Fact is Men prefer younger woman, and Woman prefer older men. This goes for dating and providing.

As for why woman prefer older men, I have my opinions, but that's a question only woman can answer.

so many providers say the prefer "older gentlemen". Thy cynic in me can't help but wonder if it's because us older guys are easy to get off. And rarely are we up  for a 2nd pop. We're not the young 20 and 30 somethings that we used to be and able to wear it out for a long time before cumming. I'm now in  my mid 50's and if I can get a decent erection for 4 or 5 minutes, I'm tickled to death. I realize I'm just speaking for myself.

I prefer 35 and up!   Friends, Boyfriends or clients.  When I was 21 I was in a 16 1/2 year age difference relationship.  Older men ARE NOT easier to get off.  I can tell by how I'm addressed via email without even asking the age if the guy is younger than 35.  Speaking for myself...I just like what I like!                                                          CC

are genuinely attracted to older gentlemen.  I can attest to that personally.  On a related note, many also find men with confidence to be appealing.  So think about that the next time you're being a cynic about your age, as it may project an undesirable trait (if you're concerned about that sort of thing).

Thanks for the advice.......maybe if I could still  get an erection, like I used to, that you could drive nails with........... I'd have more confidence.  LOL

"After all, when we were Seven's age, we were getting it for free".

Here's a thought. If Seven is so young and studly, why is he having to pay for pussy? The way he sounds, young ladies should be lined up waiting for their turn with him, lol.

It's that the young guys are less desierable from a business perspective.
older guys tend to have more disposable money, be more reliable, less prone to the crazy drama that comes with youth. etc, etc.
I doubt it's our receeding hair line and expanding waistline.  

Now i need to go take a nap...
~cheers

I just hear a woman's voice and get aroused- I love this stuff! and,,,,if I'm going out on a $300 "date", then add a regular Cialis. I am good for 60 minutes (really). Before that- well, it all had to be a perfect allignment of the planets

I imagine that one thing that makes an older gentleman more is appealing is his lack of drama.  

I've personally had to deal with younger guys who want to call for a date very late at night (read: after the cheetah closes), can't navigate his own way over in the cab, negotiate about the donation, try to bring a friend along, screw like he's on a mission and then won't get he hell out.  

I've never had this experience on a date with an older gentleman.  They're from the old school;where the respect a woman and her time.  I really think that's what the bottom line is; they can appreciate the situation and don't f* it up with any BS.  

I absolutely prefer a date with an older man- for this reason and others.

I dunno… just my 2 cents.

I think there are a few reasons why a provider may claim she prefers "older" gentlemen.

1. This hobby is dominated by older men, so saying you prefer older men makes that older man feel a little more special  or wanted. In reality, very very few woman are turned on by saggy balls, wrinkled skin and everthing else that comes with age. If a woman who is 21 says she is attracted to men in their 30's or 40's, ok possible, but 50's and 60's, LOL highly doubt it.

2. Even with Viagra and all the other boosters, some older man can only go once, barely get it up to complete and also the chance  of making a quick $300 or $400 by talking to someone for 60mins or having them perform oral on you, what provider will pass up that easy money.

3. Some older guys are more established in life which means higher income or a deeper hobby fund. If a provider rocks his world more than likely he will become a regular. He is a little more gullable than a younger guy, may even get attached and start buying gifts, expensive gifts along with the session fee.  Can anyone say Sugar Daddy? A younger guy like myself, I get a provider for my pleasure, to have services performed on me. I am the one who paid. I don't always succeed but I try and get 2-3 shots in. If a provider only saw younger guys with that mentality she would have to take the next day off.

As for young guys causing drama and immaturity, I am sure it happens at times. I know personally I am there for one reason and reason only. I don't do gifts and I could never get attached mentally or physically.

This is no knock on older guys, this is not a knock on any provider but man, do we have some people full of it on booth ends.

I agree with the previous poster who said that older gentlemen tend to bring less drama.  I don't like phone calls at 4am, I don't like disrespectful emails and I don't like haggling over donation.  This seems to come more from younger gentlemen than older.

Not only that, but every man that I have dated has been at least or above 10 years my senior.  A tad bit more maturity, both mentally and sexually.  Something about an established man who knows what he wants really gets me going.

