Hello everyone in Atlanta. I'm Jimbo from Florida. I just got home from having the time of my life with my very first provider, Sassy in Orlando. She was the sweetest; so cute, very funny, mature and intelligent and she really went out of her way to make me comfortable, ensuring I had a good time. And boy did I!

The really good news is, she's coming to Atlanta next week, July 13-19, on her very first tour ever. I know this may sound like an ad, it's not. I just want to give a head's up to anyone in or who is going to be in Atlanta that she is worth seeing. She knows her body well, all 5'1" of it, and knows a man's body even better ... boy can that woman please. For the first time I really felt like a man, don't know if any of you can understand that or not, but that's the way I felt. I couldn't imagine a finer time, and am thankful I chose her to be my first in the hobby. She is incredible.

Guys, take good care of her when you're with her. I booked two hours, could have stayed all night. Time flies with her, it's that comfortable and down right fun. An hour is great, two was better ... three or four would have been too much for this heart to handle.

July 13-19, her first tour. Don't disappoint her, she won't disappoint you. Let her know why they call it Hotlanta, show her respect, and she'll show you a good time for sure.

Let her know Jimbomania sent ya.

Happy Hobbying,
Jimbomania

I don't know about others, what are you? A personal promoter for this lady. I am very suspicious? How about you guys?

She posted her own reply?  I hope this doesn't go unnoticed.

i am very suspicious about jimbo's post; if he's so excited about this lady.....only a review is necessary.....not an 'ad-like' post.....just my 2 cents

Its either a self post or he's her pimp.

If I'm not mistaken Jimbo has come here after visiting the other site, and anyone that has visited there knows the review on the discussion board is a common practice over there. I've read many posts from Jimbo and I doubt he is doing anything other than expressing his joy with his first experience. No more, no less.

But then again, I may be wrong?

Man, I've never seen paranoia run rampant. People's suspicions, though understandable, are unfounded.

I am in no way shape or form associated with Sassy, other than the incredible FIRST TIME experience I had with her last night. When I have a good time anywhere, I share that time with others. When was the last time anyone bragged about a good restaurant or movie they saw?

Just giving people in Atlanta a head's up that she's coming to your area.

Nothing more, nothing less.

Jimbo

Jimbo and I have become e-mail buddies after I responded to a post he made on the General Discussion board.  I've also conversed with him a few times in chat.  He seems to be a very honest, sweet, and caring person.  Be assured that he is a hobbyist and is not trying to promote because he's getting anything from it, but he's trying to make sure that Atlantans know what a great experience he had with a provider who's touring here soon.  It's not like this hasn't been done before by others... What's all the fuss about???  

Play NICE!!!

Jaclyn

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You are correct. In no way am I benefitting from this. I am new to the hobby, and still learning the ropes. And I have seen numerous posts saying so and so is coming, check her out and no one said a word. People must be bored and need a reason to reply with meanness.

I am not her pimp, and the fact that someone thinks so is insulting. If that is the opinion of a hobbyist, that the ladies we see have pimps, and/or are prostitutes, I wish you luck in finding a quality provider with that mentality.

As for me, I treat ladies like the ladies they are. With respect, gratitude, kindness, etc. Maybe it's different in Atlanta, I don't know.

I do know though that if you have a good time with someone, and it's your first time experience with a provider, and they are going away to tour ... for goodness sakes don't let people know about it. You'll cause such a ruckus. Believe me, if I were benefitting from this in any way, you'd see my name all over the Internet promoting her tour. You don't see that though, because I'm just a friendly guy, willing to share my good time with a quality provider with others. It's your loss if you miss her, not mine ... or hers.

Thanks again Jaclyn. You certainly are the Sweetest of the Sweet.

Happy Hobbying All.
Jimbomania

I'm from L.A. but I have chatted with Jimbomania many times and read his many posts on TER.  He is a fun and friendly guy expressing his excitement about a first-time experience.  I'm happy and excited for him too.  I hope people would do a little checking before they turn on the flames.  Thanks Jaclyn, for taking a stance here as well.  You are what Hotlanta truly means!!

Jimbo, Singer... You are both very welcome!!!

Everyone who flamed or has doubts:  FYI: Sassy made a post two threads down about her upcoming tour.  She posted under the name "sassysinfullady."  

Perhaps doing some research on the boards as to who people are would be a prudent thing to do before flaming someone for no reason!!!  I was taught growing up to never ASSUME anything of anyone because it usually makes an A$$ out of U and ME!!

No wonder Atlanta is called Flame City!

Jaclyn



-- Modified on 7/7/2003 8:49:41 PM

The Sassy I saw did post that she'd be in the area, like two posts below mine. But she's from Orlando. It wasn't there last night when I posted, so it must have been going through some moderator review or something. Had it been there, I wouldn't have said a word, except to say, yeah...see her she's great.

Sassyfla is another well reviewed provider down closer to the Ft. Lauderdale area of Florida. She too, from what I've seen and read, is a must see. Very classy, elegant, and loves to role-play from her reviews and site.

