Things have been boring around here and too negative with people going against each other. Here it goes:

As we are all well aware, most providers claim to be GFE (some truly are). All hobbyists know that in some cases, this is not true. Some are just figments of their on imagination or never been a Girl Friend.

The providers that does not do allow the following:

Kiss with Tongue
CBJ
Don't allow  DATY, etc should have a new calssification, let us say CGFE (Close to Girl Friend Experience).


There are some great GFE providers in HOT ATLANTA, they are the greatest anywhere.

No flaming please. No negativity intended, just seeking everyone's view and opinion.

Tippu

I'm with you Tippu, I like the idea of do(s) and don't(s):  Well this provider will do an uncovered bj, will allow daty, but will not kiss with tongue.  Information rules!

When I first started, I really thought the term GFE was a joke.  I've read many one-line jokes written about how as "guys" we really don't want the GFE experience.  "If I wanted a gfe experience, I'd buy flowers, dinner and a movie and get nothing," or "Most of my gfe experiences lead to no sex.  That's why I need a provider!"

Sometimes I think that the hobby has out-grown the term.  Yet, I buy into the term, more now, then I did when I first started.  I look for gfe in the reviews--that's the ticket!

Joey,

I have always took flowers or some small gift to every single provider I have ever seen thus far.  My intention is always has been (and is) to make the provider feel comfortable and break the ice so to speak. I guess I am  fashioned I persume. Had some bad experience, didn't crucify them because, everyone has a bad day once in while.

Isn't the objective here is to have fun.  I agree with 100% INFORMATION RULES!

I thought I'd give my imput on the topic. I do agree the definition is to broad. I've often wondered why the details are as necessary as the facts. I thought if it was more of a did or didn't provide..... it would be more helpful than some of the elaborate stories. It might also explain if a known provider with good reviews didn't get such a great one that it might be in the client....bad breathe, poor hygiene. As well as if a provider gets a glowing review it might be that she provided something she doesn't normally provide. I think at times people get caught up on the details they by pass the important things. As you stated Joey, the informatin rules should be ones all can view, under each review not just a general one. Thanks for bringing up the topic as I too have thought about the GFE term myself, striving to fit that term. Too me it means=providing everything your S.O. won't! :0)

I think that the girlfriend experience is not a accurate description of the services that we provide!  I believe that the term GFE is kind of misleading......we are providing more of a "One Night Stand experience" that grows into a girlfriend experience!  I believe to say that a person is either a GFE or their not is kinda being one-sided.  There are plenty of ladies who give great BBBJ, but won't french kiss, but they are still into it!  There's plenty who will deep french kiss you but will not let you DATY, but they are also still into what they are doing!

Does not being a GFE constitute you not being a good provider?

I think that Kharmyn's idea about rephrasing that term to GPE (Good Provider Experience) is more accurate! Plus, I have never been the Girlfriend type anyway.....thats why I'm in the hobby!

Just my .02 cent,
Sade Nickole

Well I feel if someone is going to advertise GFE, kissing would be part of it...To me kissing starts and ends everything...I know clients have told me in the past that the reason some providers don't kiss is because it is too personal...Well kissing is no more personal then going down on a guy and sucking his cock figure that one out...What u don't kiss your bf??? GFE will always mean different things to different people in this business...I have always stated up front what my don't is before they even schedule and appt...This waiting until the clients arrives and then try to get more $ for different things, just be honest and make sure the clients knows before he comes to the session, because the way I look at it, thats false advertising...The client would be better off staying home and buying a playboy, and using rosey and five sisters....LOL Like I said this is just my opinion.


Terri

I THINK THAT A GFE IS DIFFERENT FOR ALL GUYS.  A CERTAIN TYPE OF GUY MAY WANT TO JUST CONVERSATE WITH THE LADY AND STRAIGHT SEX. OTHERS MAY WANT OTHER THINGS. TO ME,  A GFE IS A WOMAN WHO CAN MAKE ME FORGET ABOUT ME "OTHER" PROBLEMS IN MY LIFE.  IT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN GOING TO A PLACE LIKE JENNIFERS JEWELS( I AM A SUCKER FOR THOSE GIRLS THOUGH) WHICH IS A WHAM-BAM SEE YA SAM TYPE OF PLACE TO GOING TO A WOMAN OF TERRI OR NICOLE CALIBER.  IT IS WHAT EACH MAN WANTS.  I GO TO SEE THESE LADIES BECAUSE I DONT GET WHAT I WANT AT HOME, AND THAT IS SOMEONE WHO MASSAGES MY EGO JUST ENOUGH TO MAKE ME FEEL LIKE A MAN AGAIN.  PEOPLE THAT DONT PARTAKE IN THIS HOBBY SIMPLY CANT UNDERSTAND HOW MUCH IT MEANS TO US.  I GUESS WHAT IM GETTING AT IS THAT WHETHER OR NOT YOU ADVERTISE AS A GFE, AS LONG AS YOU LIKE YOUR JOB, IT IS GOING TO SHINE THROUGH IN YOUR WORK.  GFE ADVERTISEMENT IS NOT A DEAL BREAKER FOR ME. WHAT IS A DEAL BREAKER IS A LACK OF CHEMISTRY.  THAT IS THE SECRET TO BEING A GFE, FINDING CHEMISTRY WITH ALL DIFFERENT TYPES OF MEN.

SORRY, I RAMBLED ON THERE FOR A MINUTE.
JUST HAD TO VENT MY IDEAS.

THANKS

JOE

For years, the standard for a GFE definition has been:

bbbj
dfk
daty
multiples

A trend started within the last few years in which ladies started advertising as such without providing those services and reviewers would note it as such.  Somewhere in that time frame, ladies who did not offer those services, newer clientele (new hobbyists) have tried to change it to where it was an intangible definition.  This renders the definition useless.  Ask any longtime hobbyist, over 5 years and predating the "Big Dog" era of pedestal placing, and you'll find the above definition.  and yes, there are ladies today that provide that.  

Teri, I saw you a few years ago and you were definitely a total gfe.  I always enjoy reading your posts.

LD

T, I hope every girl in town reads your post. You are, in my opinion, one of the best GFE experiences in town.
Julia Roberts ruined it for everybody with her performance in "Pretty Woman" and not kissing Richard Gere's character! LOL!

Please don't use ALL CAPS.  It makes my eyes hurt.

I agree.  The wheels need to be turning in a different direction. GFE is not really an elusive thing.  It probably conjurs up a different image for each person of what exactly that feels like.  It would seem impossible to have a GFE without DFK, BBBJ & DATY so those things need to be noted. Attitude, stamina and looks should be thrown in the mix too.

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Ronda,
Couldn't agree with you more. I would say, "Beauty is in the Eyes of the Beholder", so for each tehir own. I do agree that BBBJ, DATY, DFK are essential. Otherwise, it is merely an act with only one aim.......

I peeked at your new pictures, "You Look Marvelous".

Tippu

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