I just had a call tonight from a guy that wanted an appt at 11 or 12 midnight at the airport Mariott - no references, 33 years old, white male and put the pressure on....! I'm sorry, but I don't see anybody when they pressure me or force me to say that I will or will not go, especially without a reference or some kind of reasurance that I will be safe and at the time of night.
(email me for the information)

I really don't feel comfortable about being pressured into anything and I declined the appt very quickly.

Corey Edwards


-- Modified on 7/8/2003 6:27:50 PM

Corey, I had a call tonight from a guy staying at the same hotel, wanting to see me after 9 pm tonight. I declined for safety reasons also. Very strange.

Annya

How can someone pressure you by phone when you can just hang up. How about we post your real name and address. What you did is not cool. You had no valid reason for posting this guys name and number.

It must be the summer  heat making wackoo's and crazy's coming out of the wood works.

Ladies be careful out there. One too many bad news this week

She knows what she did...I have done it before, and that was my mistake...Our clients know where we work and/or live, what we drive, what we look like, and maybe even what our children look like....GET OVER IT!!!!!!!!!!

Here's a quarter..sick of the hypocrites...

Sofia

I don't get it. What is wrong with posting name and phone number of a suspicious act ? Isn't it warning others from harm?  How do you know it is his real Name and phone number.

Phone # don't mean sh........ you can get a throw away phone just like a Bic Lighter these days aka prepaid mobile phone QT. Don't put too much credibility on phone numbers any more.

Honesty and honor is two way street.  The best option is to treat the ladies with respect, kindness and treat them like you enjoy being with them. If not what is the point of being hobbyst, you are not having a good time any way, noe reason to spend money and punish yourself.  It is better to get out of the hobby then.

There is no point in bringing up privacy issues when there are supects lurking around, especially considering the recent events.

Like Sofia said, GET OVER IT.

I usually don't get involved in flame wars, but your comments are absolutely silly.  The problem with posting names, phone numbers, pics, disparaging comments, threats, whines, etc, etc, etc is that there is no assurance that the information gathered by the provider is absolutely correct.  In fact, in this case, she has no confirmation such as a look at a driver's license to be sure that the information published is accurate.  

I fully agree that the ladies should be treated with the utmost respect.  That is simply part of the service equation.  However, respect is a two-way proposition.  I would suggest that a public forum is never, ever, a place to post a summary of personal information.  Tell me, would you really seek to visit a provider who had an uneasy feeling about a potential client, then splashed the personal info all over the net?  The next time you are talking to her, and sneeze, you should hope that she does not spread the news that you are 'diseased' and should not be considered worthy.  Yeah, I know, equally ridiculous, but isn't that what we have here?  A continuing stream of gross over-reaction?

Since your comments indicate that it's OK to publish personal info, why not be the leader in the trend.  Would you kindly post your verifiable e-mail address, home phone, work phone, name, job position, next of kin, financial statement, credit card number, mother's maiden name, and make and model of your auto?

All in all, let's cool it!   All that this series of message threads has proven is that there is very little true honor among many (not all) of the provider and of the hobbyist community.  I, for one, will be dealing with those who are demonstrated to be trustworthy, provide value for services, and can conduct themselves in a civil manner.

I am not silly, there is absolutely no way, I will ever try to defend any one with malicious intent, actual or precieved.

By the way, the posting was my opinion and not flame. Please try to keep the difference mind.