Question for the ladies:

Recently saw an ad that says "NO MARRIED MEN".  Now I didn't do a lot of research, but my money is on Come that over 80% of the hobbyists are married...so I'm not sure about that business model, but...With that said here is my question.

I guess for strange subconscious reasons, I usually leave my ring in a safe place when I play.  Do you ladies care weather or not I sport the ring?  Why?

One perverted mind wants to know.

***Yes this is an alias - I guess I'm not a real man yet***

I take mine off, but not because I don't want the Provider to know I'm married.  I'd actually prefer that she did know that I am married.

I take mine off to reduce the guilt during the time I'm with the provider.  The two times I forgot to take it off and wore it, I got head bunnies that led to a big old Limp-on! LOL!  

I try to remember to put it in the same place every time to reduce the risk of losing it.

It doesn't bother me if you keep it on. You have to be comfortable! Although, theres something fun and sinister when I see a wedding band on a client. It makes me want to be your best kept secret.

Just don't loose it or forget to put it back on!

I also agree it does add a little devilicious-ness to the meeting if I see it on your finger!

If you think your guilt is going to go away by taking of your ring then you have far bigger baggage than you think you have. Being honest to yourself is a basic and fundamental to being honest at all.

Puritanical up bringing and sex is sin is sin outside of marriage is hammered into you guys. What can one do right?

Sometimes I wear it sometimes I don't.

On a few occasions, I have taken my ring off my finger during our session and put it on my lady friend -- and play the role reversal fantasy of me being the provider and her being the seeker of satisfaction. I know, I know --- what a perv!!!

if you wear it or not just so long as you F&%K me good we will all be happy! By all means PLEASE dont loose your ring to and fro coming to see me
Hugs and kisses
TL

Believe you me, I am quite aware of the truth in your words; however, I never stated nor pretend that "... guilt is going to go away by taking off your ring..".    Removing it though, allows me to not experience a pang of guilt when I look down and realize I'm wedding ring deep in some other chick's ass.  So, yeah, I guess I'm just Puritanical!

Ladies, do you wear your ring during an appointment?

Guys, do you care if she does?

Would it influence your decision on who to see?

The first few times I saw a provider, I took it off, thinking that I did not want to let her know too much about me.  But as I saw different providers, I realized that they just did not care and had no desire to use the knowledge against me in any way.  I suppose there might be some bad people out there but as I generally only see well reviewed providers, I have not encountered any.

Now, I talk openly about my wife with providers.