Sounds like you've given her plenty of time to respond. Assuming you're not a creep (which is sounds you aren't) the NCNS was not justified. Providers are always going on and on about how valuable their time is, requiring deposits and blackslists for noncompliance. I can promise you that my hourly time is more costly as it relates to my income than any provider I have ever seen. I'd post it - with it the caveat, "I welcome (so and so) to respond or contact me with an explanation and I'd gladly delete this post or add to it that the situation has been explained and rectified." just my two cents.
I’m trying to decide what’s the smartest approach here.
She literally was on the phone talking me through the apartment complex to her I call when she cut off . I tried calling her back at least 10 times and it went to voicemail.
I finally gave up and left; I sent her an email the next day (Friday) and one last message.
Nothing.
It’s really weird,I’ve seen her several times and went really well, so I’m very concerned and confused.
Here’s the kicker, I noticed she logged into her p411 page every day starting Saturday. (I only know because I went to that page to see if there was a different phone number or email address I could try Herat).
So now I’m actually getting pissed.
What do you think is the best way to handle this for all concerned?
Was she asking for gift cards or cashapp for a deposit? That’s a scam going on now. NEVER pay in advance. This is a cash in hand business at least until you know each other pretty damned well.
He said he's seen her several times and had enjoyable experiences, so how would it be a scam?
Sounds like you've given her plenty of time to respond. Assuming you're not a creep (which is sounds you aren't) the NCNS was not justified. Providers are always going on and on about how valuable their time is, requiring deposits and blackslists for noncompliance. I can promise you that my hourly time is more costly as it relates to my income than any provider I have ever seen. I'd post it - with it the caveat, "I welcome (so and so) to respond or contact me with an explanation and I'd gladly delete this post or add to it that the situation has been explained and rectified." just my two cents.
You stated you had seen her several times....yet she was walking you thru the apartment complex....had she changed locations> maybe the complex manager came to the apartment....maybe law enforcement showed up....have you attempted to contact her since that day? Probably had a viable reason to blow you off!!
Yes, it was a new incall
Doesn't sound like you actually read the post, like where I explained my attempts to contact her, but okay
I'd wait a short time for things to cool down, then try to make another appointment with her. If she follows through, chalk it up to her having a bad day. If she doesn't respond, you know it's time to move on without the need of knowing why.
Got ghosted women tend to do it with no explanation. U probably did something to creep her out during ur last session and she probably didnt remembered till she seen ur face when u pulled up. My advice move on and patronize some one who appreciates ur buisness
This sounds sexist however it can apply to men or women, in this case it is a woman
women are like Marta buses, stand at the stop long enough another one will come by to your liking.
If she ghosted you and you are out nothing but time then move on and look for the next bus
I appreciate it as I’m trying to do what’s best for all concerned in the community
If you had seen her many times previously why has she not reached out to you? She does not appreciate your business, nor does she respect your time. She could have a pimp. She may have double booked. Who knows...
The fact is she doesn't care. You stated she was on p411 logged on attempting to catch another date. lol It's funny when I read the comments this is a cash hand business, don't send money, it's a scam. BS. Find you a me. Someone who respects you & your time.
Move on. She obviously did. You get what you get when dealing with non-professional providers. This is a business, and not just a cash business. Professional providers accept all forms of money because were smart. Cashapp, Venmo, Paypal, Zelle, Crypto Currency, and so many other fun options.
Thank you Queen Bia
Hopefully you will come to Atlanta some time
Makes no sense unless....
A life changing event happened at that exact moment such as
Hubby decided to come home early or she was trippin on some acid or
whatever people trip with. otherwise she owes you an apology and a free make
up session.
Give her a week initiate contact and if she won't pick up name her.
That is what I will do for the best interests of all concerned.
Time to move on !!! Perhaps there is someone you've seen in the past that you could connect with !!
It is what it is....more important to you that to her !!
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