So first let me say this is probably going to get me in trouble since I've not posted any reviews.  I just prefer to keep my experiences to myself which I know is a bit unfair since I do read other reviews, and make decisions based off of them.  So if you can't get past that, the rest of this post doesn't matter.  Now, with that out of the way...there is a local provider who  has literally over 100 glowing reviews...8-10 in both looks and service.  I've gone back and forth many times, but had never seen her until today.  To be honest...I was SHOCKED when I walked in.  She was certainly nice enough, and the place was immaculate...but I just can't see how she would rank anywhere close to an 8, much less 9 or 10.  Then, she is supposed to provide world class service.but frankly it was WAY below average with no enthusiasm.  Personally, I don't like to say anything bad about anyone because it's just not my style.  And...to each his own...everyone has their own tastes...but another part of me thinks I should post my review becasue it may sway another like me to go another direction.  I've also seen guys get blased on this board when their reviews are so out of line with everyone else's...which this would be.  Again, this provider has nothing below 8 in looks or service.  In my opinion, the pictures are not her, she is clearly older than advertised, and much heavier.  My gut is telling me to just leave it alone and just slink back into obvilion...but another part is not so sure.  Would love to hear some thoughts...

I have only posted 2 reviews, but both of them have been very good, but not totally out of line with other reviews.  However, I have seen 3 other providers who frankly did get great reviews but were only mediocre in my opinion.  My solution was just to not submit a review on these ladies, because others found them great.  Just figured it was YMMV.  Am now having 2nd thoughts since like you, I rely on reviews quite a bit.

Thank you for the thoughtful response...your ideas are excellent and I'll reach out to a few of these guys.  And no, no threatening issues here at all.  

I am a newbie and have been researching someone who I think you described.  This person gets 10/10 on every review unless some dude gives her a 9.  Several years ago a gentleman gave her an 8 and his online write up was still somewhat glowing.  But, I emailed and asked why only 8/10, b/c I thought nearly 2 years of 10/10 reminded me of Soviet elections where the Commies always win with 99 percent of vote.  He told me her looks did not live up to billing, but the lack of enthusiasm was what killed it for him because it seemed clinical.  Then, she sent him 20 flaming emails trying to get him to change his review.  He also said the same thing you did about the in call.  He figured out if he ignored her she would go away.  Fortunately, this guy lives up north.  

This ain't a tough call Bro, the fact you posted this thread tells me you know what to do

I say post it.  That's what this forum is for.  It is one mans experience and opinion.  I used to work with a guy who thought a singer was the most beautiful, sexy thing alive.  I think she is one of the ugliest  least sexual appealing women alive.  bigdell

I only ask to be reviewed if in fact you had a bad experience. I've gotten enough juicy details posted IMO. With that said, if every guy only posted the glowing experiences he has then that does not represent the intended purpose of the review system and in fact destroys it. It matters not if a lady is my "friend" or not, I don't think that should automatically cause anyone to stand up for someone who is not representative of a good time to someone else. It's your experience you are relating, It is what it is. If my friend were getting bad reviews I'd do more with her personally as a friend to redirect her efforts. It's not always easy to go against the grain but life is not a politically correct party. Some shit needs to be said and someone has to have the balls enough to say it.

If it's your only review, regardless the the preamble, I'd discount it.  Assume someone with an ax to grind. It's trends not individuals that I read.  That said, there are several people I've met who have earned my trust so they could change my mind.  No way a single 1st time reviewer carries any real credibility.  Not flaming, just saying...

It may not even affect her. But that IS what the review system is about. I think you should post it. Doesn't seem like you'd be the kind to write the review in an asshole way. You simply got domething way different than expected.  100 plus reviews?  Not one low score? She shouldn't be too bothered by that.

I think you should post your experience period.  Way to many on here that manipulate the review system. I've had some that have rated me a 10 in looks, I've had some rate me a 6 in looks.  Appearance is highly subjective but if she's totally a misrepresentation of what she advertises then honestly it really fucks it up for the guys wanting to see a lady that doesn't misrepresent themselves and for the ladies that work hard to earn their reviews.  
Good luck on your decision  
Xoxo
TL

Well said Ginger.

That's what this site is for.

I have a lot of emails and board responses where I have sought advice and people have reached out to me for specific information or opinions.  It is the MOST reliable form and in my opinion one of the best uses of this site.  There are a lot of people whom I have met and not met but over the years have some trust and friendships built around the hobby...