Speaking of full of it.  Seven pretty much used his own experiences to validate the point why some women, and not all, do prefer older, more mature, gentlemen.  Providers are not just a piece of meat to be toyed with for some guys sole pleasure and sadistic amusement.  They are women first (even young women) who deserve to be treated with respect.  The question is not who a woman might want to marry or with whom she wishes to engage in a serious relationship.  The question is do providers prefer older vs. younger men to conduct their business and earn their income (and in most cases the money is definitely earned.)  Maybe Seven is there for his one reason only, and it is just that attitude that leads to the providers' preference for an older gentleman.  Gullibility comes in all ages, my friend.  Personally, I prefer to use my experience to try to please the woman I am with as well.  Maybe you should try that sometime.  Personally, I don't have saggy balls or wrinkled skin (I will lay claim to too much of a beer belly lol), and I have no problem with keeping it up as long as I want and need without the need of stimulants.  Don't speak from ignorance, although reading your post makes that ignorance obvious.  Happy hunting!

Many medical reasons can cause it and there are plenty of treatments than you think. Amount of alcohol, sugar, triglycirides, food you eat, the amount of exercise, general fitness and weel being.

No I am not kidding.

Where and whom do you hangout? At AA? Drunks with gallon jugs?

"He is a little more gullable than a younger guy, may even get attached and start buying gifts, expensive gifts along with the session fee".

What is gullable?

Is that right?

Let's be honest with each other

Providers are in this game for mainly 2 reasons.

1. They enjoy sex
2. They enjoy money even more

Hobbyist enjoy this hobby for mainly 2 reasons

1. They enjoy sex with a woman of their choice when they want
2. Companionship

I never understand the fluff that comes from these posts. Sure not all old men come fast but enjoying a older client over a younger one is purely a buisness preference.
No one should ever hassle you about payment, but an older man pockets are a little deeper(maybe) and of course has been in the hobby a long time. He not only knows your rules and also just general norms about the hobby.
A major trend I notice is the Provider makes him feel special and he makes you feel special. I am sorry but I am not going to perfrom DATY for 60 mins, buy expensive gifts in addition to the normal fee and tip just for your time. Does than mean I am not a gentleman? I am not a fool. I know what our meeting is, nothing more nothing less.
When I see a provider, I choose one who has the physical attributes I would enjoy. I want to perform well and as many times as I can and when I am done. I am done. I don't need the conversation, I feel a provider who likes to talk, wants to talk and who has great conversations is a great thing but 9/10 when I am done I hop in the shower chat for 5 more mins and Im out.

Great topic, but considering this forum is dominated by older men I don't expect too many honest opinions. I never do from TER. Some of the older woman stating they enjoy older guys are in their 40s.

Understand this guys, I never meant any disrespect or to hurt anyone of you hobbyist feelings. Not my intentions. I understood the OP quite clear therfore I stated my opinion. Sure it differs from situation to situation but I listen to some of you guys talk and you just worship the ground that these woman walk on a little tooooo much.

I respect woman and I respect these providers.

Just about all of the woman I have seen have been pretty freakin great. I hope while I was insider her she wasn't thinking " Gosh, I wish he was 50"

The comment about wrinkles and saggy whatever was a joke. Let's not get all emotional.

For the love of God, please stop making us all look bad! I think we all grasp your point. I appreciate your right to state your opinion and you have made some valid assertions. But I think the point you are missing is that even if you aren't going to fall in love with a woman, even if you are a client and she is a provider...you should still treat her like a lady. All women are treasures dude - and in my experience, the providers of Atlanta glitter brighter than most.

@ Donovan

When did I ever say to not treat a Provider like a lady?

Either I have come across the wrong way or hit a sensitive topic.

Maybe I should just leave this one alone but once again some of you guys are laughable

I have no illusions that a hot babe in her 20's or 30's is seeing me for my looks or sexual prowness.  Lol. But then again, none of the providers I've seen have any delusion that I'm going to "take them away from all this" or make their problems go away.  It's a business transaction which we try to make  as pleasant as possible for one another.  A few observations.
1.I always show up on time.
2. I make sure my breath's fresh, I dont dress like a slob, and I make sure make sure I'm clean.
3. I realize she's got a tough, potentially dangerous job.  I try to pit her at ease, treat her with respect, show a sense of humor, and make sure she feels safe and comfortable with me.
4. No providers ever made me feel old or indicate in any way they didn't want to be with me.  None have ever  rushed me out the door.  We spend a lOt of time just talking because I enjoy talking with women I have sex with.  They apparently enjoy having someone listen to them talk about their lives, hopes and dreams.  If I can offer any advice, I will.
5. When my times up, I offer to leave.  If I stay over, it's because she asks me to.
6. I try to read her signals.  If she doesnt want to dfk I don't thrust my tongue down her throat.  Same with daty.  Some women want it, some don't.
7. I don't treat her like a whore.  She doesn't treat me like a John.
8, I feel lucky as hell to be able to spend an intimate hour or so with a beautiful , cool, together woman who's got hopes and dreams that I can do my small part to help her get closer to.  

