I'm sure some could argue that since you don't have any posted reviews under your belt and don't contribute back to fellow hobbyists that you shouldn't be posting here. IMHO... Too many people get on here and bash others, create drama for a personal spotlight, or just downright spread bad karma. Sometimes its best for everyone to follow the wise before us...."If you you don't have anything good to say, then don't say anything at all!" I'm not trying to be an ass to anyone just remember you can catch a lot more bees with honey than you can with shit!
Is it me or is Candace useing this board for her personal daily advertisement. This board is much better then others because it is not filled (yet) with advertisements.
Candace, you are I am sure a very nice lady but your over doing it with your advertisements on here. Every comment does not need to include your website.
S
Get a life and don't worry about others. Maybe you should read the rules before you post such comments.
Don't get testy because SexTherapist asked a question...I was thinking about asking the same question, as I noticed that as well...
So far, the only thing I found regarding that was this:
Posted by MichaelCA
1. All ads must include a TER approved link at the end of the post. An approved link will point to one of three places: A TER reviewed website (you must have a TER Banner or Site Review logo on the first or second page), your TER review profile or an ad on an Escort Mall. Any ad posts not meeting this requirement will be deleted.
2. You may post links at the end of your posts, as long as they meet the same criteria as the link for an ad.
3. You may post only one ad every 7 days. You may post clarifications and reminders under the same thread as the original ad without breaking the 7 day rule.
I also found this in the same thread by the same gent:
Unsolicited ads are not allowed on other TER discussion boards, including the National Discussion Board. Providers MAY reply to ISOs (In Search Of) with their links.
So, I suppose this is true...I for one, did not know we could do that, lol...Which is why I only posted a pic on my last post I began myself, and not my link...
But I know now!!!
Now, is this only for ISO posts??? Mod, can you make some clarification???
It was a good question, though...
Now let's all play nice....together...![]()
Sofia
I'm sure some could argue that since you don't have any posted reviews under your belt and don't contribute back to fellow hobbyists that you shouldn't be posting here. IMHO... Too many people get on here and bash others, create drama for a personal spotlight, or just downright spread bad karma. Sometimes its best for everyone to follow the wise before us...."If you you don't have anything good to say, then don't say anything at all!" I'm not trying to be an ass to anyone just remember you can catch a lot more bees with honey than you can with shit!
Just fun conversation with the underlying theme everyone here relates to.
Her link is simple, without any obnoxious "tag-line".
You are entitled to your opinion ST, but your gripe strikes me as petty. Perhaps you are having a bad day - I hope tomorrow is better for you.
Peace. Silk.
Hello everyone:
And my apologies if I tag everything... and as most know I am out of class right now. I also usually get on the computer after a long day. I received the PM and I had to re-check. I then realized I posted to ATL more than the two other cities that I am in this month. I apologize for anyone that I offended and offered to try to make a better effort in monitoring my posts. I have been trying to keep up to date with the cities that I visit as well as staying on top of Atlanta stuff... trust me it is a challenge!!!!(~Now I remember why I had an assistant !!~) Thank you for bringing it to my attention. And thank you to the gentlemen who were conscious in trying to protect my feelings. But I wasn't offended ! After being "exposed" to the different aspects of this business my skin has seemed to thicken. kisses Candace
Isn't it sad that you have to develop thick skin to survive? I hate it that people mistake kindness for weakness, and anyway, what difference does it make to anyone that there's a link at the end of a post? Who does it hurt? No one! So why does it even have to be questioned! Sometimes the drama on this board makes me want to puke!
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I see nothing wrong with having your link each time you post, I actually like it, I can pull up a link without looking back thru many threads to find them. Sooo, Candace, keep linking and I will link with you(grin) Do I have to bring Nina? Jimmy
I may have been thinking of another board who viewed links as advertisement. I thank you Sofia for pointing out the rules.
So everyone LINK away!
I will be careful of the questions I ask. However, I doubt my question was the most ignorant seen on this board so CHILL.
~ I think my "tagging" was more out of habit than anything~ But I didn't give it any thought. (*Thank you for the "re-post" ... that just demonstrates that you are a lady of character, I appreciate the time you took to apologize but I personally wasn't offended*) kisses Candace
It will be easier for us to chill when you stop using cowardly made-up screen names!![]()
For me there is no problem with your links. As far as I can see they look very fine. Also don't worry what everyone else thinks. Your own mind is what counts.
Take Care
strike
I could hold a couple things for you and help keep them up while you are keeping-up.
At least use your real screen name!![]()
But why did the moderator allow Sex Therapist's post in the first place? It seems to me it was just a slam on Candace under the guise of Board Rules. It says at the top of each page here on TER "Please do not post messages that are simply mean, or meant to cause trouble for trouble's sake." In my opinion Sex Therapist's post was both mean and meant to cause trouble.
Sex Therapist, if your real concern was about the board rules you could have emailed the moderator privately or stated on the boards you feel some providers are using the boards way too much for their own personal advertisements. Candace isn't the only provider who posts a lot and tags her posts with her web address. Besides, it seems like most of her posts are related to subjects of general interest and not simply advertisements.
Peace