You are posting about a dilemma as to post your first review which would be a less then stellar one of a lady you accusing of bait and switch due to use of fake pics and misleading potential customers with fake body stats.  If you choose to post something like this without names named
or a review going forward then this is a troll post leading to speculation as to who she is.

that first review somewhere.

It is a review, not a life sentence.  Your review should be a narrative of your experience and not influenced by what you perceive others may think or do.  Remember above all that this is a fee for service hobby.  Yes, there are people and feelings involved so try not to be an a-hole, but by all means describe your experience and perceptions.  

The purpose of this forum is simple- to offer guidance to others based on your experience. Call it like you see it. Post it!

Even 1st time reviews can be right. I've never seen anyone who gets 10/10 all the time. ????? Doesn't it make you wonder??

In addition to electr0n and the rest of all the Review Away comments, I'd add this.

Completely agree with GT.

It is a forum to review girls - as such it was always be subjective AND may change over time.  

Only posting rare reviews creates a credibility gap, LS post above is spot on.  Your opinion counts when it's consistent and predictable.  You can be completely wrong in my opinion, but if you are consistent others can baseline and decide.

I have yet to see you....just your pictures.  Not sure how you can get only a 6 in looks

I've watched the thread today with rapt attention, you have been given very good advice from both women and gentlemen.IMHO. I know for a fact we have seen at least one lady, and yet neither of us has written the review. Why? well my reason is simple, she created a stir with her initial posts and I'd rather not have my name tied to that by default.  
I would say write the review and let the chips fall where they may. I have met several ladies in person at M&G's who have 10's, that in my opinion weren't close to that in appearance...By the same token I have seen some who were 8's that were 10's..Appearance is 100000% subjective...
The only number that has to be consistent for me is the performance, I will then read the reviews and the reviewers other reviews to see if there is a consistent parallel...

A client or provider will always get out what he or she puts into the meeting.    If a newbie tries to make a provider feel special she will usually always return the favor and love you like they need you.   I have only met 6 providers on here and every one has made me feel special.    Being 70 yrs. and a widower. I know they have to bite their lip to do my bidding.     I don't know if they close their eyes or just pretend they are with Tom Cruise.  Lol.     They are worth way more than they charge but knowing the clients are some what limited in funds they try to keep it low.   If I could drink but can't because of my liver that looks like a Tom Brady football  I would drink toast to all the Lady's on here.

My thoughts.

You are right and true on each of your points and points that were very thoughtfully made I might add.  However, to those who would be the most frequent in such poor taste and bad manners, they will continue to ignore your post and the information found on Providers sites because THEY THINK IT DOES NOT APPLY TO THEM.  They are kind of like the person at the Grocery Store who pushes you out of the way to get where they want to be while saying "I"m sorry" and continue to misbehave because they think an apology gives them license to continue their bad behavior.  I also wonder why the OP here has had good experiences yet failed to support the Good Providers but now seems to feel so compelled to relate his "BAD EXPERIENCE",  
just saaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyinnnnnnnnnngggggggggggg......i aime à avaler tout....suze

.....just wondering, I get the review thing and I appreciate it for what it is, but it kinda reminds me of those who don't do reviews for a variety of reasons but want me to whitelist them......." .huh, you what, are you serious, really ?"....... i aime à avaler tout......suzee

That's a very interesting point Airmantroy.  I do think people are generally more likely to write a review over bad service (or a product) than a good one.  I'm not exactly sure what that says about our society, but it seems true enough.

that's the point of this site, go ahead an post

First...I want to thank everyone and let you know how much I appreciated the honest, respectful dialogue.  I'll admit I was sort of expecting to receive nasty or negative comments, but in truth, everything I received was positive...even the PMs.  Looking back, I probably made a bigger deal out of this than I should so please know I will try and avoid drama in the future.  Based on the comments, I'll be posting an honest review of MY time with this provider. My intent will not be to tarnish her reputation or be unkind in any way.  But I agree that guys should hear all sides before making a decision...so review coming.  Another GREAT outcome of my post is I may have found a true DIAMOND.  I had a nice conversation with Taylor Leigh, who I've not met before and believe she could be a dream come true for me...so in that sense, it was worth putting up the post.