I had by pass surgery about a month ago. I hope to be able to resume the hobby in a couple of weeks. I'm only 47. Is it going to freak the provider out when I remove my shirt and pants and my scars are seen ? Is it going to ruin the mood ? Any advice will be appreciated.

Hi

I have been with a few clients who have had bypass surgery..........No it does not ruin the mood, and it does not take away from u as a person........I have a scar from when I had my tubes tied even though I know its there u really can't see it........Its nice to see that u are doing ok......Just give yourself time to heal before venturing back in the hobby, thats what is most important....

Terri

This may be a dumb question but isn't this one of the reasons that you'd be contacting an escort in the first place?  You're going to be paying for the session and you're not looking for a long-term relationship so who cares what she may or may not think.  It would be polite to let the girl know ahead of time so she's not freaked out but as long as she accepts and you pay the rest is between consenting adults.  We all want knock your socks off sessions with a bunch of good chemistry but I'm constantly surprised at the number of posters who worry about penis size and appearance.  

I think that's got to be part of what the girls expect when they decide to be providers.  It's very doubtful that most of the clients are going to be competing with Fabio for modeling jobs or hot, fit dancers between gigs. We all hobby for a different reason, some may be married or have a close SO but still want some no emotion strange on the side.  Some guys may not want a steady and just enjoy being with as many different attractive girls as they can and some guys may be butt ugly but have the cash to spend and want to hook up with a hot girl that otherwise would not be available.  

No doubt the providers are hoping for the best looking guys to walk through the door but as long as we all maintain good hygiene and act polite I doubt we'll be turned away.  You're more likely to ruin the session by being overly self-conscious than by the provider being grossed out.

Ter42, again you are so full of compassion and goodness. Little do you know that several months ago you made me feel better about myself after I received an e-mail from you regarding the fears I had about growing old(er) and wondering if I would be received in an understanding way by the ladies in the profession. One day we'll meet, I hope in my lifetime. Vaya con dios.I'm not Spanish-speaking so I may have misspelled "vaya".

I can't see how any scars would dampen the mood. I'm sure there are many providers who have their own scars.

Only way it might interfere is in your mind.

BTW, was it heart, gastric ... why kind of bypass?

Jimbo in Florida ºoº

Thanks Terri, you are still my favorite. I'd love to hear from some of the other ladies on this subject. I guess it would be considerate to let the provider know what to expect, so she won't be surprised.