Well, just how big of an ole' boy are ya?

I am what most would call a "heavy-set" man.  I take good care of myself and I am always extremely fresh before my dates.  Having been in the hobby for years now, I have met a large number of ladies.  I have yet to be turned away or anything like that.  Most of the women I have met make me completely forget about my size and make me feel like a king.  However, there are times when I can see through that.  I know that they are going through the motions even though they do a great job of disguising it.  

I am going to be spending a few months in the Atlanta area so I was wondering if there are any providers that truly enjoy the company of a larger man.  Also, do you ladies prefer us bigger guys to let you know about our size before we meet?  Just curious....

Thanks!!!

I think the personality of the guy is what matters most. I love meeting new people with great attitudes no matter what they look like.

on John Candy, if that tells you anything    I'm a sucker for the burly ones! (lol sucker)

I like knowing anyone's general characteristics before meeting, if only to know who's going to be showing up at my door. It won't change what happens, but the more information the better, in my opinion.

Well I'm not one to discriminate...as I prefer personality over vanity ...kisses

I agree it does not matter what a person look's  like!  I judge a person on how they treat me and that they  are alway's fresh and clean!!  Like me!
Kisses
Elise

In this business, the looks of a client don't matter to me. As long as they have a good personality and keep hygiene in check, I'm happy to see them.

I don't necessarily need to know about looks or size beforehand, but it is nice to get a description.

I've just been hobbying for ABOUT two years and early on I felt a bit as you do but because of my age
relative to that of the providers I had seen. So I used to state my age when making the appointment and ask if that was a problem.
Fortunately, and this is borne out by the ladies comments, that it doesn't really matter. In fact, the flattering comments I have gotten during or following sessions with some of the providers I've had the pleasure  to meet has made me a believer.
Thank goodness for the many beautyful ATL ladies with open minds, open arms and open legs! LOL

Well George I'm like you. But never had that experience of going thur the motions.
I'm a John Candy type but love to make people laugh. Just find find a lady that likes you for you and enjoy. I know there are a lot in the ATL area that will treat you better than a king and you will have the time of of your life. Some of the best are here on TER, just ask. Take care.

Wingman
aka Studmuffin

Love me a big man babe if your interested once you get in town........And I am probably one of the smallest little ladies on this site....No need to make aware of your size ahead of time, otherwise she is definitely not the provider for you.....

This is how I define BIG....( But now keep in mind that everyone has different opinions)  If you are 6ft4 and 300 lbs I don't consider you big. If you are 5 ft 8 to 5 ft 10 and 250 lbs and up YES thats big. Do I want to see you if you tell me first.... NO.   If I don't know beforehand I wont turn you away, but how am I suppose to feel sexy? If I don't feel sexy than I can't make you feel sexy so therefore it WILL show and I wouldn't want you to feel like you've had a bad session.  What is the difference in you not wanting to see a BIG provider and the provider not wanting to see you?  Just because your paying for it doesnt fall into play because if your scrolling through the posts and you see a BIG provider I'm banking on your just going to pass her up even if it was for 5 dollars which you wouldnt have even read about to begin with.  So in MY opinion......... I don't want to take your money just like you wouldn't want to give your money.  Do I think BIG men are bad?  Absolutely not!! Again MY preference is to feel sexy with the person I am with, as it's not always all about the client. Some men like Big women, some like skinny. I feel I have just as much right to choose as a provider as does a client.

always welcome and enjoyed especially if you can get me off too!  Ha Ha!
Hugs and kisses
TL

That is the exact reason why I asked the question.  My experience is heightened when I know (or at least firmly believe) that my partner is enjoying herself, and is not completely put off by my appearance.  I don't blame any provider for not wanting to see fat guys, or for being turned off by them.  I agree with you that the provider should have the same rights to choose as her clients, so why not give her all the facts from the start?  I guess if knowing ahead of time will have a negative effect on the session then my question is answered.  

Your assumption that I would pass on a large provider could not be farther from the truth.  I adore bbw as well as smaller women.  In fact, my ATF is a bbw and she is sexy as hell!

Your specifications on what is considered "big" is exactly why I figured I'd throw this question out there.  Where does 6ft 285 fit in?  What about 5'6" 230?  I seek providers that look to connect with me on a level deeper than my appearance.  

Thanks for the input and be safe!