Based on my asking this question to European based advisors some years, here is what I learned. Again, comments welcomed.
In a booking setting the height of the client does not matter. What matters most was;
1. Is the client respectful of men. Does he treat me like a lady? Now sure behind a closed door, in private, once a comfort level is there, the girl and will have the capability to blow you awe your socks if you want. Instead, if something desired is ore passive, fine too. Showing respect was the runaway number one.
2. is he clean. Being clean amounted for a lot.
3. Does he know what he wants. A surprise to me that in their minds the client does not know what he wants.
4. Endeavors to treat me like lady. Again, a surprise. I thought this old fashioned.
5. A nice hug and a thank you at the good bye is nice. Don't just rush to hurridly get dressed and go. Like who am I going to tell??????
6. Done ask me personal questions.
7. Done try to save me.
Now sure, all girls would love a Brad Pitt. I am not and don't try to me. I wish I was cool but I am not. Heck, for once I wish that I was 6'5" for a lady, but my 5'7" will have to do.
What I found, and other folks are free to chime in, the height for the provider did not matter. Now research does show that in standard social situation, for the female, height does. Looks do. Everyone discriminates everyday. To be candid at my stage of the game and circumstances, if I want a partner that I really want, I book. Bars and other social settings don't work. Because of what I do, in spme professional situtations I could do quite well. I do think that trying to get it on with a good looking lady, as much as I may fantasize about it, is a violation of the trust they show be as being their boss.
Just my writing of the day....
Great post Joe. Someday, once, I need to be like you dude -lol.
