I have a provider that I consider to be a friend above and beyond the hobby. We text on a regular basis. I say this only to point out that we are friendly beyond business and she would never ask me to come and visit just because she needed the money. That is a line you just don't cross. The client should always initiate a get together. You are not an ATM. Don't act like one.
She recently called me and given the inconsistent level of service that she delivers, I asked her if she was in the mood for a quality session. Well she stated that she really wasn't and she went on to say that men must walk around horny all the tme and that women need to be in the mood etc.
I get that but at the same time this is a service that she offers and I am a paying customer and would have thought that she would be a bit more customer sensitive.
Am I over reacting and has anyone else experinced similiar situations. Don't get me wrong I know that sometimes providers act during sessions and the experience for them is not real however it is a service and the hobbyist deserves to feel at least like the provider is somewhat interested in the quality of the service.
Thoughts?
Hey yall had a interesting experience with a provider and was wondering if this is common. I know that it is probably real but I wonder is it common practice. Have a provider that calls me from time to time to come and see her as a hobbyist. Sometimes she is good and sometimes she is obviously going through the motions (code for not being interested other than getting $$$).
She recently called me and given the inconsistent level of service that she delivers, I asked her if she was in the mood for a quality session. Well she stated that she really wasn't and she went on to say that men must walk around horny all the tme and that women need to be in the mood etc.
I get that but at the same time this is a service that she offers and I am a paying customer and would have thought that she would be a bit more customer sensitive.
Am I over reacting and has anyone else experinced similiar situations. Don't get me wrong I know that sometimes providers act during sessions and the experience for them is not real however it is a service and the hobbyist deserves to feel at least like the provider is somewhat interested in the quality of the service.
Thoughts?
I have a provider that I consider to be a friend above and beyond the hobby. We text on a regular basis. I say this only to point out that we are friendly beyond business and she would never ask me to come and visit just because she needed the money. That is a line you just don't cross. The client should always initiate a get together. You are not an ATM. Don't act like one.
She recently called me and given the inconsistent level of service that she delivers, I asked her if she was in the mood for a quality session. Well she stated that she really wasn't and she went on to say that men must walk around horny all the tme and that women need to be in the mood etc.
I get that but at the same time this is a service that she offers and I am a paying customer and would have thought that she would be a bit more customer sensitive.
Am I over reacting and has anyone else experinced similiar situations. Don't get me wrong I know that sometimes providers act during sessions and the experience for them is not real however it is a service and the hobbyist deserves to feel at least like the provider is somewhat interested in the quality of the service.
Thoughts?
Thoughts....
Well a few friends like weed and I have had to bluntly tell them to not call when smoking.
Some have been similar to what you describe, but have been/are long time regulars to guys I referred them to.(connection)
Some choose to do this as a last resort and rarely does that turn out well(heavy users generally)
Stress also seems to be a common situation also.Unless you have chemistry & history many times you will be disappointed.
We are called by many: tricks...johns..etc, If you have given respect and are not receiving it, then your not the problem...so you can't fix it. Accept & move on ...Good luck sir
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I guess one would have to have a matching definitin of the word "common". Yeah, I kinda would use that word.
You have 8 reviews and probably many more dates than that. With that being said, if you are just now running into this I would say you have been pretty lucky. I myself experienced this WAY before you!
Yep, "well reviewed", did my research and we have a large selection here in south Florida .
One lady .......First date went pretty damn well. Second date, yeah, not too bad so I am hopefully seen as becoming a new regular and tell her so after that second date. Third date .......Her coke dealer must have been busy which made her 2 hours late - her eyes and nose were a dead give away. She literally just laid there ! I mean LAID THERE ............Sent her a NICE email in the afternoon the next day and her reply did not indicate anything "wrong" on her part . I've heard the ladies usually will offer a discount or something to make up for a bad date, but this did not happen. I never called her again and a month or two later I get and e mail asking "How are you babe, miss you ". I never responded .
Next lady ............WOW what a great time ! Just a little slut that fucked my brains out and went for a second round that went an hour beyond our time and she did not care or ask for any extra $$$. HELL YEAH !!!! Second date - I SWEAR ...............Dressed like a street hooker , slutty and I did not mind really as she was HOT .........Start off with a BJ on the couch , moved to the bedroom and she states "Lets get you off , I gotta go get my sister at the airport" - WTF ? I booked a 2 hour date and your going to pick up you sister dressed like that ? We proceed to start fucking and it's OK...........She moves on top and starts CRYING ! Yep , crying while riding me . I ended it right there , gave her half the donation, and that was that.
Yeah , your going to run into it. Common - I tend to kinda think so. Back channelling has been my BEST tool. MANY gents have told me to ignore the reveiw " Here is the real deal on her "....WOW , great info thanks - "NEXT !"
I research well reviewed ladies, but outta those I bet only half get a thumbs up when I email the guys who have seen her !
I have a few providers I exchange texts and pleasantries with. A couple I have even met with without a session. Occasionally I will try and set something up and be told "To be honest, I am swamped/busy/distracted, I would love to see you, but I won't be at my best." We save it for another time and she secures a spot in my trusted list.
Rarely, but sometimes in the course of chat/text, I have had a provider say "I am really horny,,,want to come by." and I can answer however I am feeling. Even had a session or two discounted for "Whatever you have on you.". I am not all that good looking, but I am honest, nice and like to please, I have become friends with these women and sometimes it leads to different things. NEVER do I feel they expect or demand and vice versa. NOTE...all of this is based on ongoing friendships. If a provider were to send me texts or contact me in pursuit of an appointment without prior discussion of texting me first (Small time frame it's ok for a VERY few ladies) then that lady, nice or not would go on my DNA list and I would likely not see her again.
Long answer to say...totally inappropriate. From a guy who rather enjoys "kind of inappropriate". LOL
I just want to say to all of you thanks for the feedback. I genuiely appreciate it. I probably should have stopped the unsolicited calls when they started to happen. I now have the feeling that this woman thinks I am romantically interested in her and I never meant to give her that impression. She actually called me today and I attempted to reset expectations around personal and professional behavior.
I thought that perhaps I had did something wrong. Don't want any drama, just trying to enjoy the hobby.
Once again thanks for taking the time to provide feedback.
It is a service when it is beneficial an convenient to the provider. It is button pushing time at all other times.
Sure, attacks are coming, shoot.
She recently called me and given the inconsistent level of service that she delivers, I asked her if she was in the mood for a quality session. Well she stated that she really wasn't and she went on to say that men must walk around horny all the tme and that women need to be in the mood etc.
I get that but at the same time this is a service that she offers and I am a paying customer and would have thought that she would be a bit more customer sensitive.
Am I over reacting and has anyone else experinced similiar situations. Don't get me wrong I know that sometimes providers act during sessions and the experience for them is not real however it is a service and the hobbyist deserves to feel at least like the provider is somewhat interested in the quality of the service.
Thoughts?