: Atlanta Discussion : Advice please, had an NCNS

CantQuitWontQuit 1819 reads

posted 5 years ago

1 / 17

I’m trying to decide what’s the smartest approach here.

She literally was on the phone talking me through the apartment complex to her I call when she cut off . I tried calling her back at least 10 times and it went to voicemail.

I finally gave up and left; I sent her an email the next day (Friday) and one last message.

Nothing.

It’s really weird,I’ve seen her several times and went really well, so I’m very concerned and confused.

Here’s the kicker, I noticed she logged into her p411 page every day starting Saturday. (I only know because I went to that page to see if there was a different phone number or email address I could try Herat).

So now I’m actually getting pissed.

What do you think is the best way to handle this for all concerned?

LSLarry 163 Reviews 97 reads

posted 5 years ago

2 / 17

Scams

Was she asking for gift cards or cashapp for a deposit? That’s a scam going on now. NEVER pay in advance. This is a cash in hand business at least until you know each other pretty damned well.

Fisherman123456 10 Reviews 86 reads

posted 5 years ago

3 / 17

NCNS

Sounds like you've given her plenty of time to respond. Assuming you're not a creep (which is sounds you aren't) the NCNS was not justified. Providers are always going on and on about how valuable their time is, requiring deposits and blackslists for noncompliance. I can promise you that my hourly time is more costly as it relates to my income than any provider I have ever seen. I'd post it - with it the caveat, "I welcome (so and so) to respond or contact me with an explanation and I'd gladly delete this post or add to it that the situation has been explained and rectified." just my two cents.

winchester 1 186 Reviews 95 reads

posted 5 years ago

4 / 17

Hmmm

You stated you had seen her several times....yet she was walking you thru the apartment complex....had she changed locations> maybe the complex manager came to the apartment....maybe law enforcement showed up....have you attempted to contact her since that day? Probably had a viable reason to blow you off!!

CantQuitWontQuit 83 reads

posted 5 years ago

5 / 17

Re: Hmmm

Yes, it was a new incall

Doesn't sound like you actually read the post, like where I explained my attempts to contact her, but okay

edinathens 89 reads

posted 5 years ago

6 / 17

Re: Scams

He said he's seen her several times and had enjoyable experiences, so how would it be a scam?

edinathens 108 reads

posted 5 years ago

7 / 17

Once more with feeling

I'd wait a short time for things to cool down, then try to make another appointment with her. If she follows through, chalk it up to her having a bad day. If she doesn't respond, you know it's time to move on without the need of knowing why.

ExecutiveCompanionsAtlanta See Agency Profile 99 reads

posted 5 years ago

8 / 17

Probably

Got ghosted women tend to do it with no explanation. U probably did something to creep her out during ur last session and she probably didnt remembered till she seen ur face when u pulled up. My advice move on and patronize some one who appreciates ur buisness

winchester 1 186 Reviews 94 reads

posted 5 years ago

9 / 17

Re: Hmmm

Posted By: CantQuitWontQuit

Re: Hmmm
Yes, it was a new incall

Doesn't sound like you actually read the post, like where I explained my attempts to contact her, but okay

Well.....I did read it.....your questions prompted many possible responses and in the response you posted to my response....I'm seeing why she ghosted you !! Have a Nice Day !!

ValdostaKid 22 Reviews 111 reads

posted 5 years ago

10 / 17

Marta

This sounds sexist however it can apply to men or women, in this case it is a woman

women are like Marta buses, stand at the stop long enough another one will come by to your liking.

If she ghosted you and you are out nothing but time then move on and look for the next bus

CantQuitWontQuit 89 reads

posted 5 years ago

11 / 17

Good point, thanks to all for responding (except for the WK)

I appreciate it as I’m trying to do what’s best for all concerned in the community

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 88 reads

posted 5 years ago

12 / 17

Not a professional provider.

If you had seen her many times previously why has she not reached out to you? She does not appreciate your business, nor does she respect your time. She could have a pimp. She may have double booked. Who knows...

The fact is she doesn't care. You stated she was on p411 logged on attempting to catch another date. lol It's funny when I read the comments this is a cash hand business, don't send money, it's a scam. BS. Find you a me. Someone who respects you & your time.

Move on. She obviously did. You get what you get when dealing with non-professional providers. This is a business, and not just a cash business. Professional providers accept all forms of money because were smart. Cashapp, Venmo, Paypal, Zelle, Crypto Currency, and so many other fun options.

CantQuitWontQuit 86 reads

posted 5 years ago

13 / 17

Re: Not a professional provider.

Thank you Queen Bia

Hopefully you will come to Atlanta some time

foguete69 38 Reviews 85 reads

posted 5 years ago

14 / 17

strange behavior indeed!

Makes no sense unless....
A life changing event happened at that exact moment such as
Hubby decided to come home early or she was trippin on some acid or
whatever people trip with. otherwise she owes you an apology and a free make
up session.

Give her a week initiate contact and if she won't pick up name her.

souperman 7 Reviews 77 reads

posted 5 years ago

15 / 17

Re: Hmmm

I agree! All his messages make me wonder what’s really going on here?!

winchester 1 186 Reviews 99 reads

posted 5 years ago

16 / 17

Hmmm

Time to move on !!! Perhaps there is someone you've seen in the past that you could connect with !!

It is what it is....more important to you that to her !!

CantQuitWontQuit 100 reads

posted 5 years ago

17 / 17

Thanks for the clear response, sounds like a good balance, def not WK

That is what I will do for the best interests of all concerned.