I like this definition!

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the first visit. I think it is very important to establish
a good repore with the provider. Only one time in my long history
as a hobbiest did a GFE go south and I think that was my fault.
So, if you want a dynamite GFE, find a provider you like both physically and personality wise. Establish good communication and share with her. BOTTOM LINE...ALWAYS treat her with respect.
Help her to feel confidence in you. Let her know your expectations. Find out about her limits and respect them.
Most providers I have met are above average in intelligence so DO NOT try to be someone you are not.
Treat her like a date that you admire and respect.
She can make your lusty dreams come true.

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It was strictly word of mouth and CAT HOUSES back in my youthful
hobby days. Never did get involved with the STREETS. Too scary.
I now have several ladies that are GFE because I've always treated them as real people. After all, they are people, NOT SEX MACHINES.
We live in a wonderful age.
Lets love one another.

Peace to you all...

AND HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY.

First off, there is a definite difference between a GFE & PSE!
Keeping in mind that even most "Real" girlfriends have limits.

In my opinion, a "GFE"- is one where the young lady provides unhurried, personalized attention for the duration of their time spent together. This includes lots of passion & erotism as well. The time spent should be filled with lots of intimacy including: kissing, mutual caressing, laughter & great conversation. A feeling of comfortability.(Pay attention to body language) There should be a mutual respect where as the guy doesn't feel like he's being treated like a "John" and the lady doesn't feel like she's being degraded & thought of as a "whore". You should express a geniune interest of the person. (Express likes, Dislikes) it shouldn't appear phony or rushed. He should be able to tell her what he likes, & she do the same. (especially when it comes to DATY- what method works for one girl is not always going to work for another) Experimenting with multiple positions is always pretty cool. To sum it up...a "GFE", should appear to be a really "nice" friend with Benefits!!!



Just My .02 cents

Tanya36ddd

Agreed. As a hoobyst I can pretty much tell how the exprience is going to be when I talk to them initially. If they sound impersonal, I will not go any further. I have been with few wonderful ladies in Atl and last week, one of my ATF went to sleep in my arms. She must have felt safe and comfortable to go to sleep for an hour or so with me. It was a wonderful nap.

Treating others like you would treat yourself, that is what I am talking about.

Tanya, just think, you were picked on by the forum and now you are one who contributes so much good insight, I thank you and you must really be a wonderfull person. It was my loss to have not seen you when you were here. I am really looking for a real GFE, I have tried and have had some fantastic experiences thru the TER. thought I had one, but she is gone now and then thought another and I really clicked, but guess she was just fooling a gullible sensitive man. I will try again to see if it was just bad timing the last few attempts to meet. Seeing the post, falling to asleep in his arms was a treat for him I'm sure. That is the greatest. Love and lost, hugs, kisses and licks to all.  Jimmy

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It was not him, although no doubt with his personality, it has happened to him too.

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