So as I've gotten older, I went from being able to orgasm 100% of the time. to 90% of the time, to now... about 10% of the time... or less. It's made engaging in the hobby a waste of time for me as I end up more frustrated than I was before I met the provider. Not her fault, of course, it's just tough to spend the money and still leave without any kind of release.

I'm 53 and am experiencing a drop off. Sometimes it's a sure thing and sometimes it just comes and goes with no predictability. Super frustrating and not at all my partner's fault.

I'm 69. I do take Viagra. There are times when I do not orgasm. But I do orgasm more often than not either during intercourse or bbj cim. I don't drink much, about a beer or two a week. Occasionally I have a mixed drink . I don't masterbate, at my age it's too much work. Though on the occasions I don't orgasm I can cum by masterbation watching porn.

Yup Definitely getting harder (pun intended).  

I'm 62 and recently noticed that at times I have to really concentrate to cum.  But that isn't too often. Also noticed a reduction in the amount of cum.  
I've used OTC "male enhancement" products and the good ones are effective as hell.  For several days and multiple orgasms.  

Thanks Ginger, all good suggestions. I don't drink before visiting a provider and already take Cialis, but what is Softgasm?

I've heard Semenax and Extenze might be options. Can you share which OTC are you referring to? I am open to trying about anything at this point. Thanks

As a recently minted 69 year old man I’ve been dealing with this for a number of years now  
But I haven’t let it deter me  
IF “it” isn’t happening for me on a given session I just take pleasure in being in the company of a sensual sexy woman. The touching. The  kissing. Pleasing her  

I use the one called Royal Honey or Pi available at most adult shops and head shops.  But several work.  I typically ask for best seller and try it.

That is a great attitude to have and I do this as well, but when it first started happening on a regular basis, it was tough to accept. I try to take heart in that at least it felt great and I was with a beautiful woman, but leaving still needing a release is going to take me a while to get used to.

I've known Ginger for years, and can vouch for her knowledge and skills - she helped me celebrate my 80th last summer.

Prolactin is produced in the anterior pituitary (in the brain) not the breasts, elevated levels will effect erections (ED) and can cause lactation from the breasts. If levels are elevated you should be screened for a pituitary adenoma.

I believe both those products contain yohimbine HCL which is great for harder erections and sensitivity, although can cause negative adverse effects (heart) if you have high  blood pressure or an irregular rhythm.

Definitely more intense particularly when you're hard. Your reviews are amazing BTW.

Testosterone replacement therapy makes a huge difference, keep in mind this is replacement therapy not a steroid cycle

I actually do TRT with HCG and it definitely helped at first, but the help didn't last long. Now I find I'm super horny but still can't orgasm which is why I wrote this post. Sometimes it feels like I'm torturing myself but I keep doing it because it's made me feel so much better.

I found that taking LEGAL THC a couple of hours beforehand did restore my ability to orgasm for a couple of days. It made a BIG difference in my excitement level and ability to orgasm, however, it comes with a HUGE warning label.  

Try Yohimbine HCL or you could try adding kisspeptin peptide to your TRT/HCG protocol. Cabergoline is another drug that might help if your TRT provider prescribes it, the dose is .5mg/2x week

Thanks, I'm going to check these out!

I’m well past 70 and I still cum every time. Just sometimes it’s several days later, I just forget to. What was the question?

Make sure you get alpha-yohimbine, it has less side effects than yohimbine hcl or any other variation. MTS brand is good.

Any experienced, kind provider could be happy to help you navigate this