I assume most of the other "older" guys have similar attitudes.  After all, when we were Seven's age, we were getting it for free, so hopefully we learned something about women then.

You aren't as old as me (based on what you said). I have no problem. See the doctor, check your health and use the pill if you need to. It works. Cialis worked somewhat for me but the blue pill does the job every time.

Your age is showing, son

Talk about gullible.  Let me enlighten you, son:  

Women and men are very different when it comes to what they find attractive.  While most of us (meaning men) fixate on the physical, women's ideals of attraction are much more complex.  Intelligence, confidence, MATURITY, and a myriad of other traits and qualities come into play when it comes to what attracts them.  Think about it.  How many handsome young fellows have their advances rebuffed by women?  How many one night stands get derailed as a result of saying one stupid thing over that last drink?  Boyish looks aren't a bad thing, but you're really over emphasizing their importance.  Which, ironically, is a sign of your immaturity.  An average looking man with something interesting to say has a far better chance than a pretty boy with nothing more in his playbook than "so what do you do?" And a man with a few experiences under his belt just may have a far better chance than a beer-pong playing frat boy.  

Even if we consider only the physical aspect of it, quite a few women do find a tested, mature appearance to be attractive.  Wrinkles, crow's feet, and sliver hair give a gentlemen a distinguished look that many women find irresistible.  So your statement that "very very few women" find age to be attractive is plain incorrect.

I could talk all night about how and why you're wrong, but many women who state they prefer older gentlemen actually do - civilian or provider.  You'll understand when you get a little older, young fellow.

His business either way. The question is not whether the ladies are full of shit about a preference for older men, but why a young dude who supposedly thinks that all the ladies would rather see him than an older guy is paying for it in the 1st place?

I'm mid 30's and just happy to be here...

Sir Cumalot

Unless they are seeing you for free they aren't seeing any of us because we are so studly, or handsome, or charming. This is a business, and what "they" prefer are guys that don't make their job something that they hate.

As for Mike's dumbass comments. speak for yourself asshole. I am in my fifties and have no problems fucking for the entire hour, something I could not do in my twenties. So in my case at least your theories go right out the window..

I can't speak for these other spineless wonders, but I pay for sex without any strings attached, not time, not companionship. I pay partly for the sex and partly for the freedom to walk out the door and never have to give her a second unless I choose to. That's what I pay for, and I consider it a bargain.

I mean really, just how pathetic does your life have to be for you to need to pay someone hundreds of dollars an hour just to keep you company?

You should have stated it instead of making huge generalization. Here is another tid bit for you, I see couple of providers we genuinely like each other and have very interesting and stimulating conversations and hang out together off-clock. What do you make of that? Gullible? Dumb? Stupid?

I am 50, well groomed, physically fit and still can 3 mile's in about 18 minutes flat! How about that for your stereo typing. Don't worry, you will be there too soon enough!

Plenty of companionship without providers. For reason #1 only. I am being honest, dude. If you are young as you say and you are seeing providers for companionship, there is something terrible wrong with you dude.

Being honest!

Do you think people here are emotional in rebutting your stupid statement? or pissed at you for making grand generalization exhibiting your immaturity and limited knowledge of the real world.

I have suspicion that you are more gullible than you think you are.

Stop digging deeper.

Why would a guy in his 20's see a Provider? Simply because he enjoys sex with all different types of woman. Old, young, white, black, it doesn't matter, whatever floats my boat. When I want sex, I want it then, whether from a provider or a regular woman.

Yes, my opinions were sterotypes, broad generalizations and what not,  but they were true for some older men and true for other hobbyist as well. If my comments did not apply to you then ignore them. If you notice in one of my post I stated 50 and 60 yr old men, so Yes, I stand by my word. If you are that old and think a 20 yr old provider is seeing you for other than your wallet, sure go ahead and believe it.

I do not deny that fact that somewomen enjoy the company of an older man who is maybe 10 or 15 years her senior for a multitude of reasons. If you are a handsome, well groomed in some type of descent shape male, etc  it is not shocking if a younger woman is attracted to you. However if you are the complete opposite and think so, you are probably in a fantasy world

As I stated earlier, I had no intentions on triggering any pissed off hobbyist.

I was simply shooting from the hip as to some reasons why and are they sterotypes, YES, are they generalizations YES but are they true in some cases YES. Like I said if it doesn't apply to you don't respond

I never claimed to be a studly man, I never claimed a provider would enjoy me over a much older man.

I am just a guy who enjoys sex.

