A friend and I were discussing our favorite hobby this weekend and we came up with some questions

I hope they don't sound rude:

Do any of you ladies keep a record of your transactions?
How many times have you been with a hobbyist?
How often do you get checked for STDs?
Does your doctor or family know what kind of job you have?

A friend of mine set me up with an alias so that I can respond to this question after he let me know about it.

First off I am a former provider and have been retired for about 2 years now. The question you ask is something that is somewhat broad and every woman has different ways of conducting business, so you will get different answers. Many ladys will talk to each other for advice, suggestions and general information on the "business".

Do any of you ladies keep a record of your transactions?
I did to a degree. I had an appointment book and was able to make discrete ledger entries in it. There are a few reasons why I did this. I actually paid taxes. There were other things I set up so that it looked like I had a business. I re-routed my money through a payroll company etc. I did this so that I could build and establish a credit history. Too many ladies have bad or no credit. Things many take for granted (buying a house, getting a car loan etc.) is difficult if you have no income history or proof of taxes. So long story short, I kept records of my transaction.

How many times have you been with a hobbyist?
No I didn't. Even though I kept records of the appointments I had etc. I was not keeping a spread sheet or anything of the number of times I've seen client X. Typically I did not keep client contact information after I saw them anyway. Some guys would get annoyed because I would re-screen. I may have seen a clinet 6 months ago, and then he wants to re-visit and I would not have a good recollection of who he was so I would re-screen. If you are a regular client or left a good or bad impression, I would remember you, but I was not keeping track of how many times you visited. I know one lady who would give a free visit on the 10th time. That may have worked for her but by keeping records like that, can lead to a situation where your business is not discrete. Heaven forbid if she is busted, LE would have a very detailed list of her clients and their frequency of visits.

How often do you get checked for STDs?
Even though everything I did was covered, I still had monthly visits to my GYN. I had HIV test every 3 months.

Does your doctor or family know what kind of job you have?
Neither my doctor or family knew what kind of business I was in. Also there were never any published pictures of my face for reasons of being discrete for myself. I've heard too many stories of clients getting caught up over a provider and then using her personal life to try to blackmail or control her. Lord knows I've been in situations as well. For the most part, most of you guys can handle the fact that this intimate act is still a business transaction. We can have fun but your life is your's and mine is mine and red flags would go up when guys would want to know about my parents, if I have kids, where I'm from etc.

I couldn't have reponded better..Keeping long tem records is just to risky...
I get rid of numbers and other things daily if I can..
And abut STD'S...I go to My gyn, every 4-6 weeks and when traveling go to various Doctors, and getting a regular check up is most important..
and as for my family, they have suspisions at times...I had a person who told on me...
I love what I AM able to be part in the unbelievable world of the net, ..I love to travel and meet different people from all over the country and world..and share a private moment..and just lose your self in someone else's fantasy..It's amazing to be a part of it all..Plus I am just so blown away by Sex and what being a woman is all about..I am just beginning to understan the roles of men and the power of the $#ssy..and the C@CK...
Still in Atlanta..Hot Kellie Bo

Well first off I do have an appt book that I use to schedule my clients but when the yr is over I throw the appt book away so I have nothing that can be traced. I also don't keep that much info in there anyway...As for how many times I have been with a hobbyist that can vary kind of hard to keep track...

I go to my OB every month and am tested and for HIV I get tested every 3 months and keep a copy if any client would like to see it to make sure...Yes my kids and family do know what I do and are supportive...My daughters happen to stumble on my website so thats how they found out, 2 people I did not want to find out but they are cool with it, just like my 23 yr son is and the rest of my family...To be honest makes it easier because I hated lying about it....

Like many of you guys I have my private life and don't feel a need to tell my parents etc...

Family doctor...I go to him when I am sick ... For GYN checkups .. every three months at the health dept...they are discreet and no names are used only numbers....If I was checked for HIV and STDs every three months my family doctor would look at me funny.

I have nicknames for guys who I see regular and they know what they are and use the nicknames for refs....I keep track of appts with nicknames little abbreviations that I only know...I think this keeps us all safe.