Strange session, really have no clue how or if to write up.

Scheduled three hours with a lady with sting reviews.  She showed up on time, it was a late outcall and my day had been unusually /excessively stressful.  We open-end somecwhite wine and sharedcsome light snacks and sweets I had in the room.  Chatted, great conversation, nice lady but I was feeling nada in the male department.  She suggested I let her try, we tried a few things but I was getting smaller if possible.   I suggested she may as well leave, she got up took only one hours worth of franklins from the pile and put the bigger pile on my laptop.

She poured us both more wine, laid down nude by me and we just chatted.  She wanted to know what was stressing me so much, because she had researched me, spoke with other ladies she knew in area that I had reviewed, and indicated she had a good idea what to expect and this was not it.

I offered her the entire amount, she refused, saying she will get more over time from me than scoring a fast hit from me and had a regular she had just turned down she would not lose the night.

Classy lady, but how in the hell do you score this in a review?   Reviews help shape her franchise, but by any standard this is a low performance number, because of my distraction.

Any way, looking for guidance.  I am leaning towards no review. But not sure that is the answer

No review buddy, you didn't do anything and it wasn't her fault.  Wait till next time when you really can perform and can give a more accurate review of the lady.

She is not an Atlanta provider.  I ask this group because collectively ths board has best dialog most of the time

And yes I did tip her, so I don't think I am a cheap ass bastard so please accept this congenially intended "f@ck @ff". Lol you sick bastard

-- Modified on 3/17/2011 6:44:30 PM

What I hear is that in a moment of you being somewhat vulnerable due to stress and the inability to give it the old college try, a classy lady read the situation and made the best of it for both of you.

So you could just go on her home board and explain like you did here and thank her or you could write her a nice note telling her how much you appreciated her kindness and class. And the next time you see her, you owe her a nice sexy time and a great review if she earns it.

It's just sex, have fun!

Pheonix

Thanks for sharing. Both of you showed real class in this event.
Privately I would like to know her name - if you are willing.

Gentle.

I agree with everything PR said, RJ too.  No review.

No attempt at humor, no innuendo - I appreciate Advisor's post.  I think it truly does take a secure person to make it.   This is one of those times where I wish I had TER PM, since I really am not sure how appropriate it would be to post the lady's name here.  I think her response to the situation, IMHO, speaks volumes to her character, personality and professionalism.  

Pretty sure this is gonna sound strange. -  I have been fortunate never to have had that particular experience (yet), but if/when it happens, I hope I am as fortunate as Advisor in having such a dance partner.

BW,

Not going to post name here, she is not atl provider.

I have never had the experience before either, very strange for me to have zero response, but it was one of those horrid flight days working with lawyers, procurement officiers CIO groups, etc and the entire day way everyone in room, including the women, trying to prove how big of a pair they have.  My own bid manager was going out of his way to piss away this deal and I really need this to hit quotas.  It was BAD day.

Oh well, I will be back to atl soon to celebrate birthdays, not mine, with some special friends.  Can't be afraid to saddle up again right.  

Looks like my inclination was right call from male point of view.  I have read too many guys blast ladies for simple personality disconnects even when lady tries.  I will write a benefit of doubt review and recognize effort, saving bad reviews for bad providers.  But this was off the curve.

Thanks team I have a plan

it would be refreshing to read in a review about a provider who has a heart rather than the repetitive and predictable and boring LFK-DFK-CG-RCG-CBJ-CIM....  she would get my business!

The review is about her, not you

Sounds as if this encounter was a YOU problem, not  a HER problem (HEY,, don't fret ,, the same thing just happened to me yesterday,,, I've been fretting and distracted about things lately and despite all the best efforts of a very nice lady, I was less than stellar!!)

I would give her high marks for her "performance". Sounds as if she went over and above the call of duty!

Total agreement with PR and BW. It sounds like this lady could not have actually performed any better...given the situation.  No review needed (if you did, shouldn't the rating be a 10, as she couldn't have done anything better). I would give her, and yourself, another shot together to have a great time.

definetely no review.  wow what a classy lady.  She definetely earns my respect.  Just wait until next time and give her a fair review.  Buddy, we all have been there.  stress and getting old is a  $#%#$!

As a person who suffer e.d. from time to time, I still write the reviews.  Just because I can't get it up and perform doesn't lessen the ladie's efforts.  I write glowingly about their kindness, patience and total effort.  Just because the hobbyist doesnt have an orgasm is no reason not to help the lady out.  She might like a review showing her class and not just her humping skills.

It sounds to me that you had a good time.  She got naked, shared wine, talked with you and gave you her best efforts.  I'd write the review and be just as honest in it as you have been here.

In this situation, I probably would *not* write a review now, see the provider later, write up a glowing review (assuming she warrants it at the time) *AND* include your prior experience in the review...

... if that's permissible, that is.