P.S. # 2 Companionship was a generalization of why anyone into the hobby may see a provider

if you're not staying home and masturbating, then you're paying for company

I pay for to simply fuck the one I want to fuck. I have plenty company other than an hour with provider. Do you think everyone here is pathetic losser as you are.

Speak for yourself. I bet you cannot carry on a conversation with a good looikng women, even if they start one with you.

Well let me say this,
I've been in this hobby a few years now and I am on the younger side (20's). I've seen providers around my age and a few older. I've never had a problem. I realize that some providers don't like to see younger guys and always ask her particular preferences when communicating. If she says no, then I move on. No big deal. However, I am always respectful and that has taken me a long way in this hobby and in my civvie life.

That is all

I think you've hit the nail on the head, Ginger.   Being respectful, kind and caring goes along way on both sides of the equation!  I know it is a business.....but afterall......it's also life!

Great discussion guys, I have recieved so much wisdom that now I have the maturity of a man in his late 50s. I have also began to sprinkle actual salt and pepper in my hair to give me a more George Clooney like appearence.... Just kidding.

But really, I hope we can all have a beer one day, lets not take comments and postings that obviously don't apply to you in particular so seriously.

Some of you made the comment about me being young and not having woman lined up around the corner. Well, I never claimed to be a stud, just pointed out that me, being a younger guy, I take pride in my physical appearence just like some of you older gentleman may do as well. It does not matter if you are in your 20's or 50's and you partake in this hobby, either way you are in this hobby. It's like me saying " Whaaat, you pay for sex, shouldn't you be married with kids who have kids of their own by now."

No, that's not my style but I will say If older men are so attractive I guess you guys too should have woman lined up at your door as well, right?

And what is up with so many taking the alias route? If you want to call me your son, please use your actual name, or PM. You get no respect trying to "enlighten" me while hiding.

Befriending a provider and claiming you have great conversations and all the other things that go along with that is companionship

To all the providers, whether you like em old or young, hopefully when our time comes it will be great. I will be a gentleman and I try to clean up nice. I understand exactly what our encounter is, nothing more nothing less. I put the envelope where you desire, no questions asked. I aim to please, hoping I am pleased as well. I don't pay for conversations but of course I want to communicate effectively. When it's all said and done I'm just trying to get lost in eachother for 60mins, that is it.

I wanna kiss, lick (can't reveal where), fuck, talk dirty (but not w/o asking 1st), and get some dirty talk back (makes ole love commando excell).

Also, just exploring a young lady's body and smelling the perfume of it all esp. DATY is an erotic trip like no other.

Hey I'm 50 somethin and having a great time.

GT

...Than older men:

One word: man-scaping.

C'mon, George Cloonies- the ladies will love ya for it!

I am sure viagra, cialis and levitra have all changed the game for older gents so I can see the ladies points on getting us off lol.  I think as several ladies have said it comes down to maturity.  I have just gotten out of a relationship with a young lady who is a little over half my age (I am fast closing in on 50).  It was a learning experience for both of us which is what made it interesting.  She was happy to benefit from my experience and I was exposed to current culture which has at least made me mentally younger.  Unfortunately I am now the only middle aged man hanging out at alternative music concerts lol.

You come off as young punk that doesn't know his ass from his elbow.

You could learn a thing or two from these older guys.

Franklins and Grants just make them feel better than Jacksons and Lincolns.

Experience is a great equalizer, but ability to spend is better.  I have been there and done that on the relationship thing, do not really want it, but I do think you develop degrees of friendship.  Plus knowing how to create mystic of seduction and romance without the attachments is great.  

You are also overlooking one key fact of life, opposites do attract.  But we can save that topic

Some of your points have validity but your spot on with one thing.  I am not old just older.

The girl would be 5yo.    

I have lots of sessions with ladies 15-25 years younger than me.  Sometimes we have sexercise, sometimes we have 'romantic' evenings, sometime we have fantasy role-play, many many variations.  

Companionship, friendship, seduction, are all words that are elements to rented interaction, designed to make and hour to an overnight pleasant for all involved.  Especially when seeing someone on regular basis

Trust me, we 50+ guys are not delusional (unless in pre-demensia then we start acting like the op).  We know the value of our wealth, we know what it takes to earn, and when we invest more in a year in a hobby than the op makes at his burger king job, we like to make sure we get 'value'.  Many of us understand the lost skills of courtesy, complement, & consideration.

Several ladies who are plus 30-35 have mentioned to me how 20something guys call them frequently.  Which begs the thought that OP may have overlooked,  do opposites attract?  Might be answer to some of the mystery regarding look score