The odds of two Sassy's coming to Atlanta near the same time are incredible, I know. But stranger things have happened.

Still, doing your research and looking around a minute before you go off on a tangent is wise. And setting off this string of posts I think was probably more caused by my last line than anything. "Tell her Jimbomania sent ya." People see that, respond to it, and totally forget the entire post.

My bad.

Kisses Jaclyn,
Jimbo

I apologize for the mistake... I've corrected my post.  Thanks for pointing that out.... What a coincidence!!!  

Jaclyn

It appears that some people does not understand the difference between flaming and asking questions.


When someone posts something on a board assuming that everyone on the board knows she/he meant or talking about when they actually don't and asks others opinion or asks question of others, it is a question not flaming!

So, when someone posts an opinion to the discussion board to get others opinion, it is intended to get others opinion as intended with the discussion board.

Before, pulling the trigger saying paranoid and flaming, etc., step back, take deep breadth and ask, is it maliciously intended at an individual or is it posted to get information or opinion form others. Then decide for yourself.

Posting people are paranoid and flaming without thinking is rude and against "netiquete".

Keep it civil, general and have Fun

I agree.  If you think this is flaming, you obviously don't frequent that many boards.

As for the topic, I can't prove if this is self-posting or promotion.  This guy might be trying to help this girl out and is excited about his experience.  Lets review the statements.  Honestly, tell me if you think this is your typical guy's post:

**My comments start with //////

///// Sounds like the guy from the OxyClean commercials
Hello everyone in Atlanta. I'm Jimbo from Florida. I just got home from having the time of my life with my very first provider, Sassy in Orlando. She was the sweetest; so cute, very funny, mature and intelligent and she really went out of her way to make me comfortable, ensuring I had a good time. And boy did I!



The really good news is, she's coming to Atlanta next week, July 13-19, on her very first tour ever.
//////////////How does he know this is her 1st tour ever?


//// Corporate Disclaimer
I know this may sound like an ad, it's not.


She knows her body well, all 5'1" of it,
/////// I barely know the heighth of any of my last few girlfriends, much less someone I've only met once



/// Lets be REAL!!! What kind of man would say this?@?@?!
For the first time I really felt like a man


////More shameless up-selling (buy 2 or 3 or 4 even). If you want to, buy some as gifts ;=)

I booked two hours, could have stayed all night. An hour is great, two was better ... three or four would have been too much for this heart to handle.



////This is not a flame, just trying to make sure people think before they leap.

"Its either a self post or he's her pimp."

The above post was not posed as a question, however.  There's no problem questioning "questionable posts" and in fact, I would encourage it if there is reasonable doubt.  Like you said, tippu, "keep it civil" unless you know for sure... then, let the flames begin!  Haha.

All this from someone that starts posting within the last 2 months. All this from someone that has no reviews of his own.


What makes you think you have anymore credibility than Jimbo?

I don't have any credibility here.  But, I'm not posting 2 page ads for any of the girls here.

I'm just giving my opinion.  If it were my $$$$, I wouldn't take the chance.  I'd hate to see another post about a rip-off, I'd rather stick with one of the established providers.

"This guy might be trying to help this girl out and is excited about his experience."

Jimbo; You are correct sir.

"Sounds like the guy from the OxyClean commercials"

Jimbo; Thanks. I've been a wanna-be actor for over 16 years now, and getting an OxyClean commercial is a good pay day, it's national you know. So being in a national commercial is fine with me.

"How does he know this is her 1st tour ever?" & "I barely know the heighth of any of my last few girlfriends, much less someone I've only met once."

Jimbo; One word ... communication.

"More shameless up-selling (buy 2 or 3 or 4 even). If you want to, buy some as gifts ;=)"

Jimbo; Please refer to your first question above. And keep in mind this was my first time, I'd have booked her for a week if I had the bank roll.

"Corporate Disclaimer"

Jimbo; About trying to not sound like an ad. All I can say is, it's impossible to hear someone's tone of voice, emphasis, etc. when reading these posts. And people not knowing me personally have no way of telling what I mean. Call it an ad if you want, I don't really care anymore to be honest. I posted that she was coming to Atlanta, and one of my many artistic talents is writting. Sue me for having a gift with prose.

"Honestly, tell me if you think this is your typical guy's post:"

Jimbo; You are absolutely right again. It is not your typical guy's post, because I am not your typical guy.

"Lets be REAL!!! What kind of man would say this?@?@?!"

Jimbo; This one is touchy, and I'll try to be brief but make no guarantees. (Remember, I'm can write well.) I'll be 'REAL!!!' for you, the type of guy who would say that it was the first time he'd felt like a man is this guy ... all 415 pounds of me. At 5'8" tall, and going through every stage of being heavy, husky, overweight, fat, obese, morbidly obese, and now super morbidly obese, I've had very limited experiences with women. Sadly, people see the outside and don't take the time to look inside to my heart, soul and mind. That's what makes me not the typical guy. From my experiences, typical guys are jerks. They treat women like meat, trophies, prizes and sex objects, etc. I am not that way at all.

