Tried to set a appointment up with Heather  after seeing here reviews on here. She want see me because I haven't seen another Independent in Atl.  I have only used Essential Referrals for years and that wasn't good enough for her. SO is all the independents this way in atlanta now?

With all the recent LE activity going on with agencies,  so I've heard....independents are not taking any risks.  Not saying ALL agencies but a few have been under scrutiny....I'm NOT blaming any agency per se, but, things are getting real iffy here in Atlanta...

Sorry for your issues....take care....


SK

taken a reference from an agency.  I don't know anything about them and don't want to be involved with them.  After the recent bust, I'm glad that I have had this policy.

Preferred411
Date-Check

Get with a verification service, it works

I don't agree with the OP naming names. He could have simply stated his situation without bashing her. It's her business and she can operate it any way she feels is appropriate. I understand your frustration but no need to handle it in this manner. Just my opinion...
Xxo

Thanks, I did check these out but unfortunately I am in a catch 22 with the employment area. I don't have a work number as I work overseas as a contractor. Not state side that much.

Wow.  Serious douche move on your part calling her out like that. Reminiscent of a small child throwing a fit because he didn't get what he wanted. Providers can make whatever rules they want. And almost all of them, including her, make it very clear what their verification process is. Especially if you do your homework.
Grow up.

Apparently she didnt like it. They are the only agency I have used in atlanta. I did check those two date check sights that was listed thanks for those.

She is damn cute and I wanted to see her but to see her I would have to see another independent in atlanta first. And that is probably a no go since the police are making arrests.  No way I am going to jump thru those hoops.  She losses in the end don't know what her 2hr sessions run I suspect $600 plus. Oh well I will be in Russia week after next for a month and that place is mine blowing girl wise. And no verification and law enforcement to have to work around.    

LAFrank is right on.  She is a class act.  You are throwing a tantrum because you aren't getting your way.  Don't take it out on her, just play the game by the rules!  Enjoy Russia.

That may work for you, but don't think for a minute that works for all women.  For a lot of us, P411 is only part of the screening process.

Many HAVE played by her rules , but she still has NCNS appointments with many respected hobbyists.

damn sure isnt going to put herself at risk or jump through any hoops for YOU! Honestly you would be on my DNS list forever acting like this and blasting her here. No offense but you're an idiot honey if you think anyone here is going to see you when you wont put forth any effort to make the lady feel comfortable.  BRAVO to Heather for turning you down!
Enjoy Russia BUT dont let the door hit you where the good lord split you! Maybe you should move there? Geez this post is about the stupidest ones I have seen in a while! You should be THANKFUL she is screening. Get over yourself because I am not sure if you realize this but Atlanta has around 6 million people so good clients that dont mind screening one bit are everywhere so why should she waste her time and take a risk on you or anyone else?

Oh I will enjoy Russia!!!!! It will be cold but the girls are all runway model quality. Moscow is expensive a night out dinner, club, beer, and a chic for the whole night will set you back about $900 and this is if you do it on the cheap.  Best thing the girls do what ever you want in bed! No silly rules!

Well honey I could care less about your DNS list and you dont have to worry because you dont make the cut. I only buy the best!

I don't see enough girls state side to really make these to pay for it self. I could probably get the work issue solved. Why jump thru hoops to see a girl for 2hrs.  But you know it still wouldn't have worked for this girl because she had only one way of verification and that was seeing another independent in atlanta.

You sound like one of these chumps on here that write reviews and think your these girls knight in shinning armor or there daddy!

You wont be buying anything around here except that plane ticket to Russia! I dont make the cut? That is GREAT because I am not into going to jail today or ever and I am sure Heather isnt either. If you dont care what people think then why post this? Why not go jerk off and STFU?? Because I dont care if you get laid or not to be honest!  I am into a blindfold but NO HANDCUFFS please sir! You ask so that is my opinion there officer. Stop whinning and go through her screening or ....... I think you get the idea.

Nope not at all. But it isn't hard to sniff out an ego maniac that seems to let hobbying go to his head and that he is deserving of some kind of special treatment. You may think you are hot stuff after a session but you seem to forget that no matter what was paid it was still a favor done for you because of your own inabilities to secure services in another fashion. There is no incentive or purpose to play the role of "knight and shining armor" but there is a reason to retain an element  of self as well as interpersonal respect that will allow you to remain humble and grateful.

I appreciate those sites, but care more about the other questions I ask on my application.
Most of my new clients are newbies, and that's just fine with me.

I have a very different screening process that many "hobbyists" don't choose to go through, yet I have a great business and excellent reviews. I never worry about LE, and only have clients that I really enjoy being with. My screening process is designed to weed out potential clients that don't meet my standards. This leaves me with a client base that is exactly who I want to spend my time with so that I am refreshed and joyful with the few men that I do see.

If a provider has loose screening practices, you can assume she's doing a very high volume, with many clients she doesn't enjoy. This makes ANY provider jaded and closed off. I protect my emotional and psychological space very rigorously, and will always choose quality over quantity.

But that's just me.

