Almost forgot, have a great day!

Sir Cumalot

Wow,  why does a simple question have to end up with arguments and ill feelings.  This is so typical TER! Think about it guys and gals, life is way too short and there is too much fun to be had to continue with this type of action.

That is why I like another board better, the no drama board.  Oh yes,I am sure this will start another fire storm.  LOL!!   Bet I don't add any fuel or water.

Everyone have a great day and please everyone have wet dream if nothing else.

I recently read a review in which the reviewer gives detail of the lady being covered with his cum. Now I certainly understand what goes on here behind closed doors and have no problem with anything anyone does.My question is Do you think reviews like that hurt business for a lady? After all they have nothing to do with performance or what the lady looks like but rather the fantasy of the reviewer.Just curious of what others thought.

I am very pro information and posting on these boards.  There is
so much information to glean between the lines.  So I am happy
to see people actively post reviews and also post here regardless
of style and substance.

I think everyone likes what they like and fees are paid to facilitate
those likes.  Cash is the grease that lubes the squeaky wheel.

When I am doing my research their are reviewers who have similar taste to me and
if they like some girl it probably will influence my desire to see her.  I will also not
patronize a girl based on who she sees and attracts.  The juicy details of the review should be
erotic and graphic and tastefuly written  sometimes that is difficult.  

I recently had a discussion about the cleaness of an incall.  That is important so
if a dude is spooging everywhere  I do not want to be there.  I do not want to think about a chick taking a cum bath prior to my encounter with her.  I bear not judgement as I have busted a nut on many of Atlantas finest but...
sometimes you just gotta think.

Agreed. My point was not to reflect negative on reviews as I am very pro information as well but there is nothing about a graphic detail of spraying down the place with cum that makes me really want to go see a lady. Money is the greese that keeps the hobby rolling for sure but somethings( IMHO) are better left unsaid or maybe on a blog leaving all parties "unnamed.  

Some  folks think that this is important shit that goes on in the hobby, and
put more importance in their hobby life then their real life.  Its easy to get
caught up.

True superstars for sure!  So create a persona and go with it!
but
If you are not Charlie Sheen you ain't shit!
lmfao!

Lmfao! You are so right my friend!

Reviews are another avenue for gentlemen to get aroused.  Accurate???  I wouldn't bet money on it and surprised you put so much faith in them.  The escorts just smile knowing the truth from fiction; and TER does cater to the gentlemen.

Newsflash!!  As long as reviews do not "hurt"her business, escorts go with the flow...sometimes she even ignores hurtful information said about her that is nothing more than lies. There's politics going on in this Community, and girls offering discount rates for good reviews.

Myself; I prefer gentlemen who don't spend a great deal of time in this Community trying to avoid high drama.  I just prefer independent thinking men.  And not-too-surprising they prefer me.  Why do I post?  Guess I feel I bring something to the Community.  And you can agree to disagree.

I do wish criticism would be limited to Constructive criticism but that obviously does not promote business and will never happen..

My point and truly did not want to offend anyone..Reviews are so-o-o subjective...more than you realize.  just my $.02

...are referring to me. If so, you are more than welcome to use my handle or persona name in your discussion instead of just insinuating. Call me out and lets discuss.

If not, disregard this and point me to the review that LTC is referring to...I want to give that lady some cash and business lol!!

Sir Cumalot

Well is was your review... And let me say you seem cool and have no personal problem with you as you have just as much right to write about what you wish I was just curious if others felt the same way.... Its cool I just won't read them and then I don't have to deal with the mental image.

I can dig that and have no problem with you asking the question on this board and/or not reading my reviews.

Just wanted to let you guys know that I also have no problem with you referring to me personally. That helps with the sharing of info and any interested party can read my reviews, posts,etc..for themselves and be able to weigh in, fully informed of what your topic is.

That's what this board is for...I think.lol

Sir Cumalot

A question was raised and I found it poignant because I put weight not
only into a review but also the reviewer.  Especially if the review is of a girl I have interest
in.

But, since you have decided to insert yourself into this thread, I personally
am glad to see you post and review.  I have always said the less moderation and the more participation the better for the board and the better for the community.  Its how we gather info.

As I have said we all like what we like as individuals and its great you are having a great time blowing your load and sharing the experience in your reviews.  Make no mistake the are a contribution to the community, I hope you keep writing them.
But
you are a little over the top when every post you make is about who, when and where you are
going to blast.  My guess is you are a nice guy with a yearn for attention.  Nothing wrong there.
just
mix in a salad!