Finding a provider who was open minded enough to see a guy of my size took some time, but I found a few, one happened to be Sassy. The way she treated me and made me feel, made me feel like a man, for the first time.

Not that it's anyone's business, but it was only my second time to be 'intimate' with a woman. The first time was a few years ago ... and if anyone had a super first time sexual experience my hat goes off to you. For me and the girl I was with, also new, it was awkward, sometimes odd, over too quickly and not that fulfilling. Positions were limited, because we just didn't fit into some. I made up for it orally, which we both enjoyed.

At my current size, I am facing bariatric surgery for weight loss later this year. It's not something I'm proud of, didn't plan ever on being this size. But it's what I must do if I wanna be around for a few more years, and I do. I wanted to have some fun, if you will, beforehand just in case the unthinkable happens to me while on the table or in those first few weeks following surgery. It's not a quick fix, it's a major operation that requires a lifestyle change that isn't for everyone. Being this size, I don't have the luxury to go into a bar and pick a woman up, take her home and have sex. It just doesn't happen, believe me, I've tried.

Sassy gave me an experience that I'd never had in my life. A girlfriend experience. Seeing as how it was 1986 when I had my last girlfriend in eigth grade, and now being nearly 31 it was that much more special. I finally knew what it was like to be a normal guy, doing something normal guys do and take for granted. It was special, it was fantastic, and I pray to the good Lord above that it won't be my last. I'd like to stick around here on earth for a while, as I have many big dreams and goals I'd like to achieve before I leave this world.

So, what kind of guy would say this? Me, Jim Messenger, known here as Jimbomania. A 30 year old, super morbidly obese man facing a drastic surgery and all-out lifestyle change in order to save his own life. To hopefully succeed with this tool of surgery and if I'm lucky, I'll get to lead a more normal life, doing things most people do everyday without thinking. I can't fit in a booth, many cars, clothes, furniture ... and do the things most people do ... like date, walk without pain, climb stairs and not have to stop to get your breath, hold a full-time job, and the list goes on.

I just wanted people to know that a quality provider was coming to visit them in Atlanta. Nothing more, nothing less. Yet it has lead to me bearing my soul here for the world to see. And I don't mind at all. Hopefully, next time any of you see an overweight or obese person, you'll think twice before you judge, make fun of, or ridicule them. Making fun of fat people is the last great prejudice in America. The truth is, obesity is a disease, just like cancer. And like cancer, obesity kills.

Jimbomania

I have to admit your 1st post had the tone of a paid advertisement.  As soon as I saw Jaclyn's post, I knew you for real.  Anything posted after Jaclyn's endorsement is purely academic in my book.  

Sooooo...academically speaking, paranoia is a good thing.  On the one hand, we have LE using legally dubious tactics to infringe on our constitutionally provided inalienable right to the pursuit of happiness.  On the other hand, we have less-than-friendly nonproviders discovering new ways to steal a few bucks.  As great as we feel after an hour or two with one of our favorite ladies, we feel just as bad after a few minutes with a con or a cop.  Our only defense as hobbyists is caveat emptor.  Communication is key to the strength of TER.  Your 1st post set off the alarms.  I would have questioned it myself without all of the follow-up information.  You have to take it with a grain of salt and look at it as more of a verification process than flaming.  Like you said, "it's impossible to hear someone's tone of voice, emphasis, etc. when reading these posts."

You made an excellent post describing yourself and your circumstances.  The fact that this was your 2nd time with a woman goes a long way in explaining the tone in your original post.  BTW, my first time was a near disaster.  There was no rocking of anybody's world.  It was the 1st time for both of us.  It took a few minutes to accidentally figure out there should be in and out action; and when we did, it was over before it started.  It sounds like Sassy rocked your world, but you don't really have anything to compare it to.  That's right, I dangled my participle.  Personally, I don't put any faith into these endorsement posts.  If I see one, I'll check the provider's reviews and the poster's reviews.  If neither of you has a track record to back up the post, it doesn't really matter what you say.  You could say her pussy has a tongue and loves to DFK while you DATY, and I...well...ok that might get me.
Anyway.  I applaud your courage in doing what you need to do to save your life.  I hope this surgery works for you.  I hope this is the beginning of a better life for you, free of the burden you've carried both physically and emotionally. I do take issue with your comparison of obesity to cancer, but I understand that it's impossible to understand cancer until it affects you personally.  You could have, as difficult as it may have been, stopped eating as much at any point in your life.  I don't mean to make light of your situation.  I have known a few people who are seriously obese, including one man who was confined to a wheelchair and required the use of oxygen.  What once was your solution has become your problem.  It becomes a deadly cycle, and you need this surgery to escape that cycle.  Cancer is not an affliction, a disability, or even a disease in my opinion.  Cancer is something else.  I hope genecists soon discover how to avert the miscodings that start these horrible growths.

Enough of that.  I'm just a squirrel looking for a nut.  Good luck with the surgery.  I suggest you see as many ladies as possible afterwards, and report back here with the results.