I got one of those free trial memberships to both P411 and DateCheck. One has expired and the other is about too. Just wondering if anybody thinks they're worth paying for.  Do the 10 or so whitelists I have here mean anything for screening purposes ?

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Great question. I have wondered how much value the white list is. I will say that P411 has been of value to me. I travel a lot and have found that P411 has helped me get dates. TER is not as active in some cities as it is in Atlanta and an alternative site helps.

But to answer your question.. for me it's not something worth paying for.. but i can't speak for other hobbyist.

I would however recommended DateCheck and P411 for newbies.

Being the personal assistant to girls in Atlanta, LA, DC, Baltimore & Florida... I am a fan of P411. DC in the north is great but sometimes they are more RS2K.  When double checking okays, P411 is also easier and Ladies tend to respond to a reference request via PM thru P411 faster than emailing for the reference.  Majority of the ladies I work for require your references on either sites to be at least 6 months current.  If you travel it is worth it.  A lot of ladies in Atlanta use it also so can be a plus here too.

Whitelist.... hmmm  My nice version.  Whitelisting varies from lady to lady. 85% of my gals will not take a whitelisting but will take P411 or DC instead.  Now I am old school, been involved with TER for almost 9 years and brought up/trained by Monica, soooo whitelisting has a certain meaning for me.  If for me, it would depend on who whitelisted you if I would accept it if I was providing.  But again that's me.  My gals can sway either way on the whitelisting.  So sure back up plan... Current references regardless.

XL - if you are a last minute booker... P411 will do you great.  And the good thing is you can contact the ladies you've seen before and ask them to update your account!  As a Provider, P411 allows you to change the date of when you've seen a client so that would work in your favor.

Again, my two cents.. that turned into a book! lol  oops

Enjoy your week & may your day be AWESOME!!

Kimberly
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  DC

I am totally independent and do all of my own emails, screenings, bookings and dates  

so from what I do when I get an initial email is;

Google, Bing, Y! , Verifyhim.com his email address as well as his phone no and any info he has provided.

If he has provided his provider references then I google and screen his recent providers if they are not a provider that I personally know. I do this before I ever contact the provider he met.  
If she is not to my satisfaction then I require alternate screening info; employment or paid lunch date 1st with no physical interaction and two forms of identification including one being employment & check stub.

If his previous providers are legit and to my liking I THEN contact the provider, introduce myself and try to become aquatinted with her in case we ever need to touch base again. This also gives me a good feel for the type of person she is and if my personality would match him as well.  
Being this is my business and my brand it is imperative that we not only have a physical chemistry but that we will enjoy each other in a mentally stimulating way as well. Being my dates are not rushed, I like to take my time getting to know you inside and out so that every date after will be better and better for us.  

P411 although a great resource and a place I advertise is only a drop in the bucket compared to Whitelisting on TER.  

If I Whitelist you, I have taken the time to think about our date, pull up your info, pull up TER and actually copy and paste... Gosh that is a lot of work. ( I am totally kidding) lol But seriously it takes a few extra steps. Also it's a lot easier for me to verify your previous providers based on your whitelists in just a few clicks. I personally prefer TER for beginning my screening.  

P411, all I have to do is CLICK "OKAY" and it even reminds me to okay someone that I have searched recently if I met them. Also even though P411 allows me to update the date I last saw you, I notice a lot of providers do not take the time to do this.  

I recently screened someone who said he met "ProviderABC123" the week before. I go to his P411 and she last ok'd him over a year ago and I was not able to contact her directly before he left town so he missed out on seeing me until his next trip.  

DC is the same as P411 for me.

there is another site predominately listed on my website thats name is not allowed to be published on here that is an excellent screening tool and the boards are pretty nice but verbal about dates, providers, hobbyists and leos.

Hope this helps, I know it is way more than you asked for.. Let's just say I had time to spare while awaiting a date!

HOBBYISTS, ALWAYS REMEMBER TO SCREEN YOUR PROVIDERS AS WELL IF NOT BETTER THAN THEY SCREEN YOU!  

Lots of CAROLINA LOVE!
Seductive Sloa

I've been a "Pro Ho", for a decade or longer and P411 has always been easy and convenient for me.  Of course, I have "TER" White Listings too.  The combination of the two makes screening easy and gets me inside easily (no pun intended) .  I have not tried Date Check or any of the other verification sites, however I'm sure they are good.  

Shaft

you need to reflect...lol