Have ya'll ever noticed that some of the guys review here always seem to hype up their performance in the review section.  I'm sure you all talk about it because I have spoken to a particular provider who kind of chuckled when I asked her in passing about it.  I do know that most of the guys here post honest reviews.  Some of them are not very flattering to themselves so they must be true.  It's just that I always laugh when I see a review and a guy goes on and on about how hard he did this girl and she came 3 times and he knows it wasn't fake.  How in the world would he know?  I do honestly believe that if a man and woman have a connection that he can bring her to orgasm.  But I have noticed that several guys seem to think they make every girl visit the orgasm fairy.  I don't know, go ahead and flame if you want but that is just the way I feel. And no I am not a speedy gonzalez when it comes to sex but I am not going to hold out and try to break records. Come on, I'm ready for the fire.

There are many things that come into play here....

Let me say, that I agree with you to a degree. I too laugh at some of the reviews written as I know some of my reviews are embellished.  I asked myself why this happens and I came up with a couple of answers. One may be the ego of a gentleman. Another could be they like telling stories and this is the best medium for it. Sadly sometimes it is at the expense of the provider if it isn't flattering. I think a large part of it is that there are certain guidelines that this board has for submission of reviews. There have been over a dozen reviews gents have sent me copies of that don't get submitted due to lack of graphic details. Not much we can do if the rules are set forth.

I have one review in particular that is up that I had to laugh at.. ok two. I remember the experiences and I have to say, they are much more complimentary to the man than they should be... .Oh well. Part of what I do is create an experience that fufills a fantasy and if that is how they saw it and they liked me... cool.

Thank you for your response.  I'm honestly not trying to stir up trouble it's just that when I see something I tend to get it out in the open.  I wonder if that is why people always say I'm too confrontational.  hmmmmmmmmm.

I don't think so... I think you happen to be an honest well spoken young guy.

over on the erotic humor board, there is a thread called decoder do a search for it and you'll not only giggle, but learn a bit... maybe.

also, as far as the orgasm faeire goes... keep an eye on a ladies nipples, when she gets there, her chest flushes sometimes but her nipples become erect always...

with so many ladies actually enjoying their work, it really isnt that odd for us to finish for real.
not with every client, but honestly, a good portion of the time

Nicole.

I agree with you that I think it's funny when I hear guys talk about how many times they made a woman cum. You brought up an interesting question though... "How in the world would he know?" I'm no sex expert or anything but I've been with enough women as to where I THINK I can tell. All guys think they can tell of course so that says nothing. First off I will start by saying that I have made very few women orgasm by straight missionary sex nor doggy for that matter. The ones that faked it I THINK I could tell. I can actually only think of one girl off the top of my head who would cum from straight mish sex and she was my girlfriend at the time and she orgasmed very easily. I've had much better luck with them riding me or me going down on them. Here's my way of telling if a woman indeed has had an orgasm. When I'm going down on them when they become very very loud. Of course that doesn't say much... the real way that I use to tell is if they get ultra sensitive down there immediately after having an orgasm. And virtually all the women that I have been with will not let me keep licking down there after they have an orgasm and they are almost always sort of giggling when they are trying to move away from my tongue. I usually stop at this point and peck them on the lips knowing(in my mind) that I just made them orgasm. The giggling usually continues for at least 10 seconds or more. I could be totally off the wall here but when I hear the intense screams and then the woman gets ultra sensitive and then she starts giggling... to me that tells me she just had an orgasm. I realize all women are different but that's what I use to gauge if an orgasm is real or not. Has anyone else had this experience? and for the women... Am I right? And if I'm not right... is there any way of telling?

Agreed....glad you guys think the same thing. I was wondering that myself. I don't really feel insecure about my performance, but do "you" really go around talking yourself up on a message board? I read someone's review and he said the provider asked "if I normally have to wear magnum's"...I guess because he was so big. Great, but the point of the review is to tell us about the girl not about the fact that you think you have a large member...I definitely got a laugh out of that one.

I'm am almost totally vaginally stimulated, so when I experience one, my nipples get hard, I get very wet, and my vaginal muscles contract involuntarily.  It hurts me when a guy spends too much time on my clit...Or almost any time...that is a very large turn-off for me..when I quit making noise is when you need to move your tongue or fingers elsewhere...I just really don't like my clit played with...Oh...and that fast finger thing...??   I don't like that either...I like real movement; slow, varied, passionate..like me!!  You should be able to tell, if you are paying attention to her body...I have only had 1 client make me ejaculate...and I was sitting on his face....lol!  You can go find that review....;-p  So for me, it totally depends on how aroused I am, and  how the gent is shaped....And if they can kiss, an "O" is about guaranteed.....I do give lessons, if you would like to learn....

Sexy Sofia

When a guy goes down on me, or a woman for that matter , and makes me O, I don't drag him/her off of me right after.  Yes, my clit gets really sensitive and sometimes I pay for it the next day because I'm really sore, but the next O is 10 times more intense.  Once I have one O, it's easier for me to have others... The first one is the hard one to get.  I have had O's from straight mish and doggie... usually if I'm in doggie, I'm playing with my clit, though.  I guess it just depends on the skills a guy has, how he's shaped, how passionate he is, how much chemistry there is, and etc.  I agree with Sofia, though.  I've always said that if a guy can't kiss, he can't f@%k!  LOL!

Jaclyn

I think you hit a point on the head. This board will not post reviews unless they are graphic. So some guys feel compelled to go the extra mile. I remember one lady telling me that guys have no sense of time because in the guys mind he thinks he was banging away for 20 minutes when in reality 3 minutes went by. To be honest I wouldn't mind if the reviews could go up without being so graphic. To me they would be a little more credible. Also the deal about having to provide a review in order to get VIP access to see the full  reviews. I understand they want to encourage participation via reviews but I think it also lowers the credibility of the reviews in general because you have to wonder did the session happen as the guy says or did he just embellish just to get the VIP access for a few days.

I don't think it would be a bad idea for the board to be 100% free to boost credability. Guys will still post reviews. Bragging is what we do best.

There is a lenghty discussion about this very issue on the National Board. I'm not sure how many pages back it is but I think you would find it to be interesting reading.  

I think we all know that men and women have orgasms. There are many times we have multiples.

The point being that the requirements to place reviews make it challenging sometimes. From what I have been told, most men don't pay incredibly close to the details, they look for consistency in the reviews and get an idea from them what kind of experience they will have with that particular provider.