somebody you've seen or planning on seeing ?

I have to admit, some of ya'll have really helped me....LOL.

Well so much for supporting an open dialogue. Sure doesn't make me want to open a subject with a response like that.

It's because some of our gender give them every reason to.
That's some seriously fucked up shit...on many levels.
I'd go on and explain why...but it would fall on deaf ears.

Ladies....I promise not every male is a fucked up, lying, sex obsessed asshat who thinks you all swoon at the weird shit they come up with.

Just sayin'
DD

Especially "saddened and disgusted" - behind an alias no less.

Not sure that I would necessarily tell a provider that I had been "thinking of her" but I certainly have done it on a number of occasions,

Does that put me into the lying asshat category - probably - however every guy that partakes in the hobby is in that category to a lesser or greater extend depending on your moral compass.

I would agree with the poster that mentioned open dialogue - flaming responses and statements of "keep this to yourself" do not encourage folks to share on this forum.

I would imagine that most ladies would in fact be neutral or a bit weirded out by this - there might be a small few that enjoy the thought. On the other hand, I image a large portion of guys do it (sorry to burst the bubble ladies, but we are all pretty twisted)

Perhaps if the original op had positioned the question as "guys do you ever think about a lady when....and have you ever told her...." then it may not have been such an emotional barrage.

Anyhoooo, back to regular programming

Rather pathetic outlook in life about other human beings. Yes, money is involved but one’s life should not revolve around just money. If that is the case you should buy a Life Size Fuck doll and be satisfied with it.

Because guys are such visual creatures---I would be flattered if someone fantasized about me. To me, it's a turn on.
Hell--I've even fantasized about beautiful girls (my dream girl is a figment of my imagination ~lol) while I pleasure myself--
So--in my honest opinion---I think it's perfectly normal to have fantasies. The mind is a beautiful thing  It makes us human.

I have no idea why DD and others think anybody cares about their opinion.

I appreciate your honesty and for the record, I have fantasized about you and since you've gone indy.....you're definately moving up on my "bucket list". I hope to meet you soon.

I appreciate your opinion. You have a great reputation and your pics/reviews are really hot.

Well--thank you sweetie!! I'd love to meet you too

That does sound better. To be honest, I don't even look at agency girls. I think the drama earlier this week justifies my attitude toward agencies.  So I really didn't even notice Evie until she started posting as an indy a few weeks ago.

I wish I were on your bucket list.  You're smoking. I wonder if providers have "bucket lists". I guess I need to check with DD to see if it's okay. I sure wouldn't mind being on a hot lady's "to do" list.
But I do understand what you're saying. Thanks for taking the time to point these things out to a dumb ole country boy.