Can't recall that ever happening with any of the providers I've seen. If it did as just a passing comment, I wouldn't care; but if it got to the point of dominating the conversation, it could be a mood-killer.

I would say that alot of the  ladies I have seen  have a boyfriend, some have a husband that knows her profession. Most of us have wives or girlfriends! As long as neither one dominate the discussion during the session, I don't have a problem. I enjoy hearing about what is going on in their lives.

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Well I have had it mentioned in conversation with a provider, but she was well to do and she is very low volume, so I would agree with the source that it is more like her swinging without her BF. In short I think it has alot to do with how she holds herself duing the sessions as well as the conversation.

If she is going on about her boyfriend and he knows what she does I will not repeat.  If her SO does not know then its a real bad scene that will go down someday.

Ways back when I was starting I saw this provider several times.  One time her boyfriend greeted me into the appointment.  It was rather interesting to be in the bedroom banging away while the boyfriend was sitting in the next room watching TV.  To some degree it was erotic that he knew what she was doing on in the next room.

BUZZ KILL!!!!  For those of you who don't mind it...COOL!  For me...the time I'm paying for....I want to be the ONLY man on earth! I don't think that's being selfish....that's the illusion that the provider is supposed to be laying out!
I've been lucky, and this hasn't happened often.  I see a married providert who NEVER mentions her husband or kids unless I ask.  However, I have endured the torture of a provider or two who just had to make it the topic of conversation.  It gets expensive for 2 reasons.  I don't care, and she's wasting my time....and by the time she is done, I need a second cialis to undo the damage she's just done!!!  LMAO

Awkward situation at first, but it turned out okay. I weigh about 160 lbs, and he was the approximate size of New Jersey...Made me a little nervous.

I guess I am the type that makes providers VERY at ease and makes them feel accepted in every way, so they talk freely about their lives, boyfriends, husbands, etc.... but I have to admit, it does take away from the sexual ambience.  

Two providers have asked if they could bring their GIRLFRIEND, though.  What is better than a hot 19 year old girl all over you?  TWO hot 19 years old girls all over you and each other!  The second provider who brought up the subject is my ATF at this point, and she is very wise... she knows our sessions are all about the fantasy that she is REALLY my girlfriend, so bringing anyone else into the mix would spoil things... and one doesn't spoil PERFECTION!