It is amazing how you can send a detailed list of instructions via email, lots of back and forth, and then you get there and the provider has done whatever she felt like or even the exact opposite of the request (clothing, hairstyle, perfume or not, etc.). It is just flat out disrespectful and starts the mood sour.
Absent instructions, I take whatever I get.
But, yes, spotless facilities are important. I hate having to take another shower, because the incall shower was so dirty. Also, the bed sheets, sometimes I get the feeling that some other dude's junk was just where my head is, on these very sheets (or top of comforter). Obviously clean and spotless sheets are nice.
Just cause I like my girls to be dirty, doesn't mean I want them to be dirty.
Think of it this way. When you go to a store and you've had a decent or good or even great shopping experience, and then you get stuck waiting in a long line to check out; your last impression that the whole experience was that it was time consuming, and more registers should have been opened, but since the store either was too stingy to hire enough people or they had people but couldn't give a crap that you are waiting, maybe you won't go back or you will only go back if you have to, or you will go back but you'll try another place first.
Ladies, you are in retail. From the entrance to the exit, if you are good at this job, you have steps to follow, and it's not all about bullshitting before and after the deed to secure GFE status.
I recall Sianna Gold had a routine for when you arrived and when you left, it made a difference; I repeated (and I don't often repeat, "One and Done is my motto").
- eom