Hey Everyone. Happy Sunday

Hey Ginger. Thank you for the insight. I will definitely take heed to your advice. I always figured that it is either a scheduling conflict or a simple change of mind and either one is perfectly fine. My dilemma was just to make sure that the follow up process doesn't come across as impatient...Lol I appreciate you taking the time to respond. Thanks again. Best Wishes -Abla

Hey Meena. Thank you for your response. I know that patience is key. So, I'll allow the process of receiving reviews to take its natural course. I know that reviews are important in varying degrees to both providers and hobbyists; however, I regard them simply as a necessary tool for establishing credibility, especially as a fairly new provider.  

I don't always write reviews and I don't 'offer' to write them. When I am inspired, I write them, but at other times it becomes a chore.

IMHO...  In business terms, nearly any professional (tax accountants, lawyers, courtesans, etc.), should make a point of a single follow up on  a successfully completed customer engagement along the lines of -  

Hey. Thank you so much for sharing your insight. I really appreciate it. You've definitely made me aware of a possible need to be a little more assertive, as far as letting my client know that I even care to have a review written in the first place. I've been avoiding initiating the conversation, due to not wanting to possibly put my client in an awkward situation, because there are clients who simply don't write reviews at all because they either don't desire to do so or they have decided to keep a low profile, who write reviews sometimes and sometimes not, due to whatever reason they choose, etc... There are varying reasons that a client chooses to partake or not in the review writing process and either reason is always respected. I strive very hard to create a very sensual and pleasureful experience, which is why I have tried to avoid anything that could shift that positive energy and/or environment. Nonetheless, you have brought to my attention a very important point and it makes perfect sense because they have to first know that I desire to have a review to even move forward with that possibility. Who knows? My clients might not want to offend me, by bringing up the topic and I end up being a provider who is completely against reviews... Just playing devil's advocate a little...Lol  

I've got 49 reviews and probably have close to that many experiences, that for whatever reason,  I didn't review. Maybe it was because, as Ginger pointed out, it can be a lengthy and tedious process.

Hey. Thanks for taking time to share your insight and wisdom. It is appreciated for sure. My approach has been to 'not be a pest;' however, as a professional woman, I know that communication is key. We all lead very busy lives and sometimes forget things, so I agree with you that a simple follow up is always good. Thanks again for sharing. Best Wishes -Abla

Hey. Thank you for your response. I understand that the process of writing a review can be tedious, which is why it is greatly appreciated. I can only speak for myself; however, I'm certain that the other great providers in this profession share the same sentiment. I agree with you that honest reviews help everyone for sure. If reviews aren't honest, they really serve no purpose at the end of the day, because if the narrative and ratings don't reflect the true experience, it will only decrease the credibility of reviews overall. Thanks again. Best Wishes -Abla

I always ask a new lady if she wants a review.  If she says yes I always submit one, usually within a couple of days.  I have never had one totally rejected.  Some have been sent back for an easily corrected mistake on my part.  It is harder to write fresh sounding ones (in my mind I think I am just repeating my earlier reviews).  But I am happy to do it, as it helps me relive the experience in my mind.  In my mind a good review (if deserved) equals a good reference.  That is if you have behaved appropriately towards the lady.  A lady told me once you don't have to rock her world to get a good reference, just treat her properly.  This hobby can be a two way street.   bigdell

Hey. Thank you for your response. I'm certain that your willingness to initiate and follow through on writing a review is highly appreciated. I'm glad that you enjoy it! I also definitely agree with you that being a true gentleman is very important. Respect goes a long way with building trust and as a result, building an authentic chemistry together full of exciting pleasure and fun... Thanks again. Best Wishes -Abla

It actually  took about 2 yrs b4 i got my 1st review

Hey. Thank you for sharing. It seems that several providers have to wait a while before receiving reviews. Even though the time frame varies per provider, we share that common reality. Nonetheless, I respect each client for their decision to write or not to write a review. It;s just a part of what comes with the territory. Thanks again. Best Wishes -Abla

Your suggestion of a 7 making some unhappy is a downside of reviewing. I've been sent agitated PMs for 7s or less that often make me skip writing those reviews. It doesn't help us punters either when a review isn't written.

