Curious to hear from both men and providers on this.
I've seen someone over the years 3 different times when I've visited Atlanta. Well-known high-end lady. The first time was spectacular. The second time pacing was off due to time "catching up" that cut playtime short. That left me disappointed, so I shied away from her for a few years when I found myself back in Atlanta.
I reached back out on a recent trip to Atlanta and had a repeat performance of the second visit more or less. At this point would you address the issue directly in hopes of better sessions in the future or do you move on to other options and just try to enjoy the memory of the first time? What's the best way to address it if that's your recommendation? Sometimes seeing someone new is just so much simpler.
I’d pass and look for a different companion. There are rare exceptions I’ve made over the years to that recommendation that worked out. But they’re too rare to form a recommendation. Best bet… move on.
Familiarity Breeds Contempt and Complacency.......Maybe it's you?
That's always fair to question. I think I just experienced the law of diminishing returns faster than I thought I would with this lady. You never know which ones are going to go sideways on you quickly and which ones will end up being solid long-term ladies to spend time with. I'll be the first to admit my guesses on that front looking back over the years would have been way off. Time to look into some new Atlanta options though for sure.
If you enjoy your time with her for the most part you should communicate your expectations before or at the start of the session. It helps a lot for us to know if you have a specific vision!
If you’re sure that’s on point, move on bro
Another fair question...I wish it were something that simple, but that's not the issue.
Tell her how stunning she looks and that you can't resist and you want her now. Tell her you're excited and you just can't wait because she looks so hot. Suggest having the catching up chat afterward. You will likely have a bit of time at the end to chat.
… And if you tell her you have a big dick she’s gonna drop everything and cancel all meetings so she can throw herself at you. Yep. Gonna have a lot of time for chatting after that… with yourself.
I can be chatty and I know the approach I suggested would work for me. It sounds hot and fun 
Maybe it would work for me because I'm a happy person, I like my clients, and I like my job 
I enjoy the conversation and trying to get to know someone. To me it’s just as important as the time in the bedroom. But, I know everyone on both sides are not like this.
I expect an experienced lady to know that there's plenty of time to chat in between bedroom moments, at least for those of us who enjoy MSOG during a longer session. No reason to chew up the first 15 to 30 minutes before the first glance at the bedroom.
I may have to look you up next time I'm in Atlanta. I just don't know when that will be unfortunately.
Definitely worth a visit if you ask me!
Definitely, nobody is classier or more fun than Miss Meena V.
Thanks everyone for all the good feedback and advice. I did reach out to her to clear the air regarding how things went versus my vision of how I'd like things to go if we were to consider meeting again and my email did not get a response, so I think that tells me what I needed to know.
FYI, I purposely left out any identifying information and tried to keep everything above board as I've seen some firestorms on this forum over the years.
I have read through this thread very carefully again.
Another very good possibility is that she had as spectacular a time as you did in that first visit … and it scared her a little.
(She’s a human being too)
So she talked a little more on her next chances with you, to figure out if your connection is real, is it something you can build upon … together.
If this is the case, i hope things work out, because if im reading this right, you may have caught feelings for her as well.
I don't think that's the case either, but I appreciate your confidence in me! She'd be a hell of a lady to be in the good graces of when she's on. We'll see where things go from here.
Not sure if it was you or someone else, but I don't have access to PM's. My email is my name here at protonmail.com if someone had a private question or suggestion.
Just my 2 cents...
As we see gentlemen repeatedly we end up getting to know each other more and more...a nice little hobby relationship. This can cause us to be chatty. Personally I enjoy these little hobby relationships.
If you feel chatting is taking up too much time, let her know. As a provider I have no problem adjusting our session to his preferences. Just let her know you would like more play time than chat time.
I don't see this as an issue a little communication can't fix.
If a gentleman wanted to adjust out time, I would do it with no problems.
Also when you meet you can find a way to politely cut the chat time short.
I don't see this as big issue or a reason to not see a provider, unless she's not professional and respectful.about the request.
Just my thoughts.
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This is spot on. One of the best things about this industry is you can get exactly what you want with the variety that's out there. You just have to make your wants known and move on if the other person is not willing to accommodate it. A provider will make it known in her ads or website if she requires social time or an outing.
Posted By: boomsucka
I've seen someone over the years 3 different times when I've visited Atlanta.
I take that to mean you've seen her on average once a year or less. The point is the lady doesn't have a lot invested in you, compared to her frequent visitors and "regulars". There's not a lot of incentive in her giving her best performance for someone who infrequently passes through.
That seems like a short-sighted approach that could push people toward quick visits, bad reviews, or to other providers in my opinion. Case in point, I've been back to Atlanta twice since starting this thread and have opted to see other ladies rather than spending my downtime scripting a session. Maybe in time I'll be inclined to try again.
For a 90-minute session with old friends or new friends I find the perfect cadence is a brief welcome that segues into some fun with more catching up after that before one more round of fun. Does that seem reasonable?
I simply hope if it’s meant to be for you that you will connect and communicate … I mean truly and openly communicate … because I would hate for you to miss what sounds possibly to be a great relationship