Really?  I'm surprised.  Personally, I'm a pretty vanilla guy with a very occasional twist of kink.  Still, I don't see that knowing a lady has been showered in spunk as a big deal one way or another.  Perhaps I know too many providers as friends.  One particular lady loves to have her nipples pinched to the point where it hurts your fingers and wants to be fucked HARD.  Again, not my thing, but she's a sweet gal.  Others would cringe at the thought of being painted with jizz.  Reading that in a guy's reviews keeps her from being in that position if it's a big deal to her.  Still another lady offers the school girl date OR a wild porn star date.  I don't think that she's schizophrenic; I think she markets herself well.

I would only negatively change my mind after reading that a girl was covered in spunk if I thought she wasn't going to wash it off before seeing me.  

I can't believe some of you could be turned off by a guy busting his nut on any lady. They do what the wives and SO's dont. Isn't that the point?  Are you going to avoid a provider who offers CIM?  I don't think so. I'm sure they shower and rinse with Mouth Wash between clients. Don't you think?

...you made a comment above that it's easy for someone (me, since the subject of post was the subject matter of my reviews) to let there hobby life outweigh their real life. Your post was:

"Some  folks think that this is important shit that goes on in the hobby, and
put more importance in their hobby life then their real life.  Its easy to get
caught up.True superstars for sure!  So create a persona and go with it!"
You then post that you believe I'm looking for attention.

Dude, you don't shit about me or my personal life so don't act like you do.
Assuming that you've got me figured out from escort reviews and silly posts is absurd.
Sounds like you're the one that could have the ego/attention problem.

I will consider your thought of 'mixing the salad' in my posts and reviews as that's a
legitimate suggestion.

Sir Cum

I do not shit about you or your personal life. Whatever that means.
My comments you quote were made to
The OP concerning his question...before you decided to insert yourself as the subject
Of this thread. Own it if you want
Or
Grow up.

Id say he is grown up. Also, he didn't have to insert himself into the thread, it was easy to figure out based on the comments from those who chimed in.  I find it admirable that he didn't take offense, and had no issue coming forward while a fee of you pick apart his review.  I think guys who seek out the transgender is gross but to each his own. I'm not picking apart what two commenting adults choose to do behind the closed door.

I think it's pretty funny that any hobbyist finds fault in his style.  It's not uncommon for a hobbyist to blow a load outside the cover. My ATF loves to be showered in it. If you think it's odd, go get yourself a proper girl.  And if you're really that concerned about germs, get yourself some luminol and a black light to take on your next visit.

I inserted myself because:

A.The subject matter was interesting (considering my taste lol) and
B. I suspected the OP was talking about a review I wrote (which was later confirmed by OP).

I made the suggestion that you guys (if you were speaking of my reviews and IF NOT to show me to the review) should say who's review/s your talking about. Then, in the interest of information and full disclosure, the other board members could decide for themselves and share their thoughts on the subject of the thread.
   
But I'm sure you had no idea who's reviews he was speaking of considering your 'alter ego/ cum comments'.

Yeah, sure.....you were just responding to the OP.

Trust me, I care as little about your personal life as you say you do about mine.

Grow up, indeed

Sir Cumalot

I inserted myself because:

A.The subject matter was interesting (considering my taste lol) and
B. I suspected the OP was talking about a review I wrote (which was later confirmed by OP).

I made the suggestion that you guys (if you were speaking of my reviews and IF NOT to show me to the review) should say who's review/s your talking about. Then, in the interest of information and full disclosure, the other board members could decide for themselves and share their thoughts on the subject of the thread.
   
But I'm sure you had no idea who's reviews he was speaking of considering your 'alter ego/ cum comments'.

Yeah, sure.....you were just responding to the OP.

Trust me, I care as little about your personal life as you say you do about mine.

Grow up, indeed

Sir Cumalot

Ok guys enough said... I wasn't trying to attack a review or anyone personally with this post. While I with what has been said by everyone on some level my point was simply to ask if I was the only one that carried that mental image. There have been times where I have shot a load on a lady hell there a lot of things people do here and I am fine with anything, but let's face it if you find out  someone likes to take a 12 inch dildo up his ass when you see them that would cross your mind... That's all I was asking in the original post.

I inserted myself because:

A.The subject matter was interesting (considering my taste lol) and
B. I suspected the OP was talking about a review I wrote (which was later confirmed by OP).

I made the suggestion that you guys (if you were speaking of my reviews and IF NOT to show me to the review) should say who's review/s your talking about. Then, in the interest of information and full disclosure, the other board members could decide for themselves and share their thoughts on the subject of the thread.
   