Hey. Thanks for sharing your insight. In my honest opinion, I believe that a good rating is simply the rating that is accurate. Both providers and hobbyists deserve 100% accuracy with reviews. When there is honesty, there is respect. Thanks again. Best Wishes -Abla

process still achieves it purpose.  If too many do, then the whole process collapses.  Especially when I was new to the hobby I greatly relied on reviews in choosing who to see.  So, I make it a practice to do reviews.  I have never "offered" to do one - if a lady lists here, then she should expect to be reviewed.  I do thorough homework, and so have never had to do a "bad" review.  I have never had a lady go BSC, though have corrected a couple of details that were unintentionally personal.  

Hey. Happy Monday Thank you for sharing your insight. It is very respectable that you not only write reviews, but that you are honest and accurate as well. I'm sure that any provider and hobbyist will appreciate the real picture that you provide in your reviews. Also, I can understand the frustration with filling out the profile information repeatedly. Nonetheless, it is great that you push through the process. Thank again for sharing. Best Wishes -Abla

Miss Camena,

Abla you know that I am a personal fan of yours and while I understand the frustration waiting for those reviews I have no doubt that yours will multiply and continue to be stellar. I am appreciative of honest reviews recognizing the issues involved in this forever imperfect system. I encourage reviews but remind my clients that if they choose to please keep it real. While most of us enjoy praise I personally don't care for heights and would rather not fall from a pedestal being pressured to uphold things I couldn't possibly uphold for everyone. This is why I would never dream of telling anyone else what their 10/10 is or otherwise and I am hopeful we all can remember to use some sense ,objectivity, and discretion when reading reviews. The feedback I get on the time involved for a review to post varies greatly and it appears the TER gods that be have no rhyme or reason! I am always thankful for those who write them and keep them honest!  💋Lydia

Hey. You have a great sense of humor I definitely appreciate and respect you taking the time to share your advice, as well as your willingness to review. It seems to be a tedious process, so it says a lot about you to utilize your time and energy to take part. Thank you so much for the best wishes. I hope your week is off to a great start and continues throughout the week. Best Wishes to you as well -Abla

Hey Lydia. Thank you so much. You have been such a positive light from the start of our meeting and I really appreciate your friendship and support. We definitely share the same sentiment with reviews, which is expected because 'keeping it real' is a common theme we share. I must say that I'm a lover of reality and will much rather have a real/honest review, than a fake/dishonest review that I cannot live up to. I take pride in providing excellent service; however, my client's subjective opinion is always respected no matter what. I welcome it with open arms... Thanks again for sharing. Have a great day and talk to you soon. Best Wishes -Abla

iss Camena,

Hey. I agree that maintaining a positive environment with positive people is much more pleasant and conducive for a good time. And, I can tell that you are definitely a very positive person and a gentleman as well You seem like a great time. I also love the poem! I have no idea how much poets make; however, you did a great job. Thank you for writing it for me. I feel special I hope you have a great night. Best Wishes & ttyl -Abla

You are most welcome.  I'm glad you enjoyed my limerick.  Sometimes they just come out of nowhere.  It's kind of like an Irish Tourette's Syndrome.  

Welcome to the community! When you have your third review come in make sure to email TER admin and join the provider only board.  It's a nice area for the most part where ladies can chat amongst ourselfs everything from bikini wax to safety issues. Glad you are enjoying your time so far and I'll look forward to connecting.
Xoxo Alyssa Tantra

Hey Alyssa. Hope all is well. Thank you so much for the best wishes and advice! I look forward to connecting with you as well. Best Wishes -Abla