Men do you know that Woman constantly ask themselves, Does he really love me? Does he really care?

How does she measure that love? How does she know she's truly cared for? Is it in the bedroom?  NOT! If anything turns off a woman, it's the feeling that all her husband, (or BF) cares about is sex. If a wife thinks her main role is to be a willing recipient of her husband's sexual advances, she feels demeaned and disrespected.

Men, if your attitude has become, Well, honey, are you gonna put out tonight or not? you don't realize how much you're missing. With that attitude all you're going to get-at best-is an accommodating wife, but never an eager one.  

What warms a woman up is when her husband helps around the house, picks up after himself, helps with the children, makes arrangements for dates, and overall cares for her. If a husband CONSISTENTLY (not just during the day for hopes of getting some that night) and graciously does this without acting like a martyr, he's going to find, seven times out of ten, that his wife is ready and eager to enjoy an active and fulfilling love life. It will be a natural response to a lifestyle of sincere affection.

Women, this might surprise you, but even more than your husband wants to have sex with you for his own sexual relief, the truth is, he wants to please you even more than he wants to be pleasured. It might seem like it's all about him, but what he really wants, emotionally, is to see how much you enjoy the pleasure he can give you. If he fails to do that, for any reason, he'll end up feeling inadequate, lonely, and unloved.

Most men want to please the primary woman in thier life. When sex dies in a marriage, a man loses something very important to him-theknowledge that he can please his wife physically. And a woman loses the satisfaction that she has a man who is enthralled with her beauty.

I would like to take my hat off to your post well written. It expresses the way most men see the viod in the union of their marriage. Men need to feel the sense of Worthiness as the lady seeks that of Beauty. The way I see the post is one of true class an truth. Men are seeking farmore than the pleasure of the fleash they seek the role of provider to his home. So, with that when they lose the invite of his gifts he calls upon us to offer that gift only in return he needs a listner, a supporter, receiver to his pleasured gifts. But most of all UNDERSTANDING. Haven & Beckie say you guys are the greatest an we support you with the fullest respect. We are sincere, caring, and posses a dispostion of Down to Earth. We look forward to providing what they are missing.

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Smiles,
Haven & Beckie

Well you nailed me on the male part. I try to please anyone I am with; wife, mistress, the odd provider(I don't hobby often)or a friend in need who is willing to work something out. Wifey isn't hard. I learned her body and for the most part what got her mind in the right place a long time ago. I still get her there the one time a month she gets in the mood.
I have however a problem with the first part. Hell I do all the cooking keep the house tidy between visits from the house keeper and am THE primary care giver to the children. I also still take her on dates and try to keep her happy even though I hate her now. No I no longer love her, but I still take care of her and treat her like a Queen. All that still isn't enough to get her in the mood. I no longer care, but it is not the answer always. Maybe She is just one of the three. The funny thing is the more I did to make her life nicer the lazier she got. She still goes to work but nothing else. The lazier she gets the more I hate her.

Sorry people just venting

You are a rare find...Do yourself a favor, print, copy and paste or tape on the refridge or bathroom mirror where ever she will see...The above letter...I bet reading it will make her think...sometimes writing is better then speaking because when it has gotten bad we won't hear each other because we are too quick to think of our next retort (is that the right definition?)  When someone reads what you have to say they have to read it without interruption and argueing....Whatever happens happens and I wish only to all the best .    Your SP