Yep, what works for some providers doesn't work for others. Just as each man has his own preferences, so does each provider. Remember, it's us women who are sharing our bodies and minds with YOU, and we are the ones risking jail or rape or simple humiliation.

It's interesting to me that you don't respect the women who you want to see. Why is this?

If a woman loosely screens her potential clients, her priority is usually VOLUME over quality.

In this business, a woman's sense of pride and self-esteem is critical to providing impeccable service to her clients. As I see it, proper screening is the basis for that. How we screen our clients either gives us great clients or clients that cause us to dislike this profession.

I am VERY protective of my personal space, so my screening process is designed to weed out clients that might be looking for a superficial and disconnected physical experience. Yeah, this limits the number of clients I see, but the men I see are AWESOME. They respect me, and I respect them.

This works for me, and actually many of my clients see me SPECIFICALLY because of my unusual screening process. They prefer to see a woman who respects herself enough to be choosey.

To each her own.

Ditto!
Hugs and kisses
TL

You girls are funny. I have already been contacted by two independents in atl that want to see me. So not everyone is acting like you two.

How did you come up with i dont respect the girls in all of this? I show up always nice to the girls we have fun I leave. That is it I am not looking for a friend/a connection/ etc....

Okay I first of all just want to make it very clear that I have nothing against Essential or any other Agency for that matter. I just currently don't use a phone only email which I'm sure everyone is well aware of that has ever contacted me. And using blocked number for an agency or any independent just doesn't work for us. I wouldn't like someone to do that to me and so I will not call with a blocked number to any other person.

I have plenty of newbie's who want to see me all the time, and I'm sorry, I also explain that I'm sorry but I'm not willing to risk my safety or comfort just because someone who has no reputation on here wants to meet. I'm not going to defend how I screen people. But please people don't go trying to bash someone online just because  they won't see you when you want them too. Are we not all adults here?

Oh and hon I'm not missing out on your money at all. Because I don't play that way with my safety. I'm always extremely nice to clients who I either can't verify or can't meet with. Again I'm sorry it didn't work out to meet me. It's nothing against you personally. It seems sometimes that people take things too personally.

Stay safe everyone and lets keep having fun  
Damn I love my job  

Hell no we are not all like that!  Perhaps it was the way you were talking to her.  Just saying it could be another reason, if someone talks to me and is very pushy and rude with there tone - I wouldn't see him!!!

never talked to her!!!!!!!!!! it is email only!!   she never bothered to verify.

very lame sweetie at best.   we never talked by phone just email and you never did a check. you are a damn hottie and would be a damn nice sport fuck even though you hate anal. But your replaceable!. Your security protocol is not even up to amateur status. how do I know because that is my specialty! I do security world wide in shit holes you probably never heard of.

(And we love that you love your job!!)

Calling out a specific name because you were told no. I can see you now jumping up and down in the store screaming and crying  because mommy wouldn't buy you something. Mommy should have slapped the crap out of you.      

There are several who won't take agencies as reference. If you've been around for years then you knew that already and also the different reasons why so it tells me you're going out of your way to be a J/O.

"I've used ER for years" . Who gives a flying F dude ! Why would an agency care who they refer to a competitor.  Yes, it's the same dollar they're after so it's a competitor.   lot of them want to hear from the person who did your nasty ass not the marketing person wants more of your business in the future.        

There is an agency girl locked up right now who was ratted out by some scumbags at the agency she worked for ( not ER) .  A little jealous scumbag snitch lied and manipulated a situation then they called LE and told them certain information.  

So much BS goes on at those places If I was a whore I wouldn't  take one as a reference either.      

After reading your disgusting post, I don't think there is a reputable lady in Atlanta that would see you. So please do us all a favor and leave your TER ID when booking an appointment so we know what to do. Oh, and make sure that ticket to Russa is one-way.

Disgusting, insulting and patronizing response, "sweetie."

How would you like it if we talked you like that?

"Listen, dude, there are a million jerk offs like you who have to pay a woman to have sex with them. I don't need you. It would have been nice to have your cold, hard cash, even tho your c*ck is small and your breath is bad. Your communication is infantile at best. How do I know? I trained 3rd graders, and they sound just like you."

You didn't like that? I didn't think so.
I can't imagine any provider willingly putting herself around a man with such contempt for women.
Gross.

I am sorry she would not accept us for a referral we are always delighted to give independents 100% accurate referrals.  We are careful with who we give referrals to (We want to verify the model is an actual model).  But always instantly give them, Indies are being iffy for their own reasons (At ER we have brought in new models and are changing our business structure), some Ladies are uncomfortable with this, people spread nasty rumors and I put My foot down after a recent event with another agency (I like to remind people the agency was not busted, the owners were arrested, pending charges from what I understand).  

I stay in the loop, but I keep to Myself.  I mind My own business and focus on the Women I work with and client satisfaction/customer service.  Some Women use us for references and appreciate the accurate references we give them.  

Ladies we will give you references always.  

Thank you,  
M

As many have said here all Ladies have their ow screening they are comfortable with, I respect that because I have Mine too.

I hope you were able to meet with her.  

M