But I'm sure you had no idea who's reviews he was speaking of considering your 'alter ego/ cum comments'.

Yeah, sure.....you were just responding to the OP.

Trust me, I care as little about your personal life as you say you do about mine.

Grow up, indeed

Sir Cumalot

Of course, I do not know. The review should be about the lady not personal exploits. The information most are seeking is about the lady. The amount and location is not a good visual for me, but I must admit one review probably would not prevent me from seeing someone who has stellar reviews. In my opinion, the reviews would not help with some guys if the girl was new to the business.

That said: It is a review board for all people and should not be discouraged or censored. I am sure some of my preferences and style is not viewed with enthusiasm by all.

It is what it is. It ain't what it ain't. Do not try to make it what it is what it ain't.

This thread raises a good question and I'd like to look at answering it in a slightly different way.  Part of the premise of the original question was about whether it was appropriate to include a detail like this in a review since it was somehow not a direct comment on the girl or the experience she provides.  Is there such a thing as too much information?  Perhaps, but not in this case for me.

What if a gentleman is looking for this very experience?  

There are check boxes for all sorts of intimate activities in the profile but it would be virtually impossible to include every possibility.  The ones listed are the obvious most common ones.  It is good to provide a detail such as this in the review if it seemed like something that wasn't a YMMV type of thing.  That would allow a gentleman seeking that particular activity to better determine a lady whose sensibilities will work for his particular desire.

That being said - there are things I surely don't like to hear about.  I just skip over those parts.  Also one review is an example while a series of reviews gives more of a complete picture of the type of lady you will likely meet when the door opens.  

One thing more - most providers aren't active on the boards.  The ones that are active offer a whole new way to determine compatibility.  There have been some providers who barely caught my eye with their ads and reviews but reading their comments made me really want to see them.  Conversely, there are some whose ads appeal to me and their reviews are good enough but their comments let me know that we wouldn't be a good fit.  I wish they all (including agency girls) were active on the board.

Hope this made sense and was a reasonable addition to a thread with an interesting original post.

Great response! Thanks for the input...

Point noted but if you read the op you will I have issues with the act... just the mental image of the act and injecting it into a review when it has no effect on performance or looks.

Agreed they are subjective.. Part of the original question was if you thought this type of review would hurt business for a lady? That why I asked....

I agree it is what it is, and I don't think anyone should be censored.... I was asking for others opinion of the review... Thanks for the input and helping get this thread back on track

LTC,

 Up to this point, I have personally never had a lady that I've reviewed tell me that my description of cum covering them has ever hurt their business. Doesn't mean that it hasn't and if that were the case, I would hope that they would pm me...if it's an agency lady, that does not participate in TER, the agency owners are welcome to contact me. All I've experienced is thankfulness for the reviews and frankly, half the ladies ask to have one written.

 As mentioned by another poster, I don't believe that would be an option in the review description if it wasn't something that some people prefer. That being the case, I believe it's the way I describe COF/COB that rubs some people the wrong way. Let's face it, there are hundreds of reviews by many fellas that have COF/COB in them that no one ever mentions.  What's the difference between mine and their's as it pertains to the pain that you gentleman go through with that image in your heads lol?

  These are grown women and they can make their own decisions. I always respectfully ask if COF/COB is ok before I cum. Some even like and ask for it. Let me be clear, I would NEVER perform those acts if a lady was not comfortable with it, period.

 What bothers me is when I see a lady and she relates to me that other reviewers have been asking questions about me, say I'm full of shit,etc...I don't get it. In some cases, the guys have actually given them shit about being ok with me covering them in spunk! You'd be suprised how often that happens.
Pathetic.

Bottom line, I can see where that would not be the most pleasant image you could have in your head before seeing a lady that I've seen based on my reviews. At the same, there are just as many images of actions that I've read in others reviews that don't help with the process LOL. My suggestion (as you mentioned before) is to not read my reviews....I'm cool with that and can definitely respect it.

Sir Cumalot



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...that's what it means for the escort..exposure

I find them worthless because of that. Hey narcissicism is allowed here, as is almost everything else, but that doesn't mean the rest of us actually enjoy or appreciate it. Oh btw, after further reflection, I do find his reviews "gross" lol

I am much more interested to read if the pics are accurate, her attitude is good, and what services are on or off the menu. I am not interested in reading third rate porn novels. but as the saying goes "you take the good with the bad"

For myself, business did pick up for me around the time Sir Cumalot's review of me was published. Was this traffic coming directly from his review, or did it come from advertising? To be honest, I don't actually know. Maybe just having my name on the front page of the new reviews did it (which would mean that, indirectly, yes, the review helped).

