It seems that sometimes you have guests who want to please you as well as leave happy themselves, but I have a question.  
I notice that some are grown up enough to know that there are some who will fake it for the sake of making you happy, but if the point/goal is to please "us", then why would you want me to fake "it" or anything else for that matter.  
I am not one who can cum too quickly, so in order to get me to orgasm you would really need to have a much longer session, so since I am also not about creating some type of extended session just for financial gain...PLUS... you contacted me, not vice versa....why is it that sometimes gentlemen are not content if you dont cum?
They dig into your vajayjay all hard and damn near bruise your clit in hopes of an orgasm? WTH???
I love to give and there is no way, or at least I hope there is no way that you would even come to see me if I weren't, so why go so hard to "make" me cum?
I personally am turned on by the moaning sounds of a grown ass man being turned on by my gentle touch, soft kisses, rock hard ass nipples and strategic caresses...I love to have a rock hard ass dick in my hand....tell me how good it feels lick my nipples and stroke your dick and my panties can get soaked, my clit will throb in pleasurable pain, and orgasm has taken place, but please dont extend it to the point of MAKING me cum or you don't.

I am no actress and am not able to disservice you or myself by allowing you to touch, taste, play with, or PRACTICALLY BRUISE me, in order for YOU to come...lol..

Im just ranting a bit...but would love insight and input

Oh..and speaking of faking it/putting on...shouldn't it be considered a fetish that someone wants you to tell them how small their dick is...I mean really...unless it's abnormally huge...I am not thinking neither can I go on about how small your penis is...Give me a break...

p.s. I am a SM therapist, and this is not something that has happened lately...but was just thinking about it as I was doing laundry this morning...lol

Early on my girlfriend at the time was very sensitive and I learned the value of a very light touch-especially in the beginning-then as emotions evolved she would sometimes ask for the intensity to be stepped up-then other times she would ask that the light touch continue to extend her orgasm.  But she too could not orgasm with "Heavy Pressure"...A great teacher !!!

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....but yeah I don't understand where if the guy's goal is to get you to cum and enjoy yourself and he actually CARES if you come but doesn't plan to spend a good amount of time "down there".  
Depending on how excited I am I might not not take long like 2-3 minutes lol and then there are time I could as long as 20 minutes *shrugs*.  And I hate to see him frustrated/flustered if I don't cum right away lol but it goes back to don't go down there if you don't plan to be a while .

....some ladies like myself NEED a little steady and firm pressue (not crush the clit heavy pressure) at the end to take her over the top.  Paying attention to her breathing, moans (and the volume of them ....when she gets loud do MORE of that), and other body language are great signs/teachers in themselves.

I was a great lover when I was a young man-- did many of the things I now read about in reviews; but as I matured, I realized I needed to learn some new skills to keep the joy rolling.  When I was young, when I first noticed a woman becoming receptive to a driving jack hammer I'd jump on it.  But now, I've learned to use finesse-- look for the subtle signals-- be patient-- make love!  Push her over the top; build that erotic connection.  I sure do miss those jack hammer days, but these subtle love making days are great too!

guys don't understand why I don't just cum already! lol I am very hard work because faking it is something I find very hard to do and I consider it more work than to just have an orgasm. I do usually have to say "sorry I was so much work" lol I also am one who does like it a little rough but like I have said before, each pussy is different and some are good at faking, others would rather REALLY get off lol
Hugs and kisses
TL

Yea TL, guess I'd just better get prepared to say sorry. I so agree. Its more work to fake it...MsMocha puts it well... don't even go down there if u ain't prepared to put in a lil work..lol

You may be some work. But very much worth it!

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I'm about a hundred years late on this post but if I may chime in…
If me having an O is as important as you having an O then pay attention and take your time.
(nothing like the way I throw down when I'm grateful..)

If it isn't well…guess that's why it's called providing…no biggie.
But for heaven fucking sake…don't have sex ADD. I hate when we start an act or position that's working for us both but you have a checklist of thirty things you feel you must do in a single hour. Ok, so you want to try everything you've ever wanked to in 60 minutes… fine but if you look at me after and ask something stupid like "oh…you didn't cum?" or "are you one of those girls where it's hard for you to cum?" or during position number twenty nine you start damn near demanding "come for me baby!!!"

Just know I want to assault you…just a little bit. Tons of things make me cum and that vary's from person to act…but none of them if only done for sixty seconds.