From the top of my head,

I was not sure how to approach my thought, but i will put it this way.

To providers, have you ever encountered gentlemen who wanted to be closer? I mean by closer as a "boyfriend" and/or "potential husband" . that may sounds stupid or crazy, but i remember one of the providers felt so concerned about kissing. she said "I do not wana spend an hour just kissing cuz that will sound like intimate." i asked her what was wrong , did any bother her with kissing something? she said she spent a [long portion] of the session kissing and then the gentleman kept contacting her afterwards. as far my understanding goes, he was looking for a closer relationship.

Also, this is a concern for me.  I was wondering if my regular have had ever such encounter. I feel she is not into talking or anything that would lead to a warmer relationship. However, I feel she does it without any pre-intentions. therefore, I started thinking of much dramatic encounters can affect future appointments with other gentlemen

I really consider the providers' comfort when they are spending their time with me. I make sure i am ready for them as much as they are for me.  I am even with the idea that these ladies are "escorts" and are not prostitutes.  I show them respect .  At the same time, I will be looking for some tenderness that I am missing in my life, so would it be problematic to show some ..umm I wont say love but i will say " liking" ??

I wonder even if a "friend" is a possible term for the providers. does a friend has to be helpful "financially" ??

I would love to read both hobbyists and providers' thoughts on this topic

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