I mainly lurk. Have posted some. I think the new people should be warned and believe it can be handled with a few reputable people responding to his post(s). The problem seems to be when everyone wants to add something to what has been said. The topic then takes up a whole page instead of dying. It ends up being more attention. IMHO
Posted By: anubis74
I dont understand the hostility on here. I just read a post of someone calling someone else out, then a post about the post of the one person publically calling the other person out, then a post about that. I dont understand all the hostility in the threads. it seems there is more beefing lately than actual good topics, legitimate warnings of LE or safety issues. I mean this is might as well be the one of the hip hop news site rumors section with all the beefing.
Honestly, I have had beef with about 5% of the providers I have seen and I, have been in the hobby for about 5 years. I have seen multiple ladies from ATF, JFL, adult film stars, and independent ladies, NEVER HAS IT CROSSED MY MIND TO GO ON A FORUM AND TALK ABOUT THEM PERSONALLY. If I was stood up I would mentioned it, if my safety was in danger I would mention it, if it was a bait and switch I would mention it; however, some of these post I am seeing concerning other posters and people are petty and high schoolish. If you dont like someone ignore them, if you think someone is a douche bag ignore them... tying up the board and having back and forth arguments on the messageboards is a complete turn off.
I really dont come here to see which provider is beefing with another provider or hobbyist. As beautiful as some of you are I hesitate to even see you because of this type of stuff. I am fearful if we have a misunderstanding I can expect to get flamed on a message board. Is this really the place to air out beefs... in front of potential customers and in some cases complete strangers?
I dont understand the hostility on here. I just read a post of someone calling someone else out, then a post about the post of the one person publically calling the other person out, then a post about that. I dont understand all the hostility in the threads. it seems there is more beefing lately than actual good topics, legitimate warnings of LE or safety issues. I mean this is might as well be the one of the hip hop news site rumors section with all the beefing.
Honestly, I have had beef with about 5% of the providers I have seen and I, have been in the hobby for about 5 years. I have seen multiple ladies from ATF, JFL, adult film stars, and independent ladies, NEVER HAS IT CROSSED MY MIND TO GO ON A FORUM AND TALK ABOUT THEM PERSONALLY. If I was stood up I would mentioned it, if my safety was in danger I would mention it, if it was a bait and switch I would mention it; however, some of these post I am seeing concerning other posters and people are petty and high schoolish. If you dont like someone ignore them, if you think someone is a douche bag ignore them... tying up the board and having back and forth arguments on the messageboards is a complete turn off.
I really dont come here to see which provider is beefing with another provider or hobbyist. As beautiful as some of you are I hesitate to even see you because of this type of stuff. I am fearful if we have a misunderstanding I can expect to get flamed on a message board. Is this really the place to air out beefs... in front of potential customers and in some cases complete strangers?
I mainly lurk. Have posted some. I think the new people should be warned and believe it can be handled with a few reputable people responding to his post(s). The problem seems to be when everyone wants to add something to what has been said. The topic then takes up a whole page instead of dying. It ends up being more attention. IMHO
Posted By: anubis74
I dont understand the hostility on here. I just read a post of someone calling someone else out, then a post about the post of the one person publically calling the other person out, then a post about that. I dont understand all the hostility in the threads. it seems there is more beefing lately than actual good topics, legitimate warnings of LE or safety issues. I mean this is might as well be the one of the hip hop news site rumors section with all the beefing.
Honestly, I have had beef with about 5% of the providers I have seen and I, have been in the hobby for about 5 years. I have seen multiple ladies from ATF, JFL, adult film stars, and independent ladies, NEVER HAS IT CROSSED MY MIND TO GO ON A FORUM AND TALK ABOUT THEM PERSONALLY. If I was stood up I would mentioned it, if my safety was in danger I would mention it, if it was a bait and switch I would mention it; however, some of these post I am seeing concerning other posters and people are petty and high schoolish. If you dont like someone ignore them, if you think someone is a douche bag ignore them... tying up the board and having back and forth arguments on the messageboards is a complete turn off.
I really dont come here to see which provider is beefing with another provider or hobbyist. As beautiful as some of you are I hesitate to even see you because of this type of stuff. I am fearful if we have a misunderstanding I can expect to get flamed on a message board. Is this really the place to air out beefs... in front of potential customers and in some cases complete strangers?
As Im sure most of you know I do not post frequently on TER. Its not because I do not appreciate what the sites done for my business and the great people its connected me with its the unnecessary drama I see every time I look at the boards. No this drama does not have to do with me but it scares me from socializing on the board for fear of unfair judgment. Maybe its a coincidence, maybe not... Its a discussion board so controversy may and will happen but there MUST be respect for one another.
Cant we all just get along and make peace and love? MUAH love you all....
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