Curious to hear from both men and providers on this.

I’d pass and look for a different companion. There are rare exceptions I’ve made over the years to that recommendation that worked out. But they’re too rare to form a recommendation. Best bet… move on.

Familiarity Breeds Contempt and Complacency.......Maybe it's you?

If you enjoy your time with her for the most part you should communicate your expectations before or at the start of the session.  It helps a lot for us to know if you have a specific vision!

If you’re sure that’s on point, move on bro

Tell her how stunning she looks and that you can't resist and you want her now. Tell her you're excited and you just can't wait because she looks so hot. Suggest having the catching up chat afterward. You will likely have a bit of time at the end to chat.

… And if you tell her you have a big dick she’s gonna drop everything and cancel all meetings so she can throw herself at you. Yep. Gonna have a lot of time for chatting after that… with yourself.  

I can be chatty and I know the approach I suggested would work for me. It sounds hot and fun

I enjoy the conversation and trying to get to know someone. To me it’s just as important as the time in the bedroom. But, I know everyone on both sides are not like this.

agree 100%

That's always fair to question.  I think I just experienced the law of diminishing returns faster than I thought I would with this lady.  You never know which ones are going to go sideways on you quickly and which ones will end up being solid long-term ladies to spend time with.  I'll be the first to admit my guesses on that front looking back over the years would have been way off.  Time to look into some new Atlanta options though for sure.

Another fair question...I wish it were something that simple, but that's not the issue.

I may have to look you up next time I'm in Atlanta.  I just don't know when that will be unfortunately.

I expect an experienced lady to know that there's plenty of time to chat in between bedroom moments, at least for those of us who enjoy MSOG during a longer session.  No reason to chew up the first 15 to 30 minutes before the first glance at the bedroom.

Thanks everyone for all the good feedback and advice.  I did reach out to her to clear the air regarding how things went versus my vision of how I'd like things to go if we were to consider meeting again and my email did not get a response, so I think that tells me what I needed to know.

Definitely worth a visit if you ask me!

Definitely, nobody is classier or more fun than Miss Meena V.

I have read through this thread very carefully again.

I don't think that's the case either, but I appreciate your confidence in me!  She'd be a hell of a lady to be in the good graces of when she's on.  We'll see where things go from here.

Just my 2 cents...

This is spot on. One of the best things about this industry is you can get exactly what you want with the variety that's out there. You just have to make your wants known and move on if the other person is not willing to accommodate it. A provider will make it known in her ads or website if she requires social time or an outing.

Well said becca.

That seems like a short-sighted approach that could push people toward quick visits, bad reviews, or to other providers in my opinion.  Case in point, I've been back to Atlanta twice since starting this thread and have opted to see other ladies rather than spending my downtime scripting a session.  Maybe in time I'll be inclined to try again.

I simply hope if it’s meant to be for you that you will connect and communicate … I mean truly and openly communicate … because I would hate for you to miss what sounds possibly to be a great relationship