That said:
If no reviews, you have two options - TOFTT or move on to another gal.

Me? I'd be wary of someone who is willing to pay the funds for Eros but not at least have a review or two on TER (or similar sites that will remain unnamed). My understanding is that Eros costs more than backpage, cityvibe, etc., so why not be reviewed?

My best bit of advice:  If it sounds too weird, it might be more trouble than it's worth.

First off, in my humble opinion, it's just plain nuts to even think about seeing someone you know nothing about, no reviews, and posted on the website you mention.  I would suggest that a large number of ads on that website are not what they appear to be but many are.  Those that are, are generally supported by reviews.

With so many other options available to you, I think you'd be foolish to take the chance.

Hi outoftownjoe,

It's this simple.  When you go on any site, Eros or whatever, and you're smitten with a picture and there are no reviews, you are in smack in the middle of TOFTT territory.  It is analagous to going down an interstate with paint totally covering your windshield.

Why would you take that blind risk with your time and your money, when there are such an abundance of great providers who are consistently reviewed on TER or somewhere else if you trust it and want to use it, whose looks are "to die for" who are very smart, warm, and know how to provide you with a terrifically satisfying/memorable experience, who enjoy what they do,  and want you to be very happy unless you simply enjoy taking that kind of risk?

Sometimes though, to find the reviews if the provider is visiting the city you're in at the time you have to search TER reviews from the city where the provider is from.

There is this situation  that I saw the other day that most people here know well.  If there is a provider who is visiting, and she advertises on say Eros, and you don't see any links for reviews, she may have plenty of reviews on TER but if she is visiting (hypothetical) ATL from NYC, you might not find her reviews under her name/phone number by searching ATL TER reviews, but you could find her list of TER reviews by searching the city (say NYC) where she is from.  That's where TER, with so many cities' providers reviewed, can enable you easily to find the experience you want instead of the surprise you don't.

Like everyone else here, I urge you not to take the chance with no reviews, unless you enjoy a blind TOFTT risk which may or may not work out for you the way you want it to.

Good luck.

...so far you have gotten similar answers. It's not where you saw the ad it's what can you find out about the provider in your research. Stay away from providers with no reviews if you are a newbie. Sounds to me like you are a newbie. Taking One For The Team (TOFTT) is not recommended for newbies.

Her menu may be on her ad. With no reviews you won't know her menu otherwise. Asking her about her menu ahead of time should get you hung up on. If it doesn't she isn't a safe and reliable provider and therefore you don't want to see her.