OTOH - That particular review did garner some unwanted requests...Sorry Guys, I'm not into the leg scissors fetish thing, lol!

xoxo
Caylee

that after a review from Sir C, new reviews slow dramatically or stop altogether for the lady he wrote his experiences about.  Not true in every case.  But IMO, for a unusual amount of ladies it is, including some who had years of consistent reviews posted and are still in the biz.

So there could be something to it...

Sircumalot, as I have stated before I have no issue with you personally and have no problem with anything anyone does and I respect the fact that you have responded to this thread in the manner at which you have, perhaps maybe you are more detailed in your reviews than most. Its all cool, I respect what your saying....

Yes, my last review was from Sir C, but if you will also observe, many women have a new review every week while many receive them intermittently at best. While a review shows everyone that a lady is getting business, lack of a new review does not necessarily mean that she isn't. However, your observation might just show that some people may not want anyone to know that they have seen someone who's been "splattered", lol!

The OP's question was does it affect a provider's business...the answer is YES! Does it affect it negatively? Possibly, but I personally, have never had anyone tell me that they wouldn't see me because of it (and they probably wouldn't either, just saying). But, I understand the whole mental image thing, sometimes it's TMI, lol!

xoxo
Caylee

I did state, "not true in every case", meaning I did observe your observation point as well.

N

though I know that was not your intention

I guess thats on me.
Apologies to the board for the conflict and drama.
i should know better.

To the OP my thought was a review can have positive or high
marks yet not necessarily encourage business as we all have
different likes.  Should have left it at that.

To Roanoke keep posting reviews and posts I did not mean
to act as a censor of what is right to post or not.

Don't be too sorry!  You did give is a nominee for quote of the year, "mix in a salad".  Which I still think is hilarious!  I hope you don't mind me using this.  It is classic!

Well done.

Make sure you give me full credit the first 5 times you use it.

...as that is what this board is all about.

Hell, it actually made for an interesting and dare I say 'mature' dialogue.

Like I said in a post in a different thread below, we've seen some of the same ladies and I would gladly
have a drink with you anytime as we salute them!

'To the brave and beautiful ladies we've seen, we salute you! Lord knows you deserve better LOL!'

Time to mix the salad,

Sir Cumalot

I too am about participation in reviews and board posts.
I like a lively board though I know some get nervous about
Any type of disagreement or conflict so I was apologising to
Those folks as I want everyone to stick around to read and post.

Dammit Cumalot its "mix in a salad!" Not go mix the salad!

Dude, without facts and being more specific about your observation, your post is misleading and completely irrelevant.

You forgot to mention (beside 'not in all cases') other factors such as:

- some ladies are low volume and don't have a lot of reviews coming in to begin with
- some ladies switch agencies, take time off, etc. Which tends to slow reviews
-should I continue

There so many factors involved. You could find any reviewer with 40 or more reviews and make the same case your making.

I'm certainly not narcissistic enough to think one review from me can make or break a good provider, I mean c'mon...

Jeez

Sir Cumalot

...that there has been very few alias posts in this thread, which is a nice change.

Unless of course, they were moderated by LP or DK! Lol

Sir Cum

You did say "few" and I suppose mine isn't terribly well hidden.

I don't think that there were any others.  It's tough for me to bash alias use, since a) I can see who they are, and b) I have a couple hundred of them.  Still, it's nice when people can say stuff in the digital equivalent of face to face.

I never said anything about "facts".  I said it was my observation and my opinion.  I read the question asked by the gentlemen at the beginning of this string, took a look at many of the reviews  in question(not all, but many)and noticed this pattern.  Nothing more.  I started to be more specific and list all the provider names in the situation I observed , but decided not to go down that rabbit hole, as everyone can do it for themselves, if they care.  

and I didn't say anything about YOUR reviews making or breaking anyone...

there are ladies on "your" review list I've seen before your reviews were authored and after your reviews were authored, so they have no impact on me what-so-ever....  And I doubt bothers many others here either,  but for some reason there is a pattern where people stop writing after yours in many cases.  I don't know the answer why, but...

the gentlemen presented the question, I looked at many of your reviews and in my opinion noticed this pattern developing...  there is no factual data, purely a observation that others can look for if they so choose too...  

And, IMO again, you opened yourself up to this somewhat personal review by throwing yourself out there on the board in this string by posting "talking about me"? so don't get your panties in